The Guest Post that made me cry.

This is a guest post by one of my loyal readers: Lee Doyle. He is from Bristol, England and has a very controversial and honest blog as well.

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Everyone loves the “bay boy” image from the movies and who cannot forget the image Sandy had in the ending of Grease… Well this is how I see Mona in the blogging world. She is not afraid to speak her mind and will tell you if she does not like you… But she also has a softer side which we never get to see much.

You sometimes see glimpses of it in her posts from time to time… She reminds me of a rebellious teenager a lot. she moans about her mother and sister and uses the word “Hate” a lot… when she does not mean it.

Of course I do not know Mona in person (At all) so most if this is just what I gather from the few moments I get to read about her life and thoughts. She reminds me of myself in some ways, she loves to complain about anything… She loves to win every argument and will never give up even when she knows she is wrong… She is passionate about her interests and heritage, and she loves to have something to moan about (or will find something if nothing comes to mind).

People like Mona are only ever happy when they have done their fighting for the day, and can look back on their conquests and relive the key moments. This is a great thing but most people will see it as bad thing… But the world needs honest people who never give up even when defeat is staring them in the face.

One day you will read about how much Mona despises her sister or mother, the next week she let out how much she looks up to her mother and how she tries to bond with her sister… But loves to wind her up because she feels it is best for her to do and say these things so she does not turn out like her… I know this feeling myself.

One thing you never hear Mona mention is her Father… I do not know if this is because of something bad or she just does not get on with him… Which ever it is I am sure it is for a good reason.

We always read about how much Mona hates her job, how it is holding her in her past and forever changing in ways she hates. I always read about her ex-boss and wonder if he is seen more than just a boss in her eyes. I think this is one person she looks up to in some way (Older borther? Father she wished she had?)… I am sure it is only in a fatherly way… She confuses me with this one. Maybe it was him keeping her in her current job and now she really has had the push to leave and move on.

The one thing I see from Mona is that she has been hurt by love. When you ever see her mention her ex she will always mention him in a bad light and the normal “I hope he is unhappy”. This shows that she is still very much hurt and is not fully over him, but would never trust him again (I hope). She wants to find love but has a lot of commitments and pressures from her family and beliefs. You can see it in her posts that she hates being alone and has so many friends getting married and she is getting left behind.

She will not settle for second best, and does not want to marry for any reason apart from real love… But she wants love now… And she thinks she is getting older and older and still stuck in her teenage life and living at home and fighting with her sister.

I know plenty of people like this, and they all feel the same… She will hate me saying that she fits into categories but she mostly does… Is this a real bad thing? My guess is she would love to lead a normal life… But she loves to be different and rebellious, but also would not be happy living that normal life (For long).

I hope Mona can find this guy and life she so desperately needs. the only thing I also hope is she will still give us the lovable Mona we all love to read about.

One last thing I would like to talk about is why she has so many stalkers. I think Mona secretly likes having them and she gives a little smile every time she gets a comment or email… But then that smile quickly turns to rebelus mode and she sees something she hates in these men.

Mona has many things guys look for in their dream girl. I will lost some of these:

* She is rebellious
* She is good at arguing
* She will always surprise you
* You know you will never fully control this girl
* She is into many guy things like Programming and techy things
* She is very beautiful
* She pushes guys away
* She has build lots of walls around herself that guys want to break down

The last one may be strange. Mona has a mask she likes to wear and she (I may mind) is waiting for a guy to break down these walls she has build and see the real her… most guys I think know this about most girls but see it as too much of a challenge and give up… but some see it as a good thing and are attracted to it.

She comes across as a guys girl. She loves to keep fit, loves her techy things, and programs so you know she will understand a lot of the things us men like to talk about…

One last thing I think any of these stalkers need to know is to even stand a chance with Mona you need to jump through hoops… and be good at it… You will battle for every square foot with Mona. I also think she is looking for more than just a person to email and come over to marry her… no offense.

So here is to the ever complicated Mona, may your blog forever grace my computer screens in the future.

Don’t change, we love you as you are.

They said what?, Whatever!