Comments on: The Dinner Party http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/08/10/the-dinner-party/ Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values Wed, 01 Feb 2012 22:30:49 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Zakaria http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/08/10/the-dinner-party/comment-page-1/#comment-16546 Zakaria Mon, 27 Aug 2007 13:13:39 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=844#comment-16546 If i were in the shoes of your friend i would forget what happened, never drive them dinner and, as you said, have lunch for a complete week. If i were in the shoes of your friend i would forget what happened, never drive them dinner and, as you said, have lunch for a complete week.

]]> By: Sapphire http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/08/10/the-dinner-party/comment-page-1/#comment-16021 Sapphire Sun, 12 Aug 2007 01:20:24 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=844#comment-16021 I would have brought the food that was still good to work the next day and have one big dinner party at lunch. I would have phoned those girls to tell them not to make any plans for lunch tomorrow because I had something special planned for them. :mrgreen: I would have brought the food that was still good to work the next day and have one big dinner party at lunch. I would have phoned those girls to tell them not to make any plans for lunch tomorrow because I had something special planned for them. :mrgreen:

]]> By: Mona http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/08/10/the-dinner-party/comment-page-1/#comment-15999 Mona Sat, 11 Aug 2007 12:37:24 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=844#comment-15999 Yah Jason.. if you put it that way.. we both did the extreme of two cases.. I left and never bothered again, and she went after them. Where is the middle ground in this case? Yah Jason.. if you put it that way.. we both did the extreme of two cases.. I left and never bothered again, and she went after them.

Where is the middle ground in this case?

]]> By: Jason http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2007/08/10/the-dinner-party/comment-page-1/#comment-15986 Jason Sat, 11 Aug 2007 04:44:26 +0000 http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/?p=844#comment-15986 The reason why she chased after them is to defend against her feelings of rejection -- of being left. That's also why you never had a dinner party again -- to never again feel unappreciated. Only you did the opposite of what she did. You "walked away" so to speak. It's understandable. Being unappreciated sucks. The reason why she chased after them is to defend against her feelings of rejection — of being left.

That’s also why you never had a dinner party again — to never again feel unappreciated. Only you did the opposite of what she did. You “walked away” so to speak.

It’s understandable. Being unappreciated sucks.

]]>