How to get rid of SOMEONE
Ok! Well I am continually stalked by someone in particular who keeps reading my blog. Every time I post something he is there reading it. I am sick of him. Yes “HIM”.. How do I know you may ask? Well, I have an IP tracker, and since I know his IP address I see exactly, when, which page he is visiting. I mean, I told a whole fucken story in my site about him and he got pissed, yet he continually keeps coming to my blog. Since yesterday’s post was such a bitch fest, and I am sick of my home; I decided to end it. I was fed up with him checking my blog and giving a shit about my life. So I emailed him to tell him to stop checking my blog.. cause “I KNOW”.
So I emailed him that this morning. He emails me back about an hour later saying, “oh I think I didn’t turn on the proxy so I can hide my IP to see your site, how is your day today, isn’t it such a nice day?”
LIE ONE! He continually checks my site with the same IP address!
Then I emailed him back saying, “too bad your proxy doesn’t work since you use an RSS feed to view my site!”
He emailed back very very mad and saying how much he cares about me and he was just checking on me. He also said that I need to think positive, positive things and he is tired of me being so pessimistic, and he wishes that I changed my attitude. And he said that I shouldn’t listen to people from the internet.. etc.. etc. Then he was pissed from the word rebellious and kept saying, why are you rebellious anyways, what is rebellious? why you say you are if your not, it is just a word and means nothing.
Obviously I was already pissed, but this completely pissed me off! So I emailed him back bitching at him! A very precise to the point email with complete bitchiness. Pretty much how dares he go on my site and starts blaming me for my attitude and way of life since he is the REASON for all my misery! .. what an ass. I swear if he was in front of me, well he will never be in front me cause I don’t ever want to see him again. Anyways, I would seriously kick him or take a bat and hit him with it. He just won’t leave me alone!! Fuck.. then I told him that if he comes to my site one more time I will block his IP.. I should do it anyways and not waste time. I can’t believe he said that I need to change. What an idiot.. I can’t believe that he won’t leave me ALONE!
AAAAAAAAAAAGHHHHHHHHHHH!!! I am so pissed and I need to smack someone.. I didn’t even want to talk to people at work. I don’t give a crap about anyone, I just want to be left alone. I want to hit something badly!
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The thing with people like that, what I have learned through the years, (I am now 38) never let someone have that kind of power over your emotions. Just block his IP and let him sulk. Don’t let him get you down. He is not worth one ounce of emotion.
i am a pretty emotional angry person.. it’s hard to change that over night!!
why would you care that he’s reading your blog.. let him read it as much as he wants, it shouldn’t matter to you! he’s nothing.. and no one! don’t block his IP, what you should do is stop checking who’s reading your blog.. if he wants to read let him read.. it means nothing to you.. he means nothing to you! and it should in no way affect your writing.. it’s YOUR blog!
I know.. I was just pissed all day and I wanted to take it out on someone.. and since he keeps reading it non stop I had to pick on him and bitch.. I took out a lot of steam and bitchiness doing that.. it felt great!!
You know, it can be hard for some who are intense but trust me, if you do not give this man the time of day and focus on something more positive before you know it you will have totally forgotten his ill manners and idiotic ways. :tatty2.gif:
Now don’t get angry with me, but it sounds like you might want to find another release for your intensity instead of wasting your time with some bozo. Block him, don’t block him, whatever. Perhaps put up a punching bag and let it all out when you feel so aggravated. As for myself, I like to jump in my pool to decompress when I’m agitated, ahhhhh so relaxing.
sclb.. i know.. but it was easy and it worked.. i don’t feel bad at all and actually relieved some stress..
i know i may sound crazy.. but picking on people helps a lot!!
do you want me to pick on you?
and yes.. going for a swim sounds great now!!
Don’t threaten me with a good time!! You can pick on me anytime you like. I pick on people too, usually just to tease & get a reaction. It’s my indirect way of saying I truly care about you. BTW, I like your witty sense of humor too, keep it up, you’re a doll!
sclb.. thank you.. thank you very much..
Your ex sounds like your mother! Funny isn’t it?
He’s always bitching at u and trying to control who u are and so on.
Oh I forgot: I would just block both his IP address and his emails. He wants your attention even if it is negative.
Obviously He still “likes” u in his own dysfunctional way.