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		<title>By: dede</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2008/10/08/a-visual-facade/comment-page-1/#comment-39959</link>
		<dc:creator>dede</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2008 20:48:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Girls who do wear the veil must also represent the positive morals and ethics that Islam is known for.

YES , i just wish the girls i see in uni everyday read this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Girls who do wear the veil must also represent the positive morals and ethics that Islam is known for.</p>
<p>YES , i just wish the girls i see in uni everyday read this.</p>
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		<title>By: Sheraz Ahmed</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2008/10/08/a-visual-facade/comment-page-1/#comment-39897</link>
		<dc:creator>Sheraz Ahmed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2008 05:24:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is the first time i am commenting on your blog. So here it goes. I am happy to see you blog. Beside the facts that you are open minded, logical and respectful - you are Muslim who possess all these qualities and presenting them gracefully in-front of the world. Call me bias but it makes me joyous whenever i see any Muslim do something good. Mona, there are two aspects to everything ordained or advised in religion. Why we do it? What purpose its going to serve? For me the answer to former is &#039;We do it for ALMIGHTY&#039;. It definitely doesn&#039;t mean that ALLAH enacted anything without wisdom but for me submission to ALLAH is or should be the primary reason for obeying a command. Secondly, the purpose behind doing anything that is either ordained or advised by Almighty, according to Quran is, either moral cleanliness or physical cleanliness, nothing else. 

Some people might follow certain commands in religion but without knowing its purpose. Others might just do it because everybody else is doing it, as a &quot;Cultural Thing&quot;. In either case the act won&#039;t serve the purpose. That&#039;s why certain girls don&#039;t find it weird to wear provocative clothes alongside Scarf. They need not to be cursed but educated. And its our responsibility to educate them. 

According to Islam i cannot force anybody to do any righteous good deed. The only obligation on me, according to Quran, is to convey the message, and that too in the best possible, polite and presentable way. So forcing any Muslim to follow any commandment of Islam is absurd and against Islamic rules.

For me, attire of a Muslim women is something for which she is answerable to ALLAH not me. I wont look down at her if she is not doing it but i will respect more the ones who are actually following GOD commandments. 

You said its a cultural thing. If by that you meant that most of the girls do it because of cultural, i agree to it 100%. But if you meant that Islam, has not ordained it. I humbly beg to differ because of the following Quranic verse:

Surah Nur [24:31]. &quot;And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and protect their private parts and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent and to draw their khimar all over Juyubihinna...&quot;

As far as i know the word khimar means &quot;Head Coverings&quot; or &quot;Head Scarf&quot;. I am not making a statement here Mona, i am just sharing my view point, and i can be very well wrong. Please correct me if i am wrong here, as you know Arabic :). 

May ALLAH bless you and guide you like no other. 

