Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.

I was at a conference session this morning for the Staff of the University.. It was oki.. I got free drinks. lol the session was about Leadership and team work at your work place.. Yah.. I guess you got to also have passion about your work.. Do I? hehe.. I bitch all day about my work… now I go to this session and some guy is telling me.. you got to have passion and team work.. if you don’t.. then most likely it is not your place to be.. hmmm.. ok ok.. i will look for another job.. looooooool yah .. hmm..

Other then that.. I spent the rest of the day doing nothing much.. Just watching TV.. yesterday was the first episode of the apprentice.. First of all. I didn’t know they were gonna put it.. and on a Monday? heheh.. I guess afraid to put it again on thursday nights cuz of American Idol.. but I fell asleep half way through the episode.. it was that boring!! Where do they get these clown from… Seriously… business men and women.. millionairs practically.. and they act like idiots and make the stupidest decisions!! Team work my ass.. they are all bossy and cannot work with anyone.. So pathetic… I thought I was bad.. but watching professionals do this is beyond rediculous!!

I give Apprentice this season two thumbs down! I will still watch it cuz there is nothing else to watch on Monday nights!! lol

Well.. I don’t remember ever mentioning my fishies ever on my site.. but yes. I have fisihies! I got 4.. 3 goldfish and one plecko (cat fish)… Their names are Karoush. (orange one). Mimi (black one with huge tail). Fifi (black one with smaller tail). And the plecko I named it Sucker cuz it sucks on the wall all day. lol That’s what they do.. eat algea!
Here are some pics.. but the plecko was hidden..

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A fan of my site emailed me just a few minutes ago these links about women in Islam and islam in general.. So I decided to post them here!

http://www.themodernreligion.com/women/w_comparison_full.htm
http://www.themodernreligion.com/w_main.htm
http://www.islamfortoday.com/women.htm
http://www.al-islam.org/rightsofwomeninislam
http://www.uga.edu/islam/Islamwomen.html
http://www.islamfortoday.com/

I was told by a fellow nerdy friend to take this test.. and so I did.. ehm ehm.. Really.. This test proves nothing!

Really.. I am just so sick and tired of having to read on message boards by so called intellectual males that arabic women should control them selves.. should be obedient.. blah blah.. what the hell! In what year do we live in.. My lord.. I thought people have changed.. I guess not.. same mentality.. I don’t want to think about how foolish some people are.. To me independence is defined in the following things. Financially independent, intellectual, self-reliant.. etc.. stuff that makes us Rebellious women depend on our self. That’s it! No one else. I mean I have to agree.. a married women should obey and listen her husband.. That’s normal.. It’s called respect.. but being a slave and the final word and the only word goes back to the guy.. no comprimising.. nothing.. that’s beyong BS.. There has to be equality! No doubt about it! I can’t stand seeing married women literally “afraid” of their husbands.. and what they will do to them if they are late.. didn’t cook good food.. etc.. aah.. what’s up with that? Where are the nice sweet “smart” guys out there who want a smart intellectual woman!! What’s up with that.. !! I’m rebelling against primitive Arabic guys! Or guys in general who still think women are beneath their feet.. So disgusting.. shame on you males who think that way.. Oh.. I also know a few guys (aka I cannot name them).. lol that want a woman who works and they be lazy and not work.. if your out there come here so I can slap you for a bit and tell you to get off your ass and be a man! loool