How can I help those that don’t listen?

Here I go again complaining. I barely slept last night much because I had to go through friend’s emotional dilemmas. It all started last night around 11:30 when she continually kept sending me SMS and calling in crying mode. I am like what’s the problem. She kept telling me about this idiot she is dating and how bad he treats her. That he wants her to buy him stuff all the time. Like groceries and food at restaurants. I kept telling her to stop it and I begged her to just dump him. So last night he messages her asking her to buy a Lacoss shirt. One of those really expensive polo shirts. I am like what the frigg! She just didn’t understand why the hell he would ask her to buy a 200 dollar shirt. And she kept asking me if she really seemed so desperate and just wants a guy to like her no matter what.

So I kept begging her to just leave him and stop this desperate need to always have a guy. I mean we all want a guy and want to be loved and pampered, but not this way. I kept telling her that this is bad news and she barely knows him for 3 or 4 weeks and he treats her this way. I just don’t understand why Arab guys or even guys in general are resorting to such methods of using a girl. Guys always complain that girls use guys for the money, but in reality no. It is not that way at all!

So she sent him an SMS back telling him that she is not made of money, etc. He messages her back saying, “you are weak, by the way for your information now we are not dating seriously. I don’t want you to buy me anything anymore.”

Seriously, if a guy said that to me I would seriously cause some damage. I am very revengeful and no one would ever dare treat me this way. It is so hard to convince her though to stop her crazy acts and going out with Arab bozos. She is better than that, we are all better than that.

This situation reminded me of the song by the Cardigans, “Lovefool” from Romeo and Juliet.

Blah Blah, Whatever!