Comments on: Fan requests.. to tell the story part 3. The End. http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/05/29/fan-requests-to-tell-the-story-part-3-the-end/ Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values Wed, 01 Feb 2012 22:30:49 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Dijana http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/05/29/fan-requests-to-tell-the-story-part-3-the-end/comment-page-1/#comment-37357 Dijana Fri, 06 Jun 2008 12:34:11 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=727#comment-37357 I love the way you presented your story. Altough I think that all girls suffer at least one great love loss at young age. Me - I suffered 3. The last one was exactly like yours. Yes, he loved clubbing and drinking and wasting money on that, making me go there with him. But I think everywhere most of the guys do that. Secondly, I think he loved you (because he had a need to see you, like you him), but he let go because he realized he couldn't make you happy. And he never will after he crashed your efforts and dreams. You should have givven up hope when he left you. Anyway, dear girl... To love again, forgive him for the fool he always will be. And forgive yourself for wasting all that time loving a man that wasn't who you thought he was. This things happen, they happen everywhere. We are alone only if we don't allow other people to get closer. Nice story... And I just searched info how to delete my hi5 profile for the reason - I want my ex to know that I give up public socializing. But now... maybe that's just what I need :)) I love the way you presented your story.
Altough I think that all girls suffer at least one great love loss at young age.
Me – I suffered 3. The last one was exactly like yours. Yes, he loved clubbing and drinking and wasting money on that, making me go there with him. But I think everywhere most of the guys do that.
Secondly, I think he loved you (because he had a need to see you, like you him), but he let go because he realized he couldn’t make you happy. And he never will after he crashed your efforts and dreams. You should have givven up hope when he left you.
Anyway, dear girl… To love again, forgive him for the fool he always will be. And forgive yourself for wasting all that time loving a man that wasn’t who you thought he was.
This things happen, they happen everywhere.
We are alone only if we don’t allow other people to get closer.
Nice story… And I just searched info how to delete my hi5 profile for the reason – I want my ex to know that I give up public socializing. But now… maybe that’s just what I need :) )

]]> By: Mona http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/05/29/fan-requests-to-tell-the-story-part-3-the-end/comment-page-1/#comment-11317 Mona Sat, 02 Jun 2007 21:23:44 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=727#comment-11317 thank you Rich.. that's the sweetest thing anyone had said to me in a long time. thank you thank you Rich.. that’s the sweetest thing anyone had said to me in a long time.

thank you

]]> By: Rich from D.C. http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/05/29/fan-requests-to-tell-the-story-part-3-the-end/comment-page-1/#comment-11308 Rich from D.C. Sat, 02 Jun 2007 16:06:59 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=727#comment-11308 Let's take a look at human relationships from a birds eye view. People who love you - Make you a great person and capable of great things. People who don't - Make you evil and capable of terrible things that cause you to self destruct. If you ever have a question, when you are in the middle of it, as hard as it is, well, it is impossible, Ask yourself this, "Does this person bring the greatness out of me, or do they bring the evil." When you are able to listen to the answer, and actually hear it, it will come and go, that is when you start to achieve true happiness. I love your writing and blog Mona. The fact it's not wrapped in tact, makes it so honest and true, and I can relate to it on a deep inner layer. Thank you. Rich. Let’s take a look at human relationships from a birds eye view.

People who love you – Make you a great person and capable of great things.

People who don’t – Make you evil and capable of terrible things that cause you to self destruct.

If you ever have a question, when you are in the middle of it, as hard as it is, well, it is impossible, Ask yourself this, “Does this person bring the greatness out of me, or do they bring the evil.” When you are able to listen to the answer, and actually hear it, it will come and go, that is when you start to achieve true happiness.

I love your writing and blog Mona. The fact it’s not wrapped in tact, makes it so honest and true, and I can relate to it on a deep inner layer.

Thank you.

Rich.

