An update on my bff dad’s cancer situation
A few days ago I wrote about my best friend Lisa dad’s cancer situation. He had the operation two days ago, and a lot of things happened. I am just glad that they didn’t wait any longer. The cancer was spreading rapidly through his tongue that it spread an inch more.
I finally got hold of her today, and I chatted with her. This is what she said about the situation.
Lines from MSN that she wrote:
.> operation was really hard
.> cancer got bigger in a wk span before operation
.> almost 1 inch bigger
.> my dads recovery they said now is at least 9 months….and hes gonna require chemo
.> his heart was a lil spiked after operation so they were worried about him
.> plus his neck wouldnt stop bleeding
.> his face looks a lil messed tho cos of all the stitching………….
.> yeah wheer they opened his whole neck and face
.> right now hes in intensive care unit
.> but he’ll be in hospital for 2 wks after
.> omg mona i dont thik u know the extent of wats happening
.> mona they took away 3/4 of his tongue…..the cancer also spread to his glands in his neck
.> and without a tongue u can speak…………he has to go to speach therapy while his trongue regrows in order to learn to speak again
.> his swallowing wont get back to normal
.> his sense of taste wont be back until maybe 6 months
.> his face is stitched up all underneath his jaw and side of his face and his mouth is a lil messed up
I can’t even imagine how hard this must feel. I just pray for her and her family to give them strength through this hard time.














Inshallah khair. I pray for her and her family to get through this too, which I am sure she will. The upside to all this, is I am glad he has been able to get the appropriate care (which sounds like he did). You would be amazed at the medical advances we’ve achieved in the last decade, so inshallah khair.
a few weeks ago i was giving salah and i started crying…like intensely…not just a few tears but rivers of salty goodness running down my face…and you know what i was praying for? i was praying that the bleeding stopped….i prayed that all the bleeding stopped. that this world stops hurting and i yearn for a new world without pain. am i an idealist? i just want people to be safe, happy, and healthy. ill pray for him in fajr.
I am truly sorry to hear that
it’s so sad..her family will be in my prayers!