People love you when …
you have self respect and be your self!
What a morning. Right now I am at work and I have zero motivation to do anything at all! I woke up late. My sister came into my room at 7:08 am waking me up. I was like holy crap. Why didn’t the alarm go of? Or I just slept through it.
Anyways.. after I got ready I saw a missed call on my cell phone at 7:11 am this morning from my friend. Thank God my phone was on silent and I didn’t pick it up. As I got on the bus to get to work I called her to see if she was ok and this time I decided to talk some sense into her and tell her to stop doing all this. So she kept talking on and on about her life and her feelings and what’s wrong with her.
I told her one thing, and I was being honest and not racist. She has an obsession with meeting Lebanese guys. I told her you are Palestinian! Live with it! You will not have this problem if you were so picky and wanting this and that. Palestinians are awesome. We are rough, stubborn and we speak our mind. We love who we are and we are not fake! (My Palestinian ego talking! 
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Anyways.. I stayed on the phone with her for 1 hour and 40 min. From the moment I got on the bus till I got to work trying to talk some sense into her. Hope it worked cause she seemed a bit more pliable now and a bit more realistic about life and what she wants.
I hope it is over and she realizes that life will get better if she stops being so crazy and having little self respect.
Honestly.. seriously.. I learned this and I know for a fact that men don’t like a cheap mushy girl. They want a girl who is confident and independent who has a high self esteem and self respect. A bit of rebellion won’t be so bad either! 
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I agree !!
I want here to record our personal respection to arab girls here in western world ,I meet many and many arab girls from Palestine ,egypt ,yemen and syria living here in america ,europe and canada ;
I am really respect them .
their personalities are so clear and strong.
I didn’t feel that they are under the opened western culture as us (arab men,in general).
please continue
thanX
I am no psychologist or anything…may be, just may be (stressed again on “may be”)… all your friend needs is a sympathetic ear and nothing else.
May be all she wants is assurance is that she’s got a ‘Palestinian’ friend in this ‘Lebanese’ jungle, and not anyone to parent sense into her.
Hey no need to get crossed eyed or anything, its just an opinion from a neutral side.
men definitely looks for independent strong girls. If you show any weakness they would just back off.. i just don’t understand some of the picky girls who just go blind and see only what they want to see!
Usually depends on the guy, but if you find a real MAN.
He want you to be confident and independent, with high self esteem and self respect.
“A bit of rebellion won’t be so bad either!”
Check out this audio about how men and women should act from modern Islamic seduction.
http://www.hotconflict.com/blog/2008/01/attraction-and.html
..so….I see five more dollars into the island pot! guess its time for me to buy that swing thing u tie up between 2 trees.
hahaha..
anyways guys… yes.. story ended.. Thank GOD!
Mr A.. I doubt there are palm trees in my island since I want to stay in Canada!! No palm trees here buddy!
This is probably a good thing for your friend… meaning heartbreak is painful and all but I doubt she walked away without learning something…
anyways just be a comforting friend and follow your instincts don’t get to empathetically attached were all human and make dumb mistakes some are just learn the same lesson over and over again until we figure it out.
Mona you say you want to stay in Canada but you want your own island so that only leaves the arctic circle where there are uninhabited islands! You want to live in the arctic circle! You really must like the cold!
There are so many islands around canada.. not only in the Arctic… check out the site privatislands.com and see how many they are.. so beautiful!
Do you really think men like confident independent girls? I dont think so.. I learned that men like shallow barbie girls.. no matter how smart and confident she is he likes to be smarter and in control.. he likes a pretty face who agrees with him about the sky being yellow..
I am hoping to meet a man that would prove me wrong but till then this is what I think..
im ahmed from algeria im seeking for arab girls leving in europ
i can accebt you as friend