This is not a dating site.. Not a dating site.. not a DATING SITE! Stop posting your requests to get to know me.. sending me your emails and phone numbers. I had people post their mobile/home numbers in the public comments areas.. ARE YOU GUYS FOR REAL! Hello….. this is a blog about me. That’s it.

Also I know that most people that visit my site are through google searching “Arab Girl” or “Hot Arab Girl”. Well. I am neither. I am a Rebellious Arab Girl and I am not hot! Also I turned up my spam filter to the max. It is not friendly no more!!

So if anyone thinks this is a dating site than please show me the evidence or a place in my site that indicates that. It mystifies me. Maybe I am blind and I cannot see it..

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Ok.. here is the scenario.. a few days ago my X’s brother’s wife emails me to join her stupid Ringo picture club thing. I honestly was in no mood and did not want to be a part of it. I was surprised she even sent me an invitation. So I ignored it. I don’t even talk to her. She does not like me or likes to talk to me. I think last time I talked to her was like 3 years ago! Anyways, the next day I kept getting emails from her with her added family pics.. You know how hard that was for me to look at? So I emailed her back saying:

Hello,

Can you remove me from your mailing list or picture group list or whatever this is. I don’t want to be a part of it.

thank you

I just meant it like that. Very blunt and to the point. Cause I was surprised by her adding me. you know.. By the way. She is uneducated. Barely highschool and she is like 3.5 years younger than me. She got married when she hit 18 so she can come to this country!

Anyways, she replied to me saying:

Hello,

of course, my pleasure, but next time be a little bit nicer and don’t say it
like i’ve sent u some naked women pictures. ok missy. take it easy, life is
short so enjoy it.

you are welcome.

I was like wtf!!! This is not happening. Naked? Rudeness? Common. I did not have time to deal with her shit since I was already having a shitting day!

I emailed back saying and I was really mad!

Your highness,

I apologize for being so bitchy and mean. Sorry I told you nicely that I do not want to be a part of your picture group. I wasn’t mean or anything, or you were just shocked that someone said they don’t want to be a part of it?

And your assumption of things and you just saying Naked Women pictures is very disgusting. Next time learn how to speak to others!
bye

Angry, They said what?, Whatever!

I have suffered a lot in the past of accusation, assumptions, and people saying the stupidest things towards me. Not only that, people who don’t know you judge you based on what you write or chat about for like 5 minutes. I don’t get it. Like I am reading this book “Blink”, and it is describing how we judge people from the first 2 seconds of interacting with them. First 2 seconds you can tell what a person is??? Whatever! wtf I don’t believe it. I never judge people from first meeting them or talking to them. I find it absurd. What right do I have to judge others without knowing them? If a person is having a bad day and seems grouchy, do I stereotype that person as being a mean, moody, grouchy, unfriendly person? NO! That is pathetic. Who ever thinks like that is not right. I honestly did not finish the book because I found it stupid. It is too analytical and psychological. I think psychologist do too many tests on a selected norm and call that statistical analysis. My ass! Anyways.. I am pissed with some real people out there. People out there that judge you on a thing you say, or the way you look, or the way you dress. Common. Are people that shallow? Are people that arrogant and stupid? Let me ask YOU this question; did you like your best friend now from the moment you met them? You became instant best friends? Did you fall in love the second you saw that person you are with or married to now? From the first instance? That is just not right. So people out there stop judging without knowing. You cannot do that. You never know how the hidden truth or some secret past or anything comes up just like that. What will you do then?

Anyways, I am a victim of this. People judge me without knowing me. They never bother. They just think that’s it. That’s her, no question about it.

I just think some people out there are pathetic with no common sense and cannot look beyond their noses!

Blah Blah, Ranting as usual!

Ok.. I don’t know what has happened to me. I know nothing about brand name stuff. Like I hear about Versatche and Chanel, Calvin Klein, Gucci, etc.. but I never buy these things. I never had money to afford buying this stuff and I didn’t see the difference. Now my best friend is a shop-aholic, and she KNOWS brand names. She knows what is good or not. So she has a major obsession with guess clothes/bags/accessories. Than she is like there is also Marciano.. Nice nice clothes. So I am like huh.. who what. So for the past few months all I hear is Guess / Marciano non stop. Than I see her Guess purse and I am like wow. It actually looks nice. Than I ask my mom cause she loves European brands. So I asked her. She is like yah.. now that is good stuff!!

So today I went to the mall, and I went to the Guess store. So I look around and see a purse. I was like wow. That is a nice purse. Than I thought, $110 for a nice looking leather edged purse is expensive but wow!! Than I was like I need a matching wallet to go with it for my 1928390182 cards! So I got one that matched the purse for $40. I ended up paying $171 with tax included. Than I got out of the store, and I didn’t feel guilty. Than I went home and showed my mom. She is like wowwwww.. finally you buying good stuff. Than she is like you went to this store.. or that store. Any sales. You got money buy buy buy. I was like wow mom. Because you found out how much money I have in the bank doesn’t mean I have to go on a spending free to waste it all. She is like go buy a car. Buy expensive clothes.. buy buy buy.. I was like fineeeeeeeee.. I will shop brand names from now on.

P.S. Shopping does make a person happy!

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Well, over the past year and couple of months I have been blogging, I was labeled for my writing as many things. Mostly being a whiner or complainer. I do complain. Yes. That was the whole purpose of my blog. I explained that many times. However, I read other people’s blogs, and they whine more than me. They bitch and complain and say the craziest things. Yet they come to my blog and say I whine too much. I don’t get it? Is my whining different than yours? Am I being stereotyped cause my whining is not as clever and general and more open to discussion as yours?

For example, lots of girls complain about the opposite gender. Well I do too, but for my case it is only complaining about one guy pretty much. However, I got tired of it now. Yet, they generalize an entire gender and then they wonder why guys fight with them and don’t understand them. Yada yada yada.. sheesh..

Also same goes for guys. They complain that girls are whining and complaining and generalizing. You know what I say. Suck it up! Nothing will be gained from all these complaints! Whine about something more detailed from now on! Stop generalizing!

Also.. no need to just post stupid comments to make your self sound smarter and more superior. You will only prove how stupid you are!

So let’s all try it. No whining and complaining for one week! And see if we can get used to it and be better complainers at subjects worth complaining about!

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