]]> By: Jawahir http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/05/29/fan-requests-to-tell-the-story-part-3-the-end/comment-page-1/#comment-11290 Jawahir Sat, 02 Jun 2007 09:34:31 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=727#comment-11290 way to go ... handeled very well.... please tell me how the hell do i change my template have been trying and dont know how way to go … handeled very well….

please tell me how the hell do i change my template have been trying and dont know how

]]> By: Mona http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/05/29/fan-requests-to-tell-the-story-part-3-the-end/comment-page-1/#comment-11082 Mona Wed, 30 May 2007 20:43:04 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=727#comment-11082 nice advice AngloGermanicAmerican.. much appreciated. I do agree with you, and I do agree that women are evil.. moreover guys are not innocent either and I just had to share what I thought was an unfair treatment... and it ended badly and yes I became evil cause of it. nice advice AngloGermanicAmerican.. much appreciated. I do agree with you, and I do agree that women are evil.. moreover guys are not innocent either and I just had to share what I thought was an unfair treatment… and it ended badly and yes I became evil cause of it.

]]> By: AngloGermanicAmerican http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/05/29/fan-requests-to-tell-the-story-part-3-the-end/comment-page-1/#comment-11072 AngloGermanicAmerican Wed, 30 May 2007 19:39:51 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=727#comment-11072 Just a few words of advice, unsolicited to be sure. You will know that you are over "it" or "him" when you forgive and pity him. My "first" taught me a lot and for that I am actually now very grateful. While I learned first hand just how deceiptful, frankly "evil" is a better word, females can be, I learned more about myself in the weeks and months that passed. I know, albeit from a male perspective, exactly what it is like to think to oneself, "But to find a jewel and someone to actually love again would be a miracle." Though I did find that "jewel," I will tell you truthfully that I didn't learn what it meant to truly love her until 10 or so years into our marriage. The truth, or so I perceive it, is that love has more to do with us than with the object of our love. Just a few words of advice, unsolicited to be sure. You will know that you are over “it” or “him” when you forgive and pity him. My “first” taught me a lot and for that I am actually now very grateful. While I learned first hand just how deceiptful, frankly “evil” is a better word, females can be, I learned more about myself in the weeks and months that passed. I know, albeit from a male perspective, exactly what it is like to think to oneself, “But to find a jewel and someone to actually love again would be a miracle.” Though I did find that “jewel,” I will tell you truthfully that I didn’t learn what it meant to truly love her until 10 or so years into our marriage. The truth, or so I perceive it, is that love has more to do with us than with the object of our love.

]]> By: Lilaz http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/05/29/fan-requests-to-tell-the-story-part-3-the-end/comment-page-1/#comment-11048 Lilaz Wed, 30 May 2007 14:16:13 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=727#comment-11048 me I could never judge your life but to say which wounds my heart for that thank you Mona if you should start again(life) the same things you would remake it? :roll: me I could never judge your life but to say which wounds my heart for that thank you Mona

if you should start again(life) the same things you would remake it? :roll:

]]> By: Mona http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/05/29/fan-requests-to-tell-the-story-part-3-the-end/comment-page-1/#comment-11037 Mona Wed, 30 May 2007 12:14:07 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=727#comment-11037 thanks Summer.. :) much appreciated.. and yes.. I am having a wonderful life being single and having great friends and trying my best to enjoy life! :) thanks Summer.. :) much appreciated.. and yes.. I am having a wonderful life being single and having great friends and trying my best to enjoy life! :)

]]> By: Summer http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/05/29/fan-requests-to-tell-the-story-part-3-the-end/comment-page-1/#comment-11011 Summer Wed, 30 May 2007 07:39:47 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=727#comment-11011 The End!! Nice! I enjoyed your story and i know that you came out of this painful experience a much stronger person....do not ever let anyone walk all over you again. i do wish you the best of everything in life. you are young, intelligent, focused, and may i add, pretty cute too...you will manage to have a full and wonderful life with everything you wish for. keep on writing and Best of luck! The End!!
Nice! I enjoyed your story and i know that you came out of this painful experience a much stronger person….do not ever let anyone walk all over you again.
i do wish you the best of everything in life. you are young, intelligent, focused, and may i add, pretty cute too…you will manage to have a full and wonderful life with everything you wish for. keep on writing and Best of luck!

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