Sad again..
I just had an argument with my friend.. I guess our friendship has came to a halt.. she keeps telling me why I don’t come to see her and she comes all the time. Last time I saw her was in August. 
She then said, “I miss you.. come meet me half way to Kitchener. ”
I hesitated and said, “aah.. this is not a good time.. if you are having money issues, then don’t come.. you are spending time looking for work anyways. Let’s just see each other when we are both happy.”
She then said, “you know.. it bothers me why I am come all the time and you never come here.”
I got sad and said, “I don’t have a car right now.. maybe next summer when I actually consider getting one, I will come.”
She said, “it’s only 45 minutes by bus and 11 dollars.”
I said, “I really don’t have time now.. I have my own problems.. if it bothers you this much, then don’t come.. it’s no big deal.. you are my only friend.. if you don’t want to be friends, then fine.. if it bothers you this much.. then fine..”
She said, “well it bothers me.”
I said, “ok good night. ”
I hate my life. I really do.. I am going to loose my only friend now. I can’t afford a car.. she has rich parents who can give her a car and she is always driving around and has a part time job.. now she doesn’t want to come to London anymore from Toronto because it is not worth her time anymore to come here.
Didn’t I say life sucks?
I need a car now..
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Hmmm I don’t get it, it seems like you’re the one who didn’t want to put in any effort but you’re sad about the outcome. I understand you don’t have a car and she does but I think asking you to take a bus halfway especially when she comes to see you more than you do is a fair compromise!
This reminds me of me and my best friend, I used to feel like I always put way more effort into the relationship than her and we’d have fights about it and stop talking but we always knew we were still best friends even when we weren’t talking. We’re seriously like a married couple.
Yeah… at times like this, I tend to avoid people & phone calls just to spare them the misery.. call her later on babe when you are feeling better.. she will understand
Hey,
Call her later, everything will be alright :mrgreen:
Friends should prop each other up…even when they are BOTH down… don’t give up Miss Mona… call her again…it will be ok..
I myself dont have any friends…not anymore. They are dead or far away…except for one, and i spend a lot of energy pretending she doesnt exist. Humans are social animals…you really need friends…getting together might make you feel better…just a consideration.
Be well