My friend was checking out Arablounge again. Stupidest site ever! I removed my account from there a long time ago and I hate it. She has been on it lately talking to one guy in the US and she wants to meet him in a couple of weeks.
She said, “this might work!”
I said, “aha.. sure.. not again!”
She told me, “Make an account.. go on it.. how are we to find guys.. no one wants us here..”
I said, “aah.. no.. I don’t want anyone.. I am happy being alone and not worrying about someone and be heart broken again from some ass! There is a difference.”
She said, “common.. try it again. Not all guys are ass holes.”
I said, “fine!”
So I made another account yesterday and it is the same BOZOS again. No wonder why they are still on it. I am gonna puke! (ARAF!) Meaning: EWW.. disgusting.
I hate it because of the hypocrites on there. One guy I met off there and he seemed nice blah blah.. and I chatted with him for a while before he came to my city. It turns out he lied about his height. He is my height.. and I am a bit above normal. I am 5’7. So lie number one. I wear heels most of the time! So eww.. big time turn off.
He was Egyptian by the way. First thing he says to me, “wow.. Palestenian girls are hot!”
Turn off number two. Palestenian girls are not hot. We are DAMN hot and we don’t need someone to state the obvious.
Then after that.. he started becoming more religious and kept telling me about him meeting other girls in his University through Islamic groups, blah blah.
Turn off number three. I don’t like morons who turn into religious nutz! I am not that religious but I don’t do anything wrong because I think life is not good or bad. There is always a middle ground. I hate extremist, and suddenly becoming one is not a good thing in my books.
Another guy I was talking to was really nice and was a lawyer from the US. I told him about my life, etc. Then he said, “you had a boyfriend?”
I said, “aah.. yah… so?”
He said, “for how long?”
I said, “aah.. about four years.”
He said, “that’s too long.. you must have slept with him. I want a pure girl.”
(Wrong move.. He didn’t know who he was dealing with.)
I said, “Excuse me? Do you even know me and know anything about me to make such an accusation? So what if I knew a guy for 4 years.. doesn’t mean I did shit. What do you think Arab Muslim girls are? Since we live in North America we are sluts? Go back home and find a girl you dimwit! You are an idiot and you have no right to ask such stupid ass nonsense questions.”
He said, “Arab girls now a days are not what they used to be. I have to ask. And if you didn’t sleep with him, then you must have done other stuff, which is not pure.”
(He still didn’t get it.)
I said, “aah.. you are an idiot. Since you are a lawyer and you interrogate people for a living, you have no right to do that to me. You know nothing about me.”
He said, “that’s why I have to ask everything.”
I said, “fine.. you want to be an ass hole lawyer, then why the fuck are you 35 years old and not married. Are you done having fun in life and now you want to settle down with a pure girl and you are spending time interrogating them?”
(He was in shock cause I said that.)
He said, “No Arab girl dares talk to me like that.”
I said, “well, you just met your challenge. I am the worst one you will ever meet and I can spend more time telling you off and questioning you then you do with me you fucker!”
(He got mad and left!)
I know how to tell off lawyers. They are stupid. Just need someone to tell them they are fucking wrong and to shut the hell up! What an ass he was.
After that I quit going on that stupid site. Now my friend wants me to go back on it and get married because she is bored with her life and thinks we need to settle down.
I told her, “your 26 and I am 27. We are way passed that age where it seems we have to get married or it is too late. So don’t just meet anyone and settle for any dip shit. OK?”
She said, “Oh my God you are right. Who cares anymore. I can be picky as much as I want.”
The older we get, the wiser and pickier we are! Good luck with us! I am removing the stupid Arab Lounge account I made. I can’t believe I did this for her.
I want to be ALONE! I don’t believe in love or meeting some ass off the net will solve the Arab girl problem or any girl’s problem. Jeez! All that Arabs talk about is marriage. When are you getting married? Why aren’t you married? You are old. You are expired. Blah blah.
You know. I AM OLDER! I AM WISER and I WORK! Marriage is over rated and waste of money! I don’t need anyone to control me! And yes, my dad is NOT a Taxi driver like half the stupid Arabs here and he works and makes twice as much as me! He wouldn’t just accept anyone and neither would I!
For some odd reason all the Taxi driver’s daughters get married by the time they are 21 or 22. Why is that? Is it a cab driver marriage cult?
She said, "You need to get married!",
I tried to register at this site but I had not motivation, boredom was not enough. This lawyer guy who was like “you must’ve slept…” I seriously want to punch him in the face
Why most Arabs are so…. I dunno, seriously.
However, thank you for sharing this story
Ya3ni I don’t know why your doing this to urself,these kind of sites will make u feel miserable and desperate which your not,you and your friend sound like 2 ladies tal3een min a Palestinian village with no knowledge of life..your still young!..in my book all women are young until they reach 40+, thats where I consider em Older woman..and even at that age they can still find a husband if they want to get married.
My fellow Palestinian men are scattered across the globe,I’m sure you’ll meet the one you’ll like when you least expect it.
Boycott Arablounge and other stupid sites with ass holes in it!
A friend of mine told me about Arab lounge so I checked it out for fun. The site is a rip off in my opinion (I didn’t pay). After viewing a few profiles that basically all said the same thing in one way or another I decided to hide my profile and search the net for arab lounge sucks (being a worker in the IT field) and I found your blogs and read them. I like how “some” of those guys go out and have fun and at times pay for sex (my last visit to Dubai shocked the hell out of me) then they make marrying a virgin a priority.
hello there to all you arab men out there i think you guys are pigs, because you are cheaters and want everything hey am i right you fucking pigs. i think you guys are paranoid of your american women that shes cheating on you are somthing. thats why you guys want aarab virgins. its hard to be a pig but the truth is there are some good women out there and it doesent matter the race its just some men are sick
I hope you found your match it’s been 5 years since you posted this comment. I agree with most of what you wrote, but I sensed elitism in your post! You have a right to reject anybody you are not attarcted to or anyone who is not professional , but there is no need to look down at people who are short or drive cabs, own gas stations, etc, etc. This makes you sound shallow and mean. There is nothing wrong with people who are 5’7 or with hard working men who drive cabs to make a living for their families.
God bless you
nop no match!!