Gold Digger

I was listening to the radio as I was walking to the bus stop this morning. I heard the song Gold Digger by Kanye West and Jamie Foxx. The song was nice. It was a great tune. I felt like dancing as I was walking.. which I usually do in my silly happy mornings off to work. So I sat there thinking about it. Why are girls stereotyped as gold diggers? Aren’t guys sometimes. I know that girls are much better at it. They are pros at using guys for money, but for me I can never ever in a million years want a guy for his money. I am way past that point. I was never at that point.

Warning the song has lots of half naked women! BUT it will never be as bad as 50 cent’s Candy Shop!

I like working for my self. I mean obviously I like to be glamored and someone, actually anyone giving me a gift would make my day! However, I can never think like other girls. I always thought of my self as the ODD Arab girl. Actually the odd girl period! I am not like the typical girl. If I want something I don’t wait for someone to get it for me, I get it my self! I make my own decisions and I don’t rely on anyone! I never did and I never will!

I have talked to some guys who do complain about the fact that a girl may have agreed to get engaged to them because of the job and money they have. That’s it, and once a better (richer) guy comes along, they leave the poor guy hanging like he was a worn out pair of shoes! I seen it a lot! Most Arab girls here only agree to marry a guy who has a job, has so much money for dowry, throws a huge ass wedding and invite the whole village, takes her to an expensive resort in some Caribbean island, and must have a HOUSE! Not apartment, a house. And building her a house would be a double bonus to make sure she will agree to have kids right away and not wait 2 – 3 years!

It’s sad. I mean it is not only reflective on Arabs. This happens a lot in all societies. Girls are not innocent. I am not trying to bash girls, but I am stating the obvious. 50% of women only go after guys for their money! That’s it. And the girls who work for them selves and make a life for themselves are the ones who really don’t care too much about guys and are usually unsuccessful in keeping a relationship because they focus more on their career and life than worrying about a guy!

I just wish there was a good middle ground. No gold digging, and no full independence. I wish I can just merge the two together and find a nice guy who isn’t stupid!

Why can’t I just meet a non-stupid guy who has a nice job and wants to have a nice quiet life.

P.S I will never be a gold digger. I am rich…. with self confidence.. muwahahahaaaa!

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