Comments on: It has been a year.. http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/08/01/it-has-been-a-year/ Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values Wed, 01 Feb 2012 22:30:49 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Mona http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/08/01/it-has-been-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-15866 Mona Fri, 10 Aug 2007 00:02:13 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=827#comment-15866 mine will eventually stop.. sometimes i think about him.. other times i don't even remember him.. mine will eventually stop.. sometimes i think about him.. other times i don’t even remember him..

]]> By: bluedacnis http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/08/01/it-has-been-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-15864 bluedacnis Thu, 09 Aug 2007 22:28:45 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=827#comment-15864 Found your journal randomly. I know exactly how you feel about this. Tears started to well up reading it lol... I feel like I should be able to get over him, but the love makes it impossible to see life in the same way any more. I hope for both of our sakes that eventually the pain stops... Found your journal randomly. I know exactly how you feel about this. Tears started to well up reading it lol…
I feel like I should be able to get over him, but the love makes it impossible to see life in the same way any more. I hope for both of our sakes that eventually the pain stops…

]]> By: Sapphire http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/08/01/it-has-been-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-15424 Sapphire Wed, 01 Aug 2007 22:36:57 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=827#comment-15424 I don't have any real advice to give you on matters of the heart since I have never fallen in love with anyone which I find a strange fact about myself. Anyways I think you should chalk this failed relationship up to a learning experience and pretend it was trial one. You know how you shop for clothing and try on several different outfits before you find the perfect one. I would look at that way. As the old saying goes you got a kiss a lot frogs before you find your prince. :) I don’t have any real advice to give you on matters of the heart since I have never fallen in love with anyone which I find a strange fact about myself. Anyways I think you should chalk this failed relationship up to a learning experience and pretend it was trial one. You know how you shop for clothing and try on several different outfits before you find the perfect one. I would look at that way. As the old saying goes you got a kiss a lot frogs before you find your prince. :)

]]> By: marianna http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/08/01/it-has-been-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-15422 marianna Wed, 01 Aug 2007 21:50:01 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=827#comment-15422 I know this may not help but I was with my ex for 8 years and I had to end it. It was hard and when he had to return back to the Gulf due to his visa expiring we were both devestated. But I knew I had to end it and man, that was HARD. But I try not to let the sadness overwhelm it. Yes, it did for more than a year and now two years later I am slowly but surely moving ahead. He was in my life for that time for a reason. Life is far too short to dwell on the negatives. Every one has their own way of handling loss. For me, it felt almost as if my heart died. I grieved, I was angry, denial and then acceptance. I hope that one day you are able to find solace and forget about the pain caused by your ex. That you move forward in your life and find the beauty within it. I am 38 and to look back at your age, which was a couple of years before I met him man.....to do it over. Yes, I would but there is nothing I can do to change things. Because you are so young, just live your life...be happy and findd the things in it that will give you strength to move on. :tatty2.gif: I know this may not help but I was with my ex for 8 years and I had to end it. It was hard and when he had to return back to the Gulf due to his visa expiring we were both devestated. But I knew I had to end it and man, that was HARD. But I try not to let the sadness overwhelm it. Yes, it did for more than a year and now two years later I am slowly but surely moving ahead. He was in my life for that time for a reason. Life is far too short to dwell on the negatives. Every one has their own way of handling loss. For me, it felt almost as if my heart died. I grieved, I was angry, denial and then acceptance.

I hope that one day you are able to find solace and forget about the pain caused by your ex. That you move forward in your life and find the beauty within it. I am 38 and to look back at your age, which was a couple of years before I met him man…..to do it over. Yes, I would but there is nothing I can do to change things. Because you are so young, just live your life…be happy and findd the things in it that will give you strength to move on. :tatty2.gif:

]]> By: Jason http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/08/01/it-has-been-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-15409 Jason Wed, 01 Aug 2007 14:48:34 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=827#comment-15409 No problem. Yes it does go on..and hopefully for the better. No problem. Yes it does go on..and hopefully for the better.

]]> By: Mona http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/08/01/it-has-been-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-15406 Mona Wed, 01 Aug 2007 14:13:07 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=827#comment-15406 thanks jason for the advice.. you seem to be extra concerned with my well being.. i find that very nice of you.. :P I like it.. anyways.. life goes on right? :) thanks jason for the advice.. you seem to be extra concerned with my well being.. i find that very nice of you.. :P I like it..
anyways.. life goes on right? :)

]]> By: Jason http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/08/01/it-has-been-a-year/comment-page-1/#comment-15390 Jason Wed, 01 Aug 2007 08:29:01 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=827#comment-15390 I don't think your ex knew how to love. Yes he was nice and friendly at first, but once you tried to get close to him he became hateful. He projected all the time. Meaning he blame you for his own problems and inadequacies. That will always ruin a relationship. There's a lot of people like him out there. As you know you put up with him way too long and that's why you suffered so much. Next time you meet someone and they give you bullshit the best thing would be to quickly move on. I don’t think your ex knew how to love. Yes he was nice and friendly at first, but once you tried to get close to him he became hateful. He projected all the time. Meaning he blame you for his own problems and inadequacies. That will always ruin a relationship. There’s a lot of people like him out there. As you know you put up with him way too long and that’s why you suffered so much. Next time you meet someone and they give you bullshit the best thing would be to quickly move on.

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