Wow.. maybe I am unlikable

Men are overrated. Srsly.

You are doing it all wrong…

1) Lose the brain, if you can multiply – shame on you!
2) Lose the job, or get one that requires something to do with fashion or photography.
3) Lose any shread of dignity, cause an independant thinker will just shatter the system.

BAM!

Just like that, guys will be fighting over you. :spin:

For extra credit you could dye your hair blonde, act like Angelina Jolie and/or say your into other women.

Good luck!

Not unlikeable, its just not meant to be. And trust me, it _IS_ hard on a guy to turn a girl down…

Don’t worry much about it and don’t lose confidence miss!
We (guys) are overrated assholes at time tbh!

My 2 cents, don’t care, keep you headup and chill!

LOL I love Brandon’s advice…but I don’t think you have to resort to such extreme measures. The right one *will* come along…he’s just lost, and you know guys are about asking for directions! Give him time, he’ll show up! (Eventually.)

(Keeping away from advice)
I don’t know, but you seem a very likable person from the personality you show on the blog. Maybe you need to show more of that side to people, and as you said before, merge both personalities into one.

And theres a different way to treat everyone. Just find out the right way for each person. Don’t worry, like Digital Nomad said, he’ll show up…

No question guys are overrated. I’m sure I’m not the only one who thinks you can come off a tad negative at times. In the end, if this dude put you through all this shit then who cares? Good riddance to bad rubbish or whatever the hell the saying is. Hang in there chuckles!

I’m not the best one to comment but I always remember: People suck. People behavior suck.

Join the club. Most people I find are pretentious and very selfish. They tend to go for looks mainly and personality is a very distant second. They have a big list of traits they want in a mate. It is like they are shopping for a new car or something. They expect you to be perfect but they don’t have to be perfect themselves. What I can’t get over is how guys expect their girlfriends to be skinny and pretty but they go around looking like some fat hairy ape who doesn’t bathe. :gross:

Mona,
Their loss sweetie! Don’t even worry about having to impress people to like you. Our culture is so messed up. Live life and have fun life is way too short. I got married right after college and I never had an opportunity to work and my friends and I lost touch. Don’t get me wrong my husband is a great guy but I look at my younger sister and she is living life all because my parents have a more chill attitude with her than they did with me. My point is never forget how much you are really worth and when you establish that attitude believe me you will find the one. I know how you feel growing up in the West and still trying to carry out our traditions can makes us feel very vulnerable and not to mention akward. Love hits when you least expect it too. Peace

From knowing you through this blog,and figuring things out about u..what this blog reflects..what u r when interacting with ppl..I’d say you are a unique woman, it takes a unique man to understand a unique woman,or at least appreciate who he’s dealing with.
And I’m not just saying that to be nice,its what I truly believe.

hey there. hope today is better. i’m on campus studying for my exam and i keep meaning to tell you that i’m constantly thinking i see you up here, but am never sure. anyway, i’ll guess i’ll have to get on that live cam of yours so i can get a better idea about what you look like. oh, and no – i’m not a stalker. anyway, enjoy your weekend and all the best.

You seem to be a very like able personality for a short term relationship but I seriously think that most of the real guys would not go for a long term relationship with a girl who chooses to be not the homemaker type. It is just animal nature.

There are also guys who do not like the hypocritical middle eastern culture and believe in progressive Islamic values.

From what I have observed, for any serious marriage to work, anywhere and in any culture, man and woman have to play their ceremonial roles.

ok in that case keep on waiting for your prince charming

BTW have u read “men are from mars and women are from some other weird planet”

my personal experience with girls is that some of the girls think that they can balance work and family and in fact they do it well but what guys are looking for is a full time companion.

i.e., girls who think that after marriage their real JOB is being a good wife and a good mom and it should be their primary source of self actualization.

I apply the same to the guys as well and guys should also be man enough to encourage their companions to have some other creative outlet as well.

Women are over rated! But id still love one right now…. It sucks being single! This is the longest ive been single in 7yrs!

Just think yourself lucky Mona! If you would have got even more hooked on this guy it would have been worse…. now you can find a better man.