What I have learned

This has been going around the internet lately. I picked it up from stumbling, and numerous sites have it. They are simple thoughts of “what I learned” in my life.

So I picked a few that I thought reflect me more, and what I have learned in my life. Some I relate to. Some I didn’t realize till it was too late. Some, well, just something to think about all the time.

1. I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone that can be loved. The rest is up to them.
2. I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.
3. I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
4. I’ve learned that it’s not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.
5. I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.
6. I’ve learned that you can do some thing in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
7. I’ve learned that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
8. I’ve learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. That either you control your attitude or it controls you.
9. I’ve learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
10. I’ve learned that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.
11. I’ve learned that no matter good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

12. I’ve learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

What have you learned?

Random Thoughts, They said what?