I have noticed people’s behaviour over time and I wonder why they have a hard time expressing them selves. It is like some people want to talk or to say something, but they find it hard or they don’t know how or they don’t know if it is appropriate to do so. So what can I do? Well, I understand people like that, but all I can do is just wait and see how they behave. Usually the smallest things that people usually disregard, because it is nothing special, is really what describes that person.
So what have I discovered lately? That people who are always joking around and just throwing wise crack comments to other people are really the most defensive, emotional, and saddest people you can ever meet. They use the jokes and sarcasm to push people away or not let others know the real them.
No I am not talking about my self. I don’t joke around much or even talk much. I am the complete opposite. I am the one that people are afraid to approach because I am not as open or talkative, yet mysterious! Muwahaha..
Anyways, back to my analysis. I noticed some people really do act like that and throw jokes or make fun of others sarcastically so people would notice someone else instead of them. However, others use the jokes and sarcasm to get attention because they really don’t know if anyone will like them in any other way. Believe me, no one takes a joker seriously and they are just a “friend” for mere enjoyment. However, they would never trust them as a real friend because they don’t know that person at all other than being a clown or a joke or a person who will lift up their spirit for a few minutes. That’s all.
So this person who just jokes around with others is defensive, has hard time trusting others, and is probably the nicest person you can ever meet and trust. They just have to earn your trust which may take a while. A very long while! Honestly, it is probably a bit of a shock to them knowing that people out there love them for who they really are and not for just joking around.
You will always meet a person like that in your life, maybe you know a person who is like that right now, but seriously, just be patient and watch their behaviour. Trying to talk to them seriously is really hard, and trying to understand them is even harder. In the end, you just have to be patient and take your time. They are worth it.