What a day!
I will write this in detail so I don’t miss a thing of today’s events.
My friend went to work this morning and spent it chatting with me on MSN until she was done work and came over to my city for our party we were planning. It wasn’t really a party but a gathering of people.
Anyways, so she came around 1:30 pm and I was dressed and ready and she wanted to go to the mall. We got a manicure that I have been hating all night cause I never have nails. I always cut them and I suddenly got nails that are long! Good thing I can type now. At the nail saloon, the Chinese lady was putting on my nails and she had a heavy accent but she was such a social butterfly. Half the time I wasn’t paying attention to her and my friend is like, she just said this to you, answer her! I was like, “oh.” After we got our nails done I couldn’t get my bank card out of my wallet! The guy in the nail saloon took it out for me. So sad. I am so not used to them.
After that we did the aqua massage thing. It was great and relaxing. It was a 2 for 1 special and it was nice and cheap!
Then, we went to my house so she can do her hair and get ready. So we sat down for a bit and she opened her present that I gave her. She was happy, I got her an Olympus Camera. She got me a Guess watch. Obviously we both got each other chocolate!
Then the drama begins..
Well, here is the thing. She was talking to this guy from USA back and forth for almost 3 weeks that she chatted with from Arablounge. He even booked a ticket to come and see her this upcoming Friday. She was happy and excited that she has been talking to a guy that she clicked with. I was a bit skeptical because it was too soon and too odd. But what do I know right? I am just Mona. I have my own ideas that are somewhat right.
Well, she is evil and sneaky and she knows all the tricks in the book of finding out everything she needs to know about a guy. She looked up his work, and everything about him. She even found out his salary range from his work’s law firm website. She is worse than me and she knows how to get what she wants off the internet.
So what did she do? She decided 3 days ago to make a fake account and see if he was serious about her and not talking to other girls from Arablounge. Blah blah. The typical female behavior. She flirted with him using a fake account, and then he replied back today to this fake account while he was on the phone with her driving all the way to here saying,
“hey, this is my name, my emails and instant messenger accounts, and my work and cell phone number.”
I read it for her because she went into to shock. She started crying in my room saying, “why me, why no guy is ever serious and goes around and wanting to talk to other girls.” I had to calm her down and this was about 5:15 pm. I said, “we have to be at the restaurant, people will be waiting. Let me do your hair and you get dressed and we will deal with it later.”
She kept text messaging him back and forth saying, “you are a player. Blah blah. I will talk to you later.” The guy was a stupid idiot and said, “what happened? I don’t get it.” Then she replied back saying, “I will talk to you when I am drunk.”
So we get to the restaurant and she said, “Where is your boss, we need to buy a beer now and get drunk so I can talk to this ass.”
I honestly wanted to shoot my self and smack her upside the head. I did hit her unexpectedly later but she didn’t know why. Half the time we were eating she was getting text messages from him. Then she left for about 15 or 20 minutes talking to him on the phone and she was pissed.
I kept thinking, when will this night be over? When will this night be over!
She then said, “I don’t feel like eating. I don’t want to eat. You order whatever. I am pissed, sad, depressed. Is there something wrong with me? Is it us? Why do guys not want us and just want to play with us? Are we crazy? Are we not liked?”
I told her, “donno. I really don’t and I told you before that guys are stupid and liars if they act this way. Stop being gullible and believing any guy who says nice things to you and acts weird and fills you with mushy stuff so you can believe he is the nicest guy in the world. He is just playing you for a fool.”
She didn’t get it and she talked to him and he kept making up excuses and kept telling her that she was the only one he was talking to, he is serious, he will not talk to other girls.
Bull crap. She is dumb and he is an ass. She needs some serious smacks in the head to get her back to reality. I told her, be mean. Be your nasty true self and stop falling for stupid guys!
She doesn’t listen. Never listens. Why? Because she is me. She is stubborn, a Capricorn, and won’t face reality and living in denial.
On a happier note, the night was great. I know really who my friends are who showed up. Even though not many people said they would, but it would have been nice if they did. Oh well! We had a nice dinner, and played pool and we kept loosing.
I am dead tired and I got so much chocolate in my room. :lol: I am going to the gym tomorrow morning early and then relax, and enjoy the last day of the year!
Thank God 2007 is ending! Time for 2008 to shine its open doors. It will be a leap year! I love leap years!














What a day
Happy new year, Mona =)
Wishing you and your loved ones a very happy 2008. Enjoy!
Happy New Year Everyone!
Happy New Year ya batta!
by the way,your friend is very immature and the guy was judged too soon,I’m not defending him..he Could be a player,but I don’t see anything wrong with him wanting to get to know the chick who approached him,doesn’t mean who would have chosen her over ur friend…ou hada they only know each other a few weeks ou haik! she wants an angel “of 3 weeks” with a leech, good luck finding one.
I don’t blame your friend for being upset, to a certain extent. I mean, it doesn’t seem like there were any solid commitments between the two, they hadn’t met yet. At the same time, if one of them still decided to play the field or date others, they should’ve been open about it so that there are no false expectations.
Happy New Year Mona, I hope 2008 is a good year for you and your loved ones!
Mr. A, you are 100% right.. long story short, she will NEVER learn.
Queeni, she will always be upset and force her self to live in denial and think he is a nice guy.
Bleah..
Happy Frigge’n new year!