Judgemental People
I have suffered a lot in the past of accusation, assumptions, and people saying the stupidest things towards me. Not only that, people who don’t know you judge you based on what you write or chat about for like 5 minutes. I don’t get it. Like I am reading this book “Blink”, and it is describing how we judge people from the first 2 seconds of interacting with them. First 2 seconds you can tell what a person is??? Whatever! wtf I don’t believe it. I never judge people from first meeting them or talking to them. I find it absurd. What right do I have to judge others without knowing them? If a person is having a bad day and seems grouchy, do I stereotype that person as being a mean, moody, grouchy, unfriendly person? NO! That is pathetic. Who ever thinks like that is not right. I honestly did not finish the book because I found it stupid. It is too analytical and psychological. I think psychologist do too many tests on a selected norm and call that statistical analysis. My ass! Anyways.. I am pissed with some real people out there. People out there that judge you on a thing you say, or the way you look, or the way you dress. Common. Are people that shallow? Are people that arrogant and stupid? Let me ask YOU this question; did you like your best friend now from the moment you met them? You became instant best friends? Did you fall in love the second you saw that person you are with or married to now? From the first instance? That is just not right. So people out there stop judging without knowing. You cannot do that. You never know how the hidden truth or some secret past or anything comes up just like that. What will you do then?
Anyways, I am a victim of this. People judge me without knowing me. They never bother. They just think that’s it. That’s her, no question about it.
I just think some people out there are pathetic with no common sense and cannot look beyond their noses!
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Raising my hands and waving frantically lol, coz I have connected with people on first glance or first exchange of pleasantries. Sometimes, you can tell a genuinely sweet or genuinely witchy personality peeking out from whatever the mask is. Many times, I have given saccharine-sweet people a chance, on the basis that maybe they are genuine…only to realize that my initial impressions were correct. Its not based so much on the appearance or the grouchiness, its more a matter of the vibe being put out. For myself, I call it instinct, not judging.
well, ppl have tendency to judge ppl at the spot, it is like a race, and everyone wants to have the first adn the right saying…dunno how to describe it and maybe that is what is stopping me from having my own blog, mainly cuz i have to deal with ppl like those cuz u have no right to decide who comes around and who leaves a comment adn bear on mind that u can never satisfy all ppl at same time, there is always someone there who feels that the whole world owes him and projects that everywhere that person goes too….so, just ignore them and simply tell them “this is me whether u like it r not, but i am not gonna change me to suit u…”
hope things will ease off with u a bit soon….
peace…
nah.. this is not about my blog.. this is about real ppl out there.. people I have met face to face.. also my blog has something to do with it… but not as much as real life people..
same thing applies for ppl u meet in real life… adn why would u care of those if they already judge u…to hell with them…
you are right.. the hell with them!
but at the same time.. I wish people can stop this mentality.. it is just not right!
well, if they stop doing that then they wouldnot be ppl anymore… just forget about them cuz they exist everywhere…
peace..