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April 4, 2007 @ 8:22 am | 21 comments

I said NO!

By: Mona
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This morning I sat with my mom and she was telling me all the lovely stories of other people’s daughters.. (typical ARAB).. anyways.. she is like this girl is getting engaged and it turns out she met him off the INTERNET. I was like so what? A better match that is for sure. She is like it’s so common now a days. I am like yah so.. She then told me this…”Leesh ma inty fal7a wa etla2y wa7ed heek!”.. translation.. (Why don’t you be smart about it and find a guy that way too!).. I looked at her.. with my red eyes and angry tone and said… “NO!.. I don’t care about these things at all… I DON’T WANT ANYONE!”..

I can’t believe it has gotten to this point.. It’s not like I never met any guys off the net.. but still.. I don’t want to anymore. I just have no time and a lot of guys I talked to out there are fucken messed up.. I don’t want to begin explaining the horror stories.. So I just want to be alone.. I am serious.. I want to do my own thing.. be alone.. nothing to worry about for a bit.. But to actually like someone again or even “love” someone again.. I doubt it. Not any time soon and maybe never.

Aaah my mom.. I love her to death.. but she friggen drives me bonkers in the morning!!

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  1. Josef
    April 4th, 2007 at 10:10 | #1
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    ohhhh… Poor GIRL!!! LOL!! hahahahahahahahaaaaaaa :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :twisted: :yaay: :rofl: :lmao:

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  2. Mona
    April 4th, 2007 at 10:37 | #2
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    Why you making fun of me.. :( :x :x :x :x :x :x

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  3. Qwaider Ù‚ÙË?? ÙÅ? در
    April 4th, 2007 at 12:39 | #3
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    Listen to your mommy … she knows better
    Oh, just in case she thinks the Internet is this utopia of “fine young men” take her to watch “Perfect Stranger” where the guy the chicks meet on the Internet tuns out to be … A SERIAL KILLER!

    Mona, sorry, but your mother is .. too naive!

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  4. kayan
    April 4th, 2007 at 13:02 | #4
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    lOok if u wana stay like this u’ll find ure self the biggest loser …
    7ob benasi 7ob that means “love make u forget the previous love ” just go on girl
    open u’re heart at the end marrige is NASEEB …
    more information visit my blogger …kaynkon.blogspot.com :Oops:

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  5. Mona
    April 4th, 2007 at 14:08 | #5
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    lool.. @ qwaider.. yah I know!!
    I don’t want to ever marry a guy off the net.. but you know.. depends on that special guy.. ;)

    kayan.. hahaha.. it’s ok.. I dont’ want to meet ppl off the net.. :P Not any time soon.. that’s for sure!! :P

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  6. Mrs Al Ramahi
    April 4th, 2007 at 14:51 | #6
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    No! No! No! No! Anything but that! Marrige is all about interacting together, seeing them in person, living around, seeing each others habits and ways of living, knowing each other more, exploring their personlities..all that and it is barely enough! Internet is never enough, it is so decieving.. How can people think that way??

    Mona you will find your MR PERFECT in the way you like it to be, so wait, its just a matter of time :)

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  7. Co
    April 4th, 2007 at 15:30 | #7
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    Mrs Al Ramahi , I know you have less than a week till your big day, but please ignore my comment, I really think if your view of marriage is like that more ” westernize” , yours wont ever last.
    love is a name.sex is a game…forget the name and play the game…

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  8. afaf
    April 4th, 2007 at 16:27 | #8
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    come on…it cannot be that bad…it worked for me…
    yeah someone should be so careful, but that doesnot mean u go isolate ur self from the world out there….i know about the perssure ur mom is giving u, i have been there once and it is not fun at all….allah ye3enek….
    may allah bless all moms inshalla, they just want our best, but they donot know any better way to show it….

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  9. Dima
    April 4th, 2007 at 16:45 | #9
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    Never say ‘never’.. you never know!

    You’ll fall in love again.. and this time it will be REAL love! Will give you a new meaning, a new taste, make you redefine the word LOVE.. and maybe who knows, one day u’ll remember those past feelings and laugh at them and at yourself .. as you become more mature and aware of what the TRUE LOVE really MEANS!

    Believe in this .. and it will happen! all the best dear…

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  10. m.n.
    April 4th, 2007 at 17:30 | #10
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    Give your mother a tour of arablounge.com, she’ll see your point. Remind her that you’re building for your career and future and you’re still young enough to have, if you wish of course :) , 10 kids insha’Allah

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  11. Mona
    April 4th, 2007 at 17:34 | #11
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    10 KIDS!!! Holy.. I am not a kids person.. they are cute for an hour.. but forever?? and 10 of them.. I don’t think soooooooo!! :P

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  12. Hareega
    April 4th, 2007 at 19:04 | #12
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    I agree with you, it’s really scary to meet a guy online for the purpose for marriage.
    And by the way, I’m 27 single and I respect women and when can I visit you?

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  13. Mona
    April 4th, 2007 at 20:22 | #13
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    lol @ hareega.. you want to visit me just like that without knowing me.. now I am freaked out!!

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  14. abu_shakuush
    April 4th, 2007 at 21:22 | #14
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    i say do your “thing” and do what ever you want!! (you live your life once you know)

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  15. Mona
    April 4th, 2007 at 22:39 | #15
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    exactly… I want to live life to the fullest!! :D

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  16. Tamara
    April 5th, 2007 at 02:17 | #16
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    Well I’m curious, can you define typical Arab for me ?

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  17. 7usam
    April 5th, 2007 at 02:53 | #17
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    1000 mabrook
    i hope to see your blogger kids playing in the blog sphere :P
    ,,,

    take it easy its all about naseeeeb

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  18. Verbal Alchemy
    April 5th, 2007 at 03:04 | #18
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    tamara loool 6alabek hon http://www.typicalarab.blogspot.com

    mona, u cant know someone inside out unless u c them, be with them, interact on all levels, and c them with groups and in their natural habitat lol internet may be a tool to get it started, but if in a different country/zipcode/district then it might just b not the right choice, bil akher kul shi naseeb and u never know how fate finds u! fate works in mysterious ways :)

    and on another note, never get married coz society “dictates” its time or coz ur just afraid to be alone.. do so coz u want to..

    bless!

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  19. Mona
    April 5th, 2007 at 08:59 | #19
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    Tamara.. definition of typical Arab is ME. (That’s why I have this blog.. to complain about me being an Arab.

    7usam.. blogger kids? hmmm..I like to continue on the tradition for my children.. and their children.. for sure!!

    Verbal Alchemy.. I am not afraid to be alone anymore.. I know cause I am not alone… I have my friends.. :) As for getting married.. no time soon.. I don’t want to.. I want the freedom of being alone for now.. :) :animal1:

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  20. Ali
    April 5th, 2007 at 16:41 | #20
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    Dear Mona,
    We are living in a world that is full of anger. It is not the issue of being arab or not or either being a female or not it is the issue of being a human being or just a survival.
    I do understand you and hope that one day you will threw all that anger in your heart out side.

    Regrds,
    Ali

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  21. Lilaz
    April 9th, 2007 at 13:48 | #21
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    Ali I agree completely with you this world is full with anger and not much in love is necessary to be well would be same in heart for survival with all that :flower:

    Best,
    Ali

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