Arabs justify everything by blaming others

It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt.

-Mark Twain

I get very interesting emails every day. Usually they are emails from teenagers or some lonely person who needs someone to talk to. They talk by criticizing and daring me to reply back, and want a dual with words. They think they can hurt me by a bunch of empty pointless words. Fortunately, when I was growing up, there was a saying that children were taught to not feel bad from inconsiderate bullies’ remarks. It said this, “sticks and stones may brake my bones, but words can never hurt me.”

Fortunately, some children were able to live by that rule and grew up to ignore any criticism that was given to them. That does not mean that they ignore or not care. They listen, but they will not show any weakness and take that criticism to heart, and will never show you that they are hurt. That’s how bloggers now a days are feeling. That’s what we try to do.

Words don’t hurt. However, foolish people’s words make you wonder what’s wrong with people and why they say that. In my case, most of the empty criticisms that I receive are from Arabs them selves. They criticize my writing, they call me names, they say that I am racist towards other Arab nationalities and how would I feel if they start insulting Palestinians in return, etc. I sit at my computer desk at home and read this with shock. Why? I keep asking why? What in the world did I write that someone out there took such an offense by it and wasted their time to write such unthoughtful remarks?

Unfortunately, there is that obscure thought that permeates many Arabs. When they see success in a fellow Arab, then they automatically blame it on Western influence or Zionist interaction and help.

That’s when I draw the line.

The most foolish thing I have received thus far through this site is some idiot’s remark of the advertisement on my site. That the words sexy and Arab girls in one phrase is a Zionist ideology. That the ads are all coming from Zionists’ websites to shamefully represent Arabs in a negative manner. That Arab girls are whores, and look good, and they are free for anyone to see through these sites.

I read that sentence and my jaw dropped. I didn’t know if I was mad or wanted to laugh from astonishment. There are Arabs out there that think that way? Why?

First off, I don’t control the ads that are coming from Google. Yes, I make money through them to cover the costs of this site. However, most of the ads are coming from sites such as Arablounge.com, Muslima.com, and God knows what. All are Arab and Muslim dating sites. It’s like my blog, people hate it, they wonder if I was Arab or even a girl who is writing the shit that I write on my site. Why the doubt? Why is it that if an Arab does not like something, does not approve of something, is not happy with how something turned out, is astonished by someone’s success, they automatically blame it on Western or Zionist influence. Why?

Why can’t Arabs blame them selves sometimes for their stupidity? For their derogatory words, for their shameful ways, and for their ill manner with dealing with others? Why everything good can only come out of Arabs, and everything bad from every where else in the world? I am not here to defend Westerners or Zionist. I don’t give a rat’s ass about any of them and I support no one but my self. However, I want Arabs to be a bit open minded, use their brains for once and stop blaming everything bad on the rest of the world, and appear like innocent and perfect fools. Arabs are not perfect! No one is perfect. Stop blaming all the shit that you can’t stand on the influence of other cultures or people. No one gives a shit. The more you say that, the more people will think you are the racist closed minded person, and you put the rest of us in this pool of idiots that can’t reason with facts! No wonder why the rest of the word has such a negative view point of us Arabs. It’s cause of idiots like you!

My advice is to grow up! Go outside and see how the world is run. It’s not what you think! Not even close!!

Angry, Blah Blah, Idiots, They said what?