Arabs don’t know the meaning of ‘mind your own fucking business!’
I am on a long-term vacation from work right now. I do not have a problem announcing it, and I made that choice for my self because I worked non-stop for over 6 years. No vacations what so ever! I do not want a steady job right now and I am not looking for one. I do not need the money. I have enough money to put a down payment on a house. That’s more than what I have to say to some of you out there who waste their money left and right over nonsense and do not know how to save. However, in the culture that I was inevitably born in, that is not the case. In my culture, a girl is either married, has a job, or both. Well, I do not fit that group eh? So, what the fuck am I?
Arab women have a serious problem with wanting to “know.” Why do old women care to know? No clue. Maybe to feed their curiosity and have something to talk about with other women. That is why I do not like working with Arabs, or associating my self with Arabs in my city at all, and I do not like people talking about me or wondering what am I doing. When a women at a funeral asks my mother, “Is Mona still working?” makes me wonder what the hell is going on in their heads. My mother was baffled by the question at a funeral. Usually people are sad and their minds are somewhere else, but not some Arab women. Oh no. It’s a great place to be gathered and ask questions instead.
Obviously, some people by now know that I quit work, and I am floating around daily doing nothing or something. My blog is the evidence and there are some Arab floaters that read it. I am not going to hide and make another blog with another identity because of them. They can kiss my ass and I know they are pure jealous of my ability to make such choices. Some of those people seriously have a problem with keeping their mouth shut, and think “OH MY GOD! MONA QUIT WORK AND DOING NOTHING!” So? Tell me SO! SO WHAT!
I despise Arabs in my city. I really do, and I try my best to avoid them because they are the cause of my discontent with the culture. I do not understand this need to wanting to know, gossip, and spread useless crap that does not affect them. It’s like an acquired horrible habit that Arabs have. I can’t stand it!
You Arabs! LEAVE ME ALONE! I do not give a shit about you or anyone. The reason you talk about me because you will NEVER reach my level of self confidence, defying the norm, and being an individual!
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I find it interesting that your post is directed solely at Arab women, when I thought gossiping and being nosy were common traits of countless women of all races. I suppose you focus on them because you are Arab yourself. I think it’s an acquired horrible habit that women learn from their mothers and the other women and girls they grow up around. Or maybe it’s a genetic defect. hehe
I focus on Arabs because I am actually talking about them. If it was women in general, then I would have explicitly addressed that. I do not got a problem with that. However, I believe that Arab women have this REALLY BAD habit that is SO common! If all women in the world are like that, than hell, I am going to go insane by the time I am 30. I am getting close!
Not all women, just the majority. :p
I’m 31 and women have definitely made me nuttier than I am.
Thanks for responding to my comment.
“You Arabs! LEAVE ME ALONE! I do not give a shit about you or anyone.”
Lmaooo thats like my life moto..I try to stay away from arabs with that sort of mentality that you describe as much as possible.
If you don’t stop your anti-Arab speech, you will be walla balash
Some men have that mentality also. Guess we just have to say “Fuck it all” and ignore the ones who have no clue! I have a part time job at our high school cafeteria. My grandmother keeps telling me to get a better job, more money, etc. I’m trying to get out of the rat race all together why would I want to work more?
Mona, congrats to you that you can take time off and do what you want when you want!
Hello, I am new at posting here.
I feel for you, its quite disgusting. The same exact thing happened to my mother in my grandfather’s funeral. People get to ask some personal stuff and in a shameless cruel tone about my family’s life..and inspect misery whereever it is.
Gah…..
Way to go Mona! Arabs should shut the hell up for a change! I’m suffer from it on a daily basis too…
humm…. so much anger…………… hehe
Ah, and the individual now has a voice. You see, I read this article and thought wow….. for a girl that doesn’t give a damn about x, y, or z, you seem to have taken things on the chin……Its not like you were quick to forgive, and dare I say it a little bitter.
In all honesty, I think everyone goes through this, but if your mother hasn’t mature enough to disregard xternal factors then I really do feel sorry; and just like those couples who pursue an in-breeding policy, I really do expect your thinking to be mature….. ofcourse the above article is mere vindication of that.
The problem comes when you start ‘rallying the troops’. When you seek other ‘not-so-enlightened’ individuals to voice what can only be slander. Interestingly enough my friend commented on this humorously, and you’ll love this:
He said “Man….. this is fucked up. I don’t mind stupid people so long as I don’t hear them. The problem I got is they’re everywhere!!! at work, in the street, on the net; they know your kids and they’ve made friends with your wife, and guess what? they’re finding other stupid people and fucking! and fucking! and making more and more!”
Anyway, I usually don’t waste my time with sites like these but we had a long laugh about this topic and I just thought I’d say I hope you get better.
Take care xx