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January 5, 2008 @ 8:37 pm | 9 comments

Relationships

By: Mona
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I was bored and I spent the evening stumbling pages using my Stumbleupon tool bar and I was reading up on best ways to be a good partner, etc. Yah, I read junk like that from time to time. So I decided to write down arguments that I constantly had to hear from having a relationship with an Arab guy.

Argument One:

“Why don’t you act more like my brother’s wife and listen for a change.”

Response:

“No.”

What I really meant:

“Don’t fucken ever think I will change my personality and the way I am to please you and your family. If you think that way and you don’t like the way I am, then go find another girl.”

Argument Two:

“Let’s go to this restaurant. It is nice and cozy and they have big proportions we can share.”

Response:

“No. I picked that one.”

What I really meant:

“You are so frigge’n cheap, fine I will pay for food!”

Argument Three:

“I spend my evenings playing tarneeb (cards) with my friends all night. That’s why I didn’t call you, and there is nothing else to do in this city.”

Response:

“Fine. Good for you. Hope you had fun.”

What I really meant:

“I know you spend your weekends going to night clubs getting drunk like the ass you are. Yet, you want a girl who is nice, quiet, doesn’t argue or talk back like your brother’s wifes. What a fucking hypocrite.”

Argument Four:

“My car broke down, and I couldn’t come to see you and I never ever would take the bus.”

Response:

“Poor you, it sucks having a used car with so many problems.”

What I really meant:

“You are a dumb ass who is too cheap to fix your car and want to only drive your shitty car around and think public transits are for uncool and poor people. Missing work and school for a few days is not good for you! By the way, I hope to never see you again!”

If I was married than the conversations will get more interesting and not as argumentative over stupid things, but finding an Arab guy that I can stand is like finding a needle in a hay stack. :) I need a guy who is not a chauvinistic dumb ass. I like down to earth guys who just want to live life without having to always worry about what others think.

I have been thinking about this lately. Do I have to marry an Arab? It has to be Muslim, but not Arab. Hmm.

Anyways, I have also noticed that some Arab guys have to impress their friends so much by having a car handy and having the latest and most expensive gadgets all the time and always thinking that everyone else sucks compared to how cool they are. Why the hell is that?

Why can’t some be original and stop caring about what others think?

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  1. Sam
    January 5th, 2008 at 22:02 | #1
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    “Why can’t some be original and stop caring about what others think?”

    Because thats how Arabs are meant to be. This is what the Middle Eastern life taught them to be. This is how Arabs always care for what’s been said about them when they’re not around, and always thinking of what people think of them, and the phrase u probably caught in an Egyptian movie or two… “Shaklena hayeb2a eah odam el nas”… Well SCREW “EL NAS”!!!

    Thats how we all gossip about each other, and diss each other, and try to find flaws in each other, and compare everyone and anyone… Thats how we are… ARABS!
    And thats why we will never be proper civilized people.

    Seriously… SCREW US!!
    Tell u what, I’m Egyptian, not Arab, and ur Palestinian, not Arab… cuz this word has begun making me sick…

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  2. asoom
    January 5th, 2008 at 22:28 | #2
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    No you don’t have to marry an Arab, who made up that rule?

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  3. Mona
    January 5th, 2008 at 23:01 | #3
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    our culture made up that rule.. our parents cannot accept the idea of us marrying a non arab.. how would they communicate with them? bleah!

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  4. asoom
    January 6th, 2008 at 01:30 | #4
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    My parents can accept me marrying someone who isn’t Arab, they can’t accept me marrying someone who isn’t a good Muslim, which works great for me ;)

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  5. Mona
    January 6th, 2008 at 12:22 | #5
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    lucky you! :D

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  6. mr.anonymous
    January 6th, 2008 at 12:49 | #6
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    Iza haik la2eelek wa7ad muslim min Indonesia, ok my bad I’m a racist by nature.

    Let me tell u smth u don’t know about urself,and asoom this works for you too..
    You will not marry a guy unless he’s an arab muslim and most probably Palestinian, its a default compatible setting deep inside ur brain that nothing else will feel right for u.

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  7. Mona
    January 6th, 2008 at 12:50 | #7
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    I would only want Palestenian! :D

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  8. Radical Muslim
    January 6th, 2008 at 17:35 | #8
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    lol. this was so funny. no you dont only have to marry a arab, but yes you can only marry a Muslim. so look for who will make you happy, which may include many more guys then just Palestinians alone.

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  9. Minhaz
    January 13th, 2008 at 16:48 | #9
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    Wouldnt mind marrying an arab myself :shock: , although i aint one, do whats right for yah.

    to hell with traditions, i dont think ill ever find a gujrati gal right for me ;) Suggest you do the same :)

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