Why do Arab girls push themselves so low for “him”?
I got another one for you guys, and it is not so pretty! Someone searched my site asking Google the following: “way to treat Arab man so he will love you.”
Oh boy! Someone really screwed themselves over when they came to my site typing that shit. So, you Arab girls or girls in general who think that you have to treat a guy a certain way so he can love you, need to be slapped around. Send me an email and I will send you a ticket to my house so I can slap you silly, and give you a few wise words while I am at it.
Do girls, especially Arab girls, think that they need to treat the Arab man a certain way just so she can receive his love and affection back? She has to earn it? Why the hell can’t he earn it? Or better yet, why can’t there be a mutual compromise on both sides of the relationship?
Am I the only one that thinks logically here?
I know, some of you will say, “But Mona. You are 28.5 years old and still not married. Why should we listen to you?”
My answer is simple, “Listen to me now, or you will END UP LIKE ME and learn it the hard way!”
God! You girls make me mad!
Listen, no good can ever come out of this one sided love. You cannot make a guy change his feelings towards you by doing “something.” I know many Arab girls who fell for this stupidity. There are many Arab girls that I knew that even go all the way to sleeping with the guy just so he can love her back. Now that is stupid, especially when he dumps her ass few days later, or even the next day! Good thing I was never that stupid and had some sense!
Please, my little Arab female friends! Quit thinking that you have to be an object of affection for some guy in order to receive his love. Why can’t you let the guy act like a guy for once, and let him do SOME work? I feel that Arab girls, especially in the past 5 or 6 years, really changed and are effected by their surroundings, and don’t know what “love” is. It is not a fantasy. It is not something you have to earn. It is not something that you have to spend your life time looking for, and then giving up and going to a totally different tangent by selling your self.
Am I making any sense here? Do I have to seriously start slapping girls around so they can come to their senses?
Advice, Angry, Blah Blah, Culture, Ranting as usual!, Whatever!
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Total, absolute, and ridiculous love. Its like they are looking for trouble in all the wrong places. I read a great book called Thus Spoke Zarathustra, and in it i somewhat dictates what a healthy relationship is. That step the man has to take in order to claim his kingdom
The woman has to know, “He will,” while the man certainly knows “I will.” there is no room for compromise. definitely the mutual way is the best.
@Brian
Yep!! Totally agree with ya!
I don’t know about all this fancy “analysis” type stuff on this one! I’ve only been in love 3 times and I’m pretty old! Each of those times it just kinda happened naturally, there’s no secret formula. Trying to force it is a big mistake! Especially those girls who start acting like they are in love with a guy when they just met him a few weeks earlier. A lot of girls do that, and it will seriously freak a guy out 100% of the time. He’ll either dump her ASAP or if he’s a jerk he will try to take advantage of her and then dump her. As far as I know there’s no third option for guys in that circumstance.
And PS-I don’t think this one has anything to do with whether somebody is Arab or not, I think it’s just a people thing
@Craig
Yah I know you can relate this to people in general. However, when it comes to Arabs, and the conservative culture, it is not right and beyond shocking at times.
Please let me know if you start slapping girls at random – sounds hot.
You know, in case it leads to kissing or something ….
/what do you want from me?
@Canucklehead
Hahahaha.. my God.. you always come and throw in the