Comments on: Ignoring people works

By: sue

sue — Sun, 15 Feb 2009 00:04:49 +0000

what i realise is that ppl blow things out of proportion and when they are negative and expect you to solve their problems it is time to take a step back. you waste your time and your energy is sucked out when u could have taken that same time and energy to do something constructive for your life…..at the end of the day it is OKAY to be self fish and always remember rto love yourself first…

By: Ahmed

Ahmed — Thu, 10 Jan 2008 10:28:56 +0000

I wish I could stay away from drama sometimes. But they (Friends) just suck me into their drama and I end up with a horrible headache

By: Mona

Mona — Wed, 09 Jan 2008 21:43:24 +0000

You scenario is a bit different than mine. I am not 100% ignoring. I am just not willing to discuss any more issues that I feel have no solution and over dramatic. I like to say, “case closed. No more discussion about this please.”

By: asoom

asoom — Wed, 09 Jan 2008 20:41:12 +0000

yea noone likes to be around people who are always negative and always holding grudges or comlaiing about something, they infect everyone else with their negativity.

I have a friend like that whose now mad at me and not talking to me for something really stupid, it’s just in her nature to be negative. I decided I’m not going to apologize or talk to her about it because it’ll justify her immature actions and make her feel like she’s right. Her only friend aside from me are her sisters and her sister-in-law because she drove off everyone else.

It’s gotten to the point where she refuses to go to gatherings or hang out with the girls if she knows I’m going to be there too but to me that just shows how much she valued me as a friend that she would react so harshly to something so silly and I’d rather just not be friends over having to go “explain myself” to her because this is like the 3rd time she’s done that to me.