When the cat’s away, the mice will play

Anonymouse surfing. What a self conscious way to surf the web. What are you hiding?

One thing that I cannot stand is spending my day looking at my site’s statistics to see who bothered to visit it using stupid anonymous surfing sites. Is this the only way you can leave comments on my site? Or worse yet, the only way to communicate with me? You think I am stupid and I cannot figure out who it is and why?

1. You cannot just email me instead? I usually reply back.

2. You cannot just use your real name and surf the internet normally? Why are you hiding anyways? Who cares?

3. I have my own life, and I live it the way I please. If you are bothered by my life style choices, religious opinions, and you think that you are obligated to control me and give me your advice all the time, then you are wrong.

4. If you are pissed that I left to BC, and didn’t tell anyone, especially you, then don’t worry, I wasn’t thinking when I did it. I needed a vacation. Didn’t you always tell me that? Or are you more pissed off that I am thinking of settling by looking for work here instead? Maybe I need a change in life, and not the same old thing over and over again. Maybe that has been my problem all along.

5. I don’t want any hard feelings between us. I am just going through a hard time, and for once, put your self in my shoes. Ok? Is that too hard? Not everyone has a perfectly ordered life and no problems.

6. I had this blog since 2006, and I use it to communicate my opinion with others. Opinions. Opinions. Opinions. That’s the magic word, opinion. It is also a place where I can record events that happened in my life and look back at them. It is also a way for people who appreciate my honestly, like my writing style, appreciate my online social networking friendships, to get to know everything about me. I am a real person you know. And you would be surprised how well people know me now. Probably more than I know my self.

7. You won’t believe the amount of caring thoughts, helpful tips, and prayers I get from visitors. I love it. It gives me hope, and I appreciate everyone. However, I don’t like it when people force feed me advice and think that their opinions are the only ones that are correct, and mine are always wrong. You don’t leave room to debate in this situation, but only make me angry and ignore you more.

8. I don’t care if you like my blog or not. I am sticking to it. Unlike some people’s extravagant life style, this site is my only source of income. However, with the support of many people so far, I am going to be starting a couple of new blogs with lots of writers to help me out, and start something big. It will take time, but I am patient and have lots of faith.

9. I will continue looking for work here or back in London, or wherever God puts me. I don’t care anymore. I need a stable income, a permanent job, and room for improvement. If worse gets to worse, I will keep my online endeavors open and give it my full time dedication.

10. So don’t worry about me. If my blog bothers you, stop going on it and try to find something against me. You removed me from Twitter, and you stopped talking to me. So why does it matter what I say on my blog? You want to use it against me in the future? I don’t think you can anyways. What will you tell others? She is too honest? She is opinionated? She knows how to communicate with others and be in the top 100,000 websites in the world? She knows how to design websites and code? She can create digital graphics for the web? She knows how to put computers together? She is a good software designer? Or will you just pick the worse parts and say, “she is very stubborn. ”

In conclusion, these sites:

http://anonymouse.org/anonwww.html

http://www.hidemyass.com/

http://www.the-cloak.com/login.html

etc . . .  or most of the anonymous surfing sites don’t work. One of my statistic counters can see real IP addresses behind the hidden link. So it is kind of useless, and all you are stuck with is a bunch of unwanted banners and ads. You are giving those people money only, and not surfing anonymously.

However, one of those anonymous proxies does its job and hides anyone pretty well. Unfortunately, I know how you write, and can figure out your writing style and tone pretty quickly.

Ps. I learned from the best, and I worked with them in the past. Also, I spend numerous hours on the internet and read a lot.

Thank you, and I hope this post was enough to convince you to stop worrying about Mona!!

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