What is love?
I started a voting pole yesterday to ask my readers about it. To me, I am just sick of hearing this word and everyone justifying their feelings and emotions due to it or lack of it. It is sick. I am not anti-love. (Although I HATE Valentine’s day and who ever came up with such a thing to break people’s hearts.) I think love is not just something you say for the hell of it and to justify that life will be better if you had it. Love is not something that just happens because it was “meant” to happen.
Honestly, what is love?
You tell me, because to me love is not that easy to describe with one word or one sentence. Also, love is not just an emotion you feel towards the opposite gender and think because the other person is nice that that’s it, “you are in love,” and you are just waiting for them to say it back and justify their feelings towards you so you can be happily ever after.
Really.. when do you know you are in love? How long does it take for you to figure out that you are? How many types of love are there?
To me love is simple, you know someone, you are comfortable with them as a friend and as a decent human being and you can talk to them without having to think twice of what you are saying. You have fun, joke around and make life around you and them simple and enjoyable. When you can’t stop thinking about them and “see” them all the time, then you know that you are “falling” in love. What type of love is it? Depends. Could be love friendship, or could be opposite gender love. Who knows.
Love doesn’t happen just like that. That goes for any type of love. We are honestly born to love one another as a natural emotion. It is not hard, but are we compatible with other people and comfortable with our selves to be loved by others?
Everyone should seriously ask them selves this, “do I love my self enough that I feel comfortable that others would love me back for who I am as a person?”











Excuse me for interupting your post; what is Tawjihi? I’m reading something on it on Black Iris sight and I missing it’s meaning so I’m not getting the post…
and the person next to you at work or at school is glowing ’cause they got something
I’m sure it has something to do with love and by the way Valentines Day is great holiday it just sucks when your single
“..lady don’t hurt me..don’t hurt me..no more”
Your last phrase got me confused.
Lady..love is getting used to a character compatible with yours,all other interpretations are a lie.
For all ur love thoughts,here’s a dedication thats been playing in my head over and over for the last 8 hours http://superpselim.imeem.com/music/I5ddkjd3/amr_diab_agheeb_agheeb/
Wait!…now the haddaway song is looping in my head!
yo david ,in arab countries tawjihi is the final year of high school, a.k.a bakaloria in some other arab countries.
O! now I see what the whisper means.
Whisper if you want to send me a private message that no one else can read but me.
I guess the translation has been taken care of.
Anyways… love love love.. and the drama..
I really dont know what love is.. I wonder too.. how long should it take you to fall in love with someone or realize that you will never do love them? how long does it last? how long do you still love them after the relationship breaks?
I was in a long distance relationship a couple of months ago that lasted for a year and a half, I used to enjoy being with him, enjoyed out talks, missed him and missed being with him but was I in love? I have no idea… Is it weird that after a year and a half I didnt know? I dont know..