Comments on: Things have just slowly died

By: Iris Watts Hirideyo

Iris Watts Hirideyo — Wed, 06 Feb 2008 15:21:01 +0000

We have absolutely no control over people. They will act as they see fit. They will hurt you, do beautiful things for you, deceive you blatantly, be your best friend and you’ll never fully understand why. Something that becomes clearer to me as the years go by is that things are never exactly what they seem. If someone ignores you and thereby gives you the impression that they hate you, don’t settle on that impression. Don’t settle on the impression that the opposite is true, either. Just accept the fact that you don’t know and have no way of knowing. They could be the best people in the world, the worst people in the world or most likely, somewhere in between, that is, just people with reasons you’re not privy to. I think I’ve always had a tendency to think the worst of any situation but what I’ve been learning lately is that people are not quite as good or as bad as we imagine.
It seems, in writing these comments to you I’m always thinking of something I wrote and a movie recommendation to go with it.:) I do hope they add something to your life. The movie recommendation this time is ‘The Upside of Anger.’

http://www.hirideyo.com/journal/iris/2007/10/28/the_upside_of_anger

http://www.hirideyo.com/journal/iris/2007/07/24/among_other_things

By: David

David — Wed, 30 Jan 2008 02:05:34 +0000

your fan base is generally Arab, you point out there narcassitc faults and they freak… that’s media for you. Bye the way did you dump “the black iris”? that was a good sight… by the way I’m sure your co-workers don’t hate you, you should consider a break away though for your mental health you seem way down girl cheer up you got a lot going for you just can’t see it now

By: Mona

Mona — Wed, 30 Jan 2008 01:50:26 +0000

I used 123 greetings which emails you when a person viewed your card.

Anyways.. the past is the past. Can’t change it and people will continue to hate me forever.

By: Lee

Lee — Wed, 30 Jan 2008 00:22:57 +0000

Life sucks, i have no pearls of wisdom for this… I myself am in am mess… But that is rude i think.

Find some new and better friends.

By: David

David — Tue, 29 Jan 2008 23:31:21 +0000

aww don’t feel bad… sometimes and I’m guilty of this people just get to preoccupied with other things, then you put off, and then you never do. Don’t get yourself down.

By: mr.anonymous

mr.anonymous — Tue, 29 Jan 2008 23:26:31 +0000

Maybe it would die at your end too when things are all going uphills in ur life..and maybe they still haven’t seen the card yet for some reason.

Don’t feel bad lady..here, see my email..and its Dec 3rd..right it down..
Wait..thats like a year from now..if it makes u feel any better feel free to send it now..and here’s the reply min halla2 “you’re 11 months early..ah thanks..I guess”