Asalam-o-Alaikum</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the first time i am commenting on your blog. So here it goes. I am happy to see you blog. Beside the facts that you are open minded, logical and respectful &#8211; you are Muslim who possess all these qualities and presenting them gracefully in-front of the world. Call me bias but it makes me joyous whenever i see any Muslim do something good. Mona, there are two aspects to everything ordained or advised in religion. Why we do it? What purpose its going to serve? For me the answer to former is &#8216;We do it for ALMIGHTY&#8217;. It definitely doesn&#8217;t mean that ALLAH enacted anything without wisdom but for me submission to ALLAH is or should be the primary reason for obeying a command. Secondly, the purpose behind doing anything that is either ordained or advised by Almighty, according to Quran is, either moral cleanliness or physical cleanliness, nothing else. </p>
<p>Some people might follow certain commands in religion but without knowing its purpose. Others might just do it because everybody else is doing it, as a &#8220;Cultural Thing&#8221;. In either case the act won&#8217;t serve the purpose. That&#8217;s why certain girls don&#8217;t find it weird to wear provocative clothes alongside Scarf. They need not to be cursed but educated. And its our responsibility to educate them. </p>
<p>According to Islam i cannot force anybody to do any righteous good deed. The only obligation on me, according to Quran, is to convey the message, and that too in the best possible, polite and presentable way. So forcing any Muslim to follow any commandment of Islam is absurd and against Islamic rules.</p>
<p>For me, attire of a Muslim women is something for which she is answerable to ALLAH not me. I wont look down at her if she is not doing it but i will respect more the ones who are actually following GOD commandments. </p>
<p>You said its a cultural thing. If by that you meant that most of the girls do it because of cultural, i agree to it 100%. But if you meant that Islam, has not ordained it. I humbly beg to differ because of the following Quranic verse:</p>
<p>Surah Nur [24:31]. &#8220;And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and protect their private parts and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent and to draw their khimar all over Juyubihinna&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>As far as i know the word khimar means &#8220;Head Coverings&#8221; or &#8220;Head Scarf&#8221;. I am not making a statement here Mona, i am just sharing my view point, and i can be very well wrong. Please correct me if i am wrong here, as you know Arabic <img src='http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> . </p>
<p>May ALLAH bless you and guide you like no other. </p>
<p>Asalam-o-Alaikum</p>
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		<title>By: Hani Obaid</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2008/10/08/a-visual-facade/comment-page-1/#comment-39846</link>
		<dc:creator>Hani Obaid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 01:35:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My thoughts on the subject:
http://blog.haniobaid.com/2008/08/14/hijabi-identity/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My thoughts on the subject:<br />
<a href="http://blog.haniobaid.com/2008/08/14/hijabi-identity/" rel="nofollow">http://blog.haniobaid.com/2008/08/14/hijabi-identity/</a></p>
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		<title>By: dougrogers</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2008/10/08/a-visual-facade/comment-page-1/#comment-39829</link>
		<dc:creator>dougrogers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Oct 2008 22:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wonder so much about cultural relics and identity. Are they functional in situ?

When we trekked the Annapurna in Nepal, at altitude, in very warm weather, exposed to the sun all day, walking great distances - so many westerners walked in respectable shorts, perhaps pants rolled up, short sleeved shirts and used their hats to fan themselves. The Nepalis, and Tibetans, at altitude walked in layers of wool from head to foot. We thought they were crazy. They thought we were crazy.

But they were actually insulated, and cool underneath, and didn&#039;t sweat away water to evaporation. Duh.

Traditional Arabian dress works well in climate... in situ.

I do occasionally shave my head. Sometimes that&#039;s an expression of my Buddhism. Sometimes it&#039;s because I did it once and find it very cooling during the summer. It is a very effective refrigerant in tropical climates. 

As a Buddhist, the practice is to question Identity: &quot;Show me your face before you were born!&quot; I don&#039;t practice Buddhism as an identity. Why practice religion as an Identity? Why is hijab important to who you are?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder so much about cultural relics and identity. Are they functional in situ?</p>
<p>When we trekked the Annapurna in Nepal, at altitude, in very warm weather, exposed to the sun all day, walking great distances &#8211; so many westerners walked in respectable shorts, perhaps pants rolled up, short sleeved shirts and used their hats to fan themselves. The Nepalis, and Tibetans, at altitude walked in layers of wool from head to foot. We thought they were crazy. They thought we were crazy.</p>
<p>But they were actually insulated, and cool underneath, and didn&#8217;t sweat away water to evaporation. Duh.</p>
<p>Traditional Arabian dress works well in climate&#8230; in situ.</p>
<p>I do occasionally shave my head. Sometimes that&#8217;s an expression of my Buddhism. Sometimes it&#8217;s because I did it once and find it very cooling during the summer. It is a very effective refrigerant in tropical climates. </p>
<p>As a Buddhist, the practice is to question Identity: &#8220;Show me your face before you were born!&#8221; I don&#8217;t practice Buddhism as an identity. Why practice religion as an Identity? Why is hijab important to who you are?</p>
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		<title>By: leila</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2008/10/08/a-visual-facade/comment-page-1/#comment-39807</link>
		<dc:creator>leila</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2008 20:46:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a hijabi, i use foul language sometimes and i go out on dates. I dont think that hijab makes me more modest that non hijabis. I have my own reasons for wearing it, bit cultural and a bit religious. Why should people put us in a box and expect us to behave a certain way?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a hijabi, i use foul language sometimes and i go out on dates. I dont think that hijab makes me more modest that non hijabis. I have my own reasons for wearing it, bit cultural and a bit religious. Why should people put us in a box and expect us to behave a certain way?</p>
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		<title>By: Dena</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2008/10/08/a-visual-facade/comment-page-1/#comment-39803</link>
		<dc:creator>Dena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2008 11:07:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s the caked on makeup that really annoys me the most. I mean, by wearing a veil, your supposed deter attention, correct? Then you see women with caked on foundation, eyeshadow in every color of the rainbow and penciled in eyebrows...and then she wears a veil. The veil frames her face and actually draws more attention than a woman with no veil and modest makeup. They are trying to fit both the western and Islamic ideals at the same time but end up making a mockery of both!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s the caked on makeup that really annoys me the most. I mean, by wearing a veil, your supposed deter attention, correct? Then you see women with caked on foundation, eyeshadow in every color of the rainbow and penciled in eyebrows&#8230;and then she wears a veil. The veil frames her face and actually draws more attention than a woman with no veil and modest makeup. They are trying to fit both the western and Islamic ideals at the same time but end up making a mockery of both!</p>
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		<title>By: Lee Doyle</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2008/10/08/a-visual-facade/comment-page-1/#comment-39789</link>
		<dc:creator>Lee Doyle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 21:21:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi,

