Answer to the “why” is found. But then aren’t you in a sort of way responsible now, after finding the answer? Are you willing to go the extra mile to do something for those who ask for help? As you might have learned, it takes action more than words for the change.

@Rahul
what the hell does this have to do with my post?

Trying to stop it will not solve any problem. We have to regulate it so that the people know what they are upto.

Mankind has devised over generations 4 things to keep things in some form of balance.

Customs (1) and regulations (2) on how one deals (3) with another and how the community stands together to support a hierarchy (4) of the system. The choice what to practice has continued to change till date.

Any form of entity in religion, tradition, manners, habits, institution of law, order, government, economics, dictatorship, military, industry, school directly and indirectly linked to the above.

If someone wants to get out of this healthy form of thinking to improve, but rather directly impose self gratification, you identified the culprit. What they intend to do is not for others’ well being but their own and self justify their actions.

A system where one is conditioned to think in a particular way due to the structure mentioned above: needs at the same time to be conditioned to think otherwise. A person can’t flip sides without accumulative reasoning or just to have quick benefits in life (typical thinking to cases you have mentioned in the post)

Ouch. Why people are behaving negatively? For long, sociologists and psychologists have spent years on reasoning the same. They prefer if these kinds of people have come to appreciate and respect others as they treat themselves. And it comes to the above said concept of the 4 things. It’s same as listening to reasonable elders in modern terms.

But why do they do that? Indirectly, do we need to find an answer to justify their craving to explain their behavior? [some historians have gone literally mad trying to reason why bad people have done what they did] What happens is more and people cheat and the chain is built up. It happens to good hearted people and willing to form collective action to stop this kind of behavior.

Every identified troublemaker needs reeducation by specialists. Since the emotions are a deep and we can’t know what another person really thinks, isolation/banishment is final treatment (which was the first form of punishment treatment in the ancient past, who has got time and energy to change someone???). Execution (no time spend for too much thinking over the dude) and jail time (reeducation/ vocational training was introduced later by replying on tax money/ programs from non-profit organizations) are avenues where correction was sought out through.

Spoken in school or public meetings: Don’t think science will help our children to understand how to deal with each other. 2+2 will never give answers on how to deal with emotions. When You are have the answer, please teach your children good things. (And post plenty of problems, sourced from the internet, on how it returns back to them)