Jealousy is a killer
Women tend to be natural jealous creatures. It’s in our blood. I don’t know why. However, there are various types of jealousy. There is extreme, moderate, and somewhat careless. I am the moderate type. I got to admit that. I do get jealous, but I do it with a good reason. I do it to either make me feel better, or to feel worse and have a reason to fight.
However, some women take it to the extreme! Too extreme that they start accusing their spouse/boyfriend and go behind their back to find the “answers” they want. They would do crazy stuff that I don’t even want to discuss. It’s not that they are just psycho, but it is all because they don’t trust their significant other.
It’s all about trust.
No trust = Jealousy = Doing psychopathic crazy stuff.
Are women the only creatures that get jealous?
NOP!
Men get so jealous to the point that they would question the girl of where, who, when and what she was doing constantly. To the point where the girl can’t stand this at all. It’s all the same. Jealousy is jealousy.
For Arabs.. jealousy is great! Arab chicks are psycho!!! Arab guys are psycho too! The jealousy bug is our blood! The reason Arabs get jealous quickly is because a lot of Arab relationships are a one time thing with no prior experiences. So they don’t know how to contain their jealousy because they never loved before. So they love someone, get married to this ONE person and that’s it. So they go through an entire relationship in such a short period of time. So all the relationship bugs must happen, and obviously one of them is JEALOUSY!
All I can say good luck to everyone. If you are an extremely jealous person, then count your days cause most people can’t stand it!
Blah Blah, Random Thoughts, Ranting as usual!, They said what?
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I’ve stumbled across this site COMPLETELY randomly (I was searching something & your link caught my eye b/c it had ‘Arab’ in it. I, too, am an Arab girl).
Anyway, I don’t agree with you completely.
Maybe you haven’t clarified things to readers.
Jealousy amoug Arabs stems FIRST & FOREMOST from he overprotective/overbearing nature in parents caused by the ill belief that honor is valued in between a ‘daughter’s legs’. Jealous stems from the fact that men–whether they be aa boyfriend or brother or father–cannot believe that women are STRONG ENOUGH to date, are STRONG ENOUGH to handle themselves on their own. Arab men don’t like the idea tha Arab women can be strong & independent–they want their women to be dependent upon them. Once the woman appears to be too independent, male figures become demanding, etc.
Aren’t their studies claiming that jealousy at workplace is good?
Btw, the only Arabs I know are the 15 or so guys n girls I see in the gym so every time you say something particularly about Arabs, I can’t help associate it with them :mrgreen:
Hi Shadia,
I totally agree with you and I love your clarification. That’s why I have readers posting comments and expanding on my ideas.
You put the words together very nicely.
Hi Raj.. what study? Workplace jealousy? Interesting. hmm..
When I was younger I could get jealous at the drop of at hat. Now at 39 It is blase. I will get jealous if warranted and if it is then I will have a discussion with that person. If it is romance related I feel like if you have this urge to flirt with every skirt…go right ahead but I won’t be around to watch.
I think every women can get extreme in this. And if you say you don’t then you are lieing or have not got there yet.
What i hate most about it is it does not matter what what the truth is when it happens…. They will just search until they find the answers they wanted no matter if it happened or not… And then when and if you decide to give up… You will never let it rest! You will always bring it up… And never forget.
I also hate it when women get jealous about stupid things. I hate it when i am out and my “girlfriend/Partner” will hate a women just because they might look good in what they are wearing.
I really do not think 90% of women even have control over their self.