Comments on: The pain within http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/04/02/the-pain-within/ Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values Wed, 01 Feb 2012 22:30:49 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Co http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/04/02/the-pain-within/comment-page-1/#comment-7364 Co Wed, 04 Apr 2007 19:09:37 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=653#comment-7364 I've exactly been through the same situation, and wen i got ger heart back and all was okay, i asked her to marry me :O, so she said yes and all that, but when it got all serious and stuff, she starts making excuses, so now and frankly, i dont believe in long relationship before marriage. I've known and been through so many, and now from experinces, i can say, when you have the chance grap it and go ahead with it. and cut off the smooth talking and all that crap love talk before the wedding. I’ve exactly been through the same situation, and wen i got ger heart back and all was okay, i asked her to marry me :O, so she said yes and all that, but when it got all serious and stuff, she starts making excuses, so now and frankly, i dont believe in long relationship before marriage. I’ve known and been through so many, and now from experinces, i can say, when you have the chance grap it and go ahead with it. and cut off the smooth talking and all that crap love talk before the wedding.

]]> By: Mona http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/04/02/the-pain-within/comment-page-1/#comment-7311 Mona Tue, 03 Apr 2007 23:39:30 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=653#comment-7311 Co... get married soon eh? Yah I find it so simple when I loved someone for almost 5 years and he fucken decided to leave me just like that.. I don't want to go into details.. but getting married is not as simple as you think.. M.N.. thanks for your wise words.. plus I missed you!! where have u been! :P honeymooning!! ;) Co… get married soon eh? Yah I find it so simple when I loved someone for almost 5 years and he fucken decided to leave me just like that.. I don’t want to go into details.. but getting married is not as simple as you think..

M.N.. thanks for your wise words.. plus I missed you!! where have u been! :P honeymooning!! ;)

]]> By: m.n. http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/04/02/the-pain-within/comment-page-1/#comment-7310 m.n. Tue, 03 Apr 2007 22:19:53 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=653#comment-7310 Mona! Remember that we're not just physical material beings that become old and depreciate. You can maintain and even develop the most beautiful inner aspects of purity and curiousity of childhood but without the dependency and neediness that goes with it. If you can do that you will feel the benefit of the years and actually enjoy it. Your feelings of sadness are a sign of a living heart that is sensitive to the roughness of daily life but you have enough inner strength to deal with that, just needs thought and practice. Mona!

Remember that we’re not just physical material beings that become old and depreciate. You can maintain and even develop the most beautiful inner aspects of purity and curiousity of childhood but without the dependency and neediness that goes with it. If you can do that you will feel the benefit of the years and actually enjoy it. Your feelings of sadness are a sign of a living heart that is sensitive to the roughness of daily life but you have enough inner strength to deal with that, just needs thought and practice.

]]> By: Co http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/04/02/the-pain-within/comment-page-1/#comment-7309 Co Tue, 03 Apr 2007 22:11:27 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=653#comment-7309 Ive known this blog for quite awhile, but let me tell you somthing, whenever someone gets to that depression point is when you really need to be with someone, that someone is a husband, so get married soon amd believe me u wont ever remember ur past ;) Ive known this blog for quite awhile, but let me tell you somthing, whenever someone gets to that depression point is when you really need to be with someone, that someone is a husband, so get married soon amd believe me u wont ever remember ur past ;)

]]> By: Mona http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/04/02/the-pain-within/comment-page-1/#comment-7303 Mona Tue, 03 Apr 2007 12:17:07 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=653#comment-7303 yah.. that's what I am trying to do.. vent out all my feelings and write about it. I am not a very talkative person in real life. Like I talk, but never anything personal. I just can't express my self verbally.. so I do it in writing. Anyways Dima, thanks a lot for your comment. It's nice that someone actually posts a comment of their experiences and that makes me realize I am not alone on this depressive boat.. :| yah.. that’s what I am trying to do.. vent out all my feelings and write about it. I am not a very talkative person in real life. Like I talk, but never anything personal. I just can’t express my self verbally.. so I do it in writing.

Anyways Dima, thanks a lot for your comment. It’s nice that someone actually posts a comment of their experiences and that makes me realize I am not alone on this depressive boat.. :|

]]> By: Dima http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/04/02/the-pain-within/comment-page-1/#comment-7281 Dima Tue, 03 Apr 2007 04:53:16 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=653#comment-7281 I like your posts because they remind me of a dark phase in my life, where I had exactly those same feelings, where I was so depressed believeing that there will be no tomorrow.. wether there is, or there is not.. I didn't care! It didn't make the slightest difference.. yes I was this depressed! I used to count the days, and if Im happy or appear to be happy that would be an achievement.. I don't like to lecture, but I've been there.. and I know exactly how it feels.. Your posts make me realise how far i've come.. There's nothing you can do to change the way you feel, but to change it starting from yourself.. heart and mind! If there's will and determination then you'll be able to get through it.. you just need to find something new to get yourself busy with *(mentally too)! At that time of my life I was addicted to going out with friends, never stayed home, and it helped a lot.. so that was work and morning and outings in the evening! didnt have time to even think of what's bothering me... idn't give up to such thoughts! Those outings were the joy of my life.. if there are people who you can go out and laugh or cry.. share things with or just talk about normal life issues then do it! sharing always.. ALWAYS .. helps you to get over the worst.. I like your posts because they remind me of a dark phase in my life, where I had exactly those same feelings, where I was so depressed believeing that there will be no tomorrow.. wether there is, or there is not.. I didn’t care! It didn’t make the slightest difference.. yes I was this depressed!

I used to count the days, and if Im happy or appear to be happy that would be an achievement.. I don’t like to lecture, but I’ve been there.. and I know exactly how it feels.. Your posts make me realise how far i’ve come..

There’s nothing you can do to change the way you feel, but to change it starting from yourself.. heart and mind! If there’s will and determination then you’ll be able to get through it.. you just need to find something new to get yourself busy with *(mentally too)! At that time of my life I was addicted to going out with friends, never stayed home, and it helped a lot.. so that was work and morning and outings in the evening! didnt have time to even think of what’s bothering me… idn’t give up to such thoughts! Those outings were the joy of my life.. if there are people who you can go out and laugh or cry.. share things with or just talk about normal life issues then do it! sharing always.. ALWAYS .. helps you to get over the worst..

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