Comments on: “No, Arabs don’t know what love is, more so they don’t feel it.”

By: Oksana

Oksana — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 07:36:25 +0000

I agree with the post above, since it concerns a lot of arab men I met – ps. I’m ukrainian. but I guess I am a lucky one who found one from the rare amazing person & non hipocrite ones

There are good arab men. just they are hiding a lot

By: Ana

Ana — Sat, 25 Oct 2008 08:30:34 +0000

Mona, I have one question. What do you think arab men think of women who are not afraid to hurt them, i mean physically?
I am dating an arab man for two months now, I love him but I am not sure if he loves me, too. He is such a sweet guy but he changes whenever he gets angry. He shouts at me and hits me. And whenever he does that, I do the same thing for him.
One day, he cried and asked me why am I doing this to him, and that I don’t treat him like a man. I told him, it’s just because he doesn’t treat me like a woman.
Sigh, it’s really hard to date an arab man. For me, it’s like I am raising an eight year old spoiled brat boy.

By: international_girl

international_girl — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 02:18:51 +0000

Just wanted to add that this guy showed certain signs that gave me odd view about arab men. And not only him. His friend was even worse. The guy used to spend night after night with his girlfriend in hotel rooms. But what really irritated me most was the fact that my date was more leaned towards my sexuality than anything else. I mean in the 2nd week of our relationship he asked me what my breast size was. I was extremely skinny back then and he asked me to gain weight so that my private parts looked bigger. Thats very very disgusting.

By: Mona

Mona — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 02:03:06 +0000

Very interesting story, but I heard similar ones that make you wonder, “what the hell are wrong with these guys!?”

By: international_girl

international_girl — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 01:58:55 +0000

I once dated an Arab guy from UAE. I didn’t want to though. I was just angry with my American guy and thought to break away from him. This UAE guy seemed to be the nicest one on earth in the beginning. From day one he started telling me how he fell in love with me and how desperately he wanted to marry me.However, I knew very very well that he wasn’t in love with me at all, for I loved my US guy immensely and the experience assumed me how to know when someone is in love. And I always questioned myself how on earth would someone fall in love with a person just by the first hi on the phone!!! Well, he started giving me temptation like if we married he would buy me lexus and we would make love in 5 star hotel suite. I was like oh yeah, go ahead!!! At one point his real face started to come forward. I was a virgin and bowed never to lose it. But then one afternoon on a date with him I got pressured by him to have sex with him. I kept saying no and gradually he turned into a beast. I got scared so much that I almost started to cry. But then he came back to his “Prince” mask and was like don’t worry, I wouldnt be like this again,but you should learn how to keep a man happy. I still didn’t care cuz I saw him only as a date. His real face again started to come out as his madness to have sex with me got even worse and at one point I felt extremely irritated. I felt as if it was some kind of a punishment god was giving me for hurting my previous guy. One fine day I called him and as we chatted we started coming closer. Thats when I felt how much I loved him and what he really meant to me. So I thought to tell the Arab dude that there would be no more of him and me anymore. I was pretty polite with my points. But he got mad. He called me a wh0re, b1tich, etc. But I didn’t care cuz I had to be with my previous guy. At one point he started sending me threats like how he would get me kidnapped and oh he even left fake message on my voice mail so that I went back to him. But I didn’t. After like 6 months I went to check one of his social network page where I saw a message that went something like hey, N do you want girls from Jamaica, they are cool too. Thats when I figured out that he was a player. And his feelings of love were fake.

By: dede

dede — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 16:19:12 +0000

Burj Asian i really understand what u mean this is your oppinion and thats yours we both have our own views!!

and like mona says if i agree with you wed both be wrong.

thanks anyways

By: Mona

Mona — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 21:19:56 +0000

I, as the site owner, have lost interest in what Burj Asian has been blabbering about for the past few comments.

By: Amin F

Amin F — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 21:18:22 +0000

Hmm this discussion is still alive? keep receiving email notifications, so I read a few to see what’s going on and I’ve concluded…….

That somebody should get a court order to restrain Burj Asian from anything even close to resembling intelligent discussion.

That is all….

By: BurjAsian

BurjAsian — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 18:46:48 +0000

hi dede,.

Thank you for your comments i appreciayte all of that….i respect all arabs men, gay, women or lesbian…. all that kinds of things are normal u have to understand that!& anywhere you can find,

Anyway i dont force you to believe me, i just want you to know for all the things i found here in arab world… im sorry but out of 100 ARAB mens i meet only 1 (one) straight…. maybe he is old thats why! unlike with new generation…. honestly i have boyfriend local he work as police he love me morethan to his girlfriend (local)i proven that,& i also love him so much! he spend a lot of time for me, even i force him to visit his gf,

I BELIEVE that ARABS KNOW’S HOW TO LOVE BUT AFRAID TO DO IT! specialy guys,

dede, hope u understand what i mean…. i just want to open your mind… even im foreigner here in your country im also human and i have right to live in this world we are the son of god, religion is not the important.. the important is you know how to LOVE!

THANKS & REGARDS,

BurjAsian
Dubai-UAE

By: dede

dede — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 10:10:54 +0000

BurjAsian

I was actually in the middle of writing this long comment about wat u just said but i decided that i really dont care what you think becoz first of all

ur forigner u KNOW NOthing!!
second im an emiratie and believe me i know better i live here im part of what u call the 99.9 g/arabs. besides
if people start judging a whole country with just a couple of people they know and things they hear then would u still say were terrorist were arabs and muslims u know and thats what the majorty of the world think we are. Does that make this True about us !!

point is … Dont judge the UAE/ARAB men by just this small percentage that u happen to know!!

i hope u understood wat i mean