Who do I like?

I got an email today from someone asking me a simple question, “you talk a lot about rebelling and so mad all the time from life and guys, then what type of guy a girl like you wants?”

I didn’t email the person back but I decided it was a great super duper blog post question to answer.

What type of guy do I like? Haha..

1. Has to be interested in technology that when I say, “the computer needs more ram.” It doesn’t mean I have to buy an animal to head butt the computer to make it run faster!

2. The guy is not a show off. I hate guys who think that they can own people and own people’s respect by their money and their position in life. Aaah, didn’t anyone tell you I am rich too? I mean it. I am rich. I have been rich for over 4 years because I never had to bother showing off or over spending or owning anything extravagant to prove it. To me, I am the richest person I know. I think every person feels the same about them selves, but I don’t need to tell people I am or act and show off that I am all the time.

3. I can’t stand dishonesty. If a guy can’t keep a story straight and makes up a bunch of crap or excuses to get out of a situation, then I don’t want to be part of the lie. I am no fool and I will find out sooner or later. I am evil and I am not gullible.

4. I like guys who know a lot about the world. That if I want to discuss the culture of China, that he won’t just say, “yah, those Chinese, they build cheap stuff for us to buy here.”

5. The guy is life smart. I don’t care if the guy is a doctor, if he can’t live life in a smart way without others manipulating him than I don’t want him.

6. The guy does not depend on his mother’s or family’s advice. One thing I love about a guy is his self confidence and not let others manipulate his decisions in any way. No family, no one. Kind of like me. Full independence.

7. The guy has to be nice to people. You know if a guy is nice to others, then he will be nice to you. You can always tell if a guy is nice and lovable from how he treats others.

Then religion and culture.

1. Has to be Arab (preferably Palestenian, but I don’t mind any other Arab as long as they are good Muslims).

2. Has to be Muslim Sunni. This is a thing that a lot of Arab girls and guys argue about. Well, I just want Sunni. I don’t like indifference in any way in a relationship.

3. Age. Well I want an older guy who is not stupid and has worked enough years to understand that hard earned money is not easy to come by and life is more adventurous when you work hard for what you believe in.

4. Height. Haha.. I make fun of short guys. I don’t know why. I just like standing next to guys who are taller than me even with my heels.

Anything else? Hmm.. I am not that picky, but I like a goatee on a guy. Something about dark haired, tanned Arab men with goatees is just HOT! (I know, not a rebellious thought at all.)

Back to be being rebellious. Phew.

Ok, also, I want a guy who treats people like their equals. I never look down on people or ever care about someone else’s situation in life. I have no reason to judge anyone. Everyone gets what they are meant to have in life. In the end, we are all equal in God’s eyes.

Yah, I am picky. But in the end of the day, you would want to think about these details because you will end up living the rest of your life with this person. We have to choose wisely, or it will lead to divorce. Who wants to end up being divorced? It is just wrong and religiously looked down upon. Not a good way to end up in life because you made a bad choice of not being picky.

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