One-sided love ends in a blog
I was reading a few articles about relationships and I came across the term “one-sided love.” Every time I hear or read that phrase I quiver in my seat and think of what I did to my life. You can ask so many people if they were ever in a one-sided love relationship, and they would say yes. Others may argue that there is no such thing as one-sided love. Love has to be mutual. I disagree with that.
Love is not mutual. Not all the time. Sometimes people pretend to love you for various unknown selfish reasons, and you think it is mutual love. Sometimes people pretend to love you because they just need the company and to show off. Once you see any sign of this happening in a relationship, the other person is being used and abused emotionally. Then you automatically know that the relationship will end soon and become a long lasting what if.
What if? 
Ahh..
I think I am having a bad day. I think it has to do with my pointless life. It also has to do with it being wedding season and I keep getting dragged to people’s weddings that I don’t know and wonder why they are 6 years younger than me and getting married.
Does my life suck or what?
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I agree largely with u, indeed it is possible to feel an intense connection to someone while he doesn’t feel that way at all. That person could be involved with someone else or just hadn’t ever looked at that individual in that way, I don’t think it has to be a mutal thing, either i t was an instant lust or a true love.
It certainly helps if both people feel the chemistry and It can be pretty unpleasent if only one feels it, may u always be blessed to find someone that loves u back if ?
good luck :cute:
Truly speaking I am 22 now and i have decided that i would love to lead a single life as far as possible. That way i can always be independent and always don’t have to see for others permission whenever i feel like doing something. I think you should also enjoy your independence. I am sorry if i am making any suggestions. you can delete the last sentence if u feel i am intruding.
Hate me if you like… But I was in a relationship like this for many years. I fell out of love with my ex (2xEx)and the only reason I was in the relationship was because of my daughter. My ex was a big crazy and I knew what she would be like if I left. It was more easy to stay and have a relationship with my daughter then leave and have to go through courts and have her do things (Like she has).
Sometimes I do think that it can be just to have one of these relationships. It is sad… but close to all relationships are based on some lies..
I’ve learnt everything I know about relationships by doing what I’m doing now – listening to others.
I always liked a different term often used for one sided love: unrequited!