Comments on: Sorry, but I can never say such things

By: Kelly

Kelly — Sat, 25 Apr 2009 14:38:38 +0000

If you were a hermit and never had any contact with someone else or ran away if someone spoke to you, I’d be concerned. But you sound more like me. I like to listen and watch the world around me. That doesn’t me I don’t participate or never talk to someone I don’t know, but I don’t just randomly strike up a conversation with strangers. My mom, on the other hand, talks to anyone and everyone and somehow learns their life story in a matter of 3 minutes. It’s talent.

Kelly
http://30somethingandsearching.blogspot.com/

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By: Mariuca

Mariuca — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 22:05:20 +0000

Hi Mona! Just be yourself and ul be happier that way. As for me, I’m known to be a tantrum thrower, but only when customer service really really sucks!

By: Dwacon

Dwacon — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 20:26:41 +0000

Be true to yourself.

By: Patricia

Patricia — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 20:25:42 +0000

If you are polite and courteous with customer service people, you are unique!

By: Sapphire

Sapphire — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 14:41:56 +0000

I used to be more quiet just like you but I had to force myself to be more talkative to get any where in the world. Unfortunately employers don’t like shy quiet types. They think we lack self confidence and maybe they are right. I don’t know. All I know is being more talkative tends to go against my very nature that is why I try to avoid having to talk on the phone for more than 10 minutes at a time. I would rather be up and walking about doing something rather than just sitting there shooting the breeze over the phone with someone.

By: Mona

Mona — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 14:15:43 +0000

Wow.. I have not commented back to you guys in a couple of days. So what’s up? Thanks for the advice. I think I will stay the way I am. I am happier this way!

By: tokenblogger

tokenblogger — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 13:12:14 +0000

Keep being nice, friendly, and smiling — you’re life will be better for it!

By: Nithya

Nithya — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 06:52:02 +0000

It’s totally up to you to decide if you’re fine or not the way you are. If you’re happy as a solitary lady with the company of tried and tested good friends and family then you’re fine. If you’re lonely or think you need more compant, then get out more. Simple as that.

Just because you strike up a conversation with a stranger doesn’t make you rude or demanding. You just need to be able to pick up body signals well enough to know if they’re happy to chat while waiting in a queue or whatever or if they’re trying to get you to shut up Personally for me I think the heartbreak of getting close to people and then being disappointed is worth it because of the few who never disappoint and I’ve stayed close with.

But yes, I can understand that if you’re happy the way you are then even the smallest headache isn’t worth it!

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