Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.

Here is the problem in my house hold, which caused my uncontrollable anger and disturbed thoughts. It may have caused this whole problem of me to begin with! Anger. When one person is pissed off at the other, then they take it out on someone else. In this case me. It’s a horrible domino effect. You have parents who continuously fight over the stupidest things which leads to no talking to each other. Then they pick a target to throw more of their anger on, in this case, me. It’s ridiculous. The problem is that it got to the point where I am getting disgusted by it. I no longer can stand living within these walls anymore.

At times I wish I was deaf or blind. This way I don’t have to see or hear anything anymore. I would be happy. Just living in silent darkness where nothing can bother me. I then wonder how long do I have to endure this childish behavior from adults. It’s becoming such a stupid occasional routine.

I mean this is Arabs.. the old Arabs that is. The ones who get mad and angry and just tend to ignore each other and put the kids in the middle of it. Our generation seems to just get a divorce instead. I know girls who got divorced the night after the wedding, or during the wedding party where the bride just leaves the hall. I am not saying that divorce is ok. Obviously it is not. That’s why you have to learn to communicate and marry someone not for their looks or money! Sadly, even love seems to be such a common word that is lost all meaning. It’s just the society we live in, this angry fast paced society where people can’t stand one another. It’s just sad. No compromises. Nothing. Just anger! I am so sick of it. I wish I was not an angry person and just be calm and uncaring. Kind of cold with no emotions. It’s the only way to live without a headache!

I was browsing the net and I came across various new ways to stand out with your resume. It seems that video resumes are becoming so popular. Everyone’s using and watching videos on youtube, so why not have a video resume also to sell your talents and try to nail that job interview. Click here to see many! I think it is a brilliant idea.. and this is why I think it is great.

1. You are no longer a piece of paper that someone has to read. You are more dynamic and the person doing the interviews can know you ahead of time and see what kind of person you are.
2. Verbal skills are clearly demonstrated through the video.
3. You can also present other visual aids or demonstration of your past work.
4. Best way to be creative! Instead of finding good words to put in a document and trying to be so scholastic, being your self and actually talking about your self is a better judgment of character.

Also make sure you send a digital copy of your resume and cover letter as backup. But seriously, the world we live in is so fast and companies are tired of having to read the same boring resumes. You need to stand out! And when they say you need to sell your self, do what TV commercials do! You can be a commercial of your self! If TV advertisement works, then why not video resumes!