Comments on: Why do we hold grudges?

By: KJ

KJ — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 05:56:49 +0000

You have to learn to let go because you’re really only stressing yourself and exhausting your energy

By: Brian

Brian — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 00:45:55 +0000

a grudge is one of the heaviest things to carry. it weighs the saint down and keeps the sinner going. you guys know this but i would like to take a moment and reiterate in my own words; forget it and move on, and when that individual comes poking around ignore them and don’t add fuel to the fire. unless of course you like a good fight

By: Christopher

Christopher — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 19:16:09 +0000

I am that way too I dont speak to people when they do me wrong because I just feel that you screw me over once thats my fault.. do it again well thats my fault for forgiving you and 3rd time… well its your loss because I cut you completely out of my life . I am like you I think its better for me than for them. I move on and forget about them and dont think about them again and they’re never welcome to talk to me again!

~ Christopher ~

http://cmarlow480.blogspot.com/

By: Erica

Erica — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 14:26:33 +0000

I have a huge grudge against one person, and one person only! She hurt me emotionally very badly in high school and I still don’t understand why she did what she did – I think that is why I’m still holding the grudge.

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By: jade

jade — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 02:09:37 +0000

All I gotta say is, I would rather hold a grudge towards someone, than forgive and forget, because as we all know, the wheel keeps on turning, and history keeps repeating itself.
After all that I have experienced in my life, I discovered that I have more foes than friends. Maybe it’s because I say what’s on my mind without hesistation or to even try to sugar coat it..why be fake..when i can save myself future obstacles?

By: pinaywife

pinaywife — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 01:53:00 +0000

i could relate well with you. i don’t really hold grudges, I just have the tendency to be cool or ignore other people who either pisses me off or I just don’t like.

Some people say at times I could be anti-social or unfriendly but I like it that way. I prefer being quiet rather than listening or pretending to like someone I am annoyed with.I have aversion to is making chit chats and small talks. Its just so hard for me to say things I don’t really mean.

I do have friends and I like having them. But they are just few and they are the one’s I know I could really count on and accepts me the way I really am.