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By: jade

jade — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 00:03:09 +0000

Thanks for that cookie monster…
Natalya: it’s easily said than done!
plain and simple he’s a jerk..hundreds of Arab guys are the same as him…

By: Cookie Monster

Cookie Monster — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 23:53:32 +0000

@Natalya
Natalya, the problem (unfortunately) is not restricted only to the Arab community. Being of Indian descent, I know that this happens a lot in our community. But I think it is also true that this will happen in any community. I think god didn’t pick Arab men as the representatives of the jerk community (although there is a different school of thought – but that discussion is for another day!)

Having lived in the Middle East for a long time, I know for a fact that Arab girls are probably more firey than any other. God forbid you get on the wrong side, and things could be like hell on earth! (No offence Mona… or any other Arab girls! )

In my opinion – I think the way Mona has dealt with the situation reflects sensibility more than anything else.

By: Mona

Mona — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 19:28:02 +0000

@Cookie Monster I added it manually.. I don't know why it was not showing up.

By: Natalya

Natalya — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 19:15:51 +0000

I really hate this type of men, I HATE ALL WHAT THEY REPRESENT ALL THEIR THOUGHTS ALL THEIR IDEAS AND THEIR FAKE EGO yaaaghhhh

The hell with him, I know this type I have many Arab friends girls and boys they share many common things, the guys think they are God on earth, they have the right to fool any girl they have the right to be mean and to cheat, but no one has the right to love their own sisters even if it is true love….

On the other hand most Arab girls are so weak to stand for their rights against other Arab assholes, and that’s why the guys are encouraged to hurt more and more girls, I dare him to hurt the feelings of a Canadian non Arab girl, he can’t he is so cowered to even give it a try, coz he knows she will kick his ass, so why try just go to my typical kind Arab girl,,,,

The funny thing is the Arabic type of relations is it is a win win deal for the guy, he hurts you after six years, and now he got married to another girl who most probably is a good person and thinks she is lucky to get married to that wonderful guy who will take her to Canada, and guess what the jerk is cheap enough to ask you out ( I’m an Arab why not I go out with Mona and have some good time while waiting for my wife’s paper to get ready ) and sure after his wife is here he will be like ( why not I cheat on my wife , she can’t live without me any way, she is a weak Arab no way she will stand for her rights ) I really really feel sorry for her.

Guess what if you Arab girl don’t change the guys will get worse and worse, you know what you should do just make his life terrible, how dare he asks you out, you should make his reputation as shitty as possible in whole London, you should tell your mother and his mother and all the girls who know him, that he asked you out although he is married, I wish from the bottom of my heart that his wife will some how some way passes threw your blog and reads this post, she has the right to know that the person who claims to love her is asking another girl out, so that his bad face is out clear to the whole community , how dare he being married and asks you out, does his wife agrees on you going out with him, ( the wife that he loves more than his own sole ) no , this type don’t know how to love and the only person he loves is himself.

And his mother is cheap enough to come and kiss you while for sure she knows how an ass her son was with you, she doesn’t care.

And by the way he lied when he said that he don’t want you to pray against him, he doesn’t give a shit, do you really believe he is afraid from god …

Don’t even be bothered you are a great person, with many friends and a creative mind, who the hell is that jerk to hurt you and make you feel that bad.

TO ANY PERSON WHO READS THIS POST AND BY ANY COINCIDENT HE KNOWS THE WIFE OF THAT JERK, PLEASE WORK ON MAKING HER READ THIS.

By: Cookie Monster

Cookie Monster — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 18:03:45 +0000

Just one more thing… and this feedback more than anything (on the site design) – I liked the checkbox which emailed any followup comments. If it is not too tricky to add, that would be a wicked re-addition!

Also – is that checkbox some sort of plugin on wordpress.org blogs, or a feature which can be enabled on wordpress.com?

By: Cookie Monster

Cookie Monster — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 17:59:55 +0000

Hey!

An opinion from the other side of the fence (you know – gals vs guys) is that – not all guys are like that. I’m not defending the guy in the post in anyway, infact – anyone who puts conditions on “friendship” has issues in the first place!

I agree with Jade on the “hope particles” but that coming from a married guy is dangerous…. very very dangerous. He is possibly risking his married life and could give ou more hurt by walking this plank.

From a personal perspective, friendship with an ex is not always damaging as long as you know where the line is drawn. I am friends with one of my ex, and from time to time we have good enough interaction. The other ex (there are only 2 thank god, and I hope no more!), well… I am trying hard to walk away from everything that I had with her because the hurt and the pain, and the recovery from that pain everytime is so just not worth it.

By: Mona

Mona — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 16:45:57 +0000

@Meyrick Kirby That's me plan!

By: Mona

Mona — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 16:45:40 +0000

@asoom Yah.. them!

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By: Meyrick Kirby

Meyrick Kirby — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 05:11:26 +0000

“We should be friends”

Uh, such a bad idea. My unsolicited advice is to get him out of your system, and move on. It’s what I had to do.