I am sorry that I did offend you. I just do not know how else to explain it.

For me it was like having a bunch of people wearing  balaclava and serving them, except that this balaclava has no mouthpiece. Where i come from if a bunch of people came in with a mask on we would think we were being robbed as these makes are meant for 2 things.

1. intimidation
2. to hide the persons face.

Maybe it is my lack of culture... maybe it my lack of education... but I did feel offended and I did think it was disrespectful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,</p>
<p>I am sorry that I did offend you. I just do not know how else to explain it.</p>
<p>For me it was like having a bunch of people wearing  balaclava and serving them, except that this balaclava has no mouthpiece. Where i come from if a bunch of people came in with a mask on we would think we were being robbed as these makes are meant for 2 things.</p>
<p>1. intimidation<br />
2. to hide the persons face.</p>
<p>Maybe it is my lack of culture&#8230; maybe it my lack of education&#8230; but I did feel offended and I did think it was disrespectful.</p>
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		<title>By: Brian</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2008/10/08/a-visual-facade/comment-page-1/#comment-39786</link>
		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 17:33:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oh and @ raquel. a true rebel is rebellious against themselves and not against someone else.it is more difficult to rebel against your own ideals than someone elses. esta verdad.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh and @ raquel. a true rebel is rebellious against themselves and not against someone else.it is more difficult to rebel against your own ideals than someone elses. esta verdad.</p>
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		<title>By: Brian</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2008/10/08/a-visual-facade/comment-page-1/#comment-39785</link>
		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 17:24:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>the hijab is the new cool :D
not only is it a sign of modesty, but it is respectful to your spouse...to only show your loved one the side that you never show to anybody else is like a diamond in the rough. and when you and your loved one come together it is like two seas, full of lulu wa marjan, which will never part. 
i am a muslim by choice and i find it one of the most difficult religions to adhere to and i was always taught that with the greatest difficulty comes the greatest reward. 
actions always speak louder than words, and any women taking the time to cover herself, not with makeup, but with hijab/niqab of course, has my full respect.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the hijab is the new cool <img src='http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
not only is it a sign of modesty, but it is respectful to your spouse&#8230;to only show your loved one the side that you never show to anybody else is like a diamond in the rough. and when you and your loved one come together it is like two seas, full of lulu wa marjan, which will never part.<br />
i am a muslim by choice and i find it one of the most difficult religions to adhere to and i was always taught that with the greatest difficulty comes the greatest reward.<br />
actions always speak louder than words, and any women taking the time to cover herself, not with makeup, but with hijab/niqab of course, has my full respect.</p>
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		<title>By: Mona</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 15:18:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Umm.. I knew Lee&#039;s comment will cause a bit of an argument. I am not going to intrude into this. However, I do agree with Asoom. Lee, your position on the matter is a bit closed minded and you need to understand the reasoning behind the attire chosen by Muslim women before you make any judgments.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Umm.. I knew Lee&#8217;s comment will cause a bit of an argument. I am not going to intrude into this. However, I do agree with Asoom. Lee, your position on the matter is a bit closed minded and you need to understand the reasoning behind the attire chosen by Muslim women before you make any judgments.</p>
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