Comments on: Hating what you love

By: Jason

Jason — Sun, 24 Jun 2007 14:33:48 +0000

Your parents sound very unhappy and insecure. And they take it out on u.I think that’s what’s going on here.

By: marianna

marianna — Fri, 22 Jun 2007 20:49:32 +0000

I like the little dude with the pencil. Where did you find him?

By: Mona

Mona — Thu, 21 Jun 2007 11:10:23 +0000

hey guys,

thanks for the comments.. interesting perspective you guys got there and yah.. we all suffer from parents and family.. it’s better to stay out all day!

By: Jawahir

Jawahir — Thu, 21 Jun 2007 08:17:55 +0000

hi its been a while but have tried to keep all updated with what been going on so forgive me ..

i am so sorry ur going throught this i kind of know what u feel and also see where ur coming from its takes a while but u have to choose whether u will let it affect u or not… its not easy and not simple but its a tought decision to make and it u dont have to beat ur self about it at the end of the day ur being a daughter and ur own self …. and am sure ur a lovely person why do u hate urself so much…

By: Tamara

Tamara — Thu, 21 Jun 2007 07:51:42 +0000

We all have trouble -varying in degree that is- with the people in our life, who do not share our set of values or way of thinking, that is only normal!

But still if you have to live with them, try and make your life easier by finding a common ground with them, I’m not talking about something I did not do, I actually had to do that with a lot of people in my life, its not easy but believe me its worth while even if things get a little better you will feel the difference.

By: Jasim

Jasim — Thu, 21 Jun 2007 07:22:11 +0000

Now I can relate to that! My parent I love them and respect them and all, but they get on my nerves big time! I would do anything to stay outside home!!

By: Mona

Mona — Thu, 21 Jun 2007 01:09:43 +0000

wow.. I feel I have my own personal psychiatrists or guidance councilors.. thanks guys!

By: Summer

Summer — Thu, 21 Jun 2007 00:28:22 +0000

I am very sure that your family loves you no matter what, but they love you their own way. I am sorry it has to be this way!!
i am not trying to give you any quick fix solution or advice, but why don’t you take a vacation? Travel to a nice relaxing place away from anyone who gives you headache and enjoy! During your vacation you should reflect with clear mind on your life, the situation and see what you can do about it. if i may suggest, and i know this will be too hard on your family i think, is to move out…since you have some money saved, buy yourself a small condominium or a townhouse and move in it if it is possible; i am not sure how your family will react to it, but it can be done with some convincing. I mean if my daughter was in your situation she would have done that!!! i know what i mentioned is easier said than done, but i feel that with some action and convincing on your part, you will be just fine!!! Otherwise, i see no end to this bad situation at home unless you face your family with your concerns and complaints, and you should I hope find a way to be treated as you like! Best of luck Mona!

By: owen

owen — Wed, 20 Jun 2007 23:08:51 +0000

Also, you shouldn’t say those things about yourself. No, you might not be perfect.. but you definitely are amazingly pretty (figure and all), quite smart, and a person worthwhile knowing.
Take these things to heart

By: owen

owen — Wed, 20 Jun 2007 23:03:43 +0000

Sounds like you had a bad day.. well alot more than just that.
So have a bear :tatty2.gif:

What can I say.. I have people placing their expectations on me all the time (even the ones that are actually worthwhile) but I choose to take my own way and do it on my own. Of course they bitch and moan “Why don’t you do this.. or that” but I try my best to ignore them and it usually works. Not all the time, but usually. So I hope you can get some peace of mind.. let all the harsh comments and looks just be glancing blows that don’t even harm you, and continue doing what you think is right for you.
You’ve worked hard and you deserve respect. I hope your parents will come to have faith in your ability to do what’s best for you. Take a deep breath.. relax.. the hell with it, smile why don’t ya.. and have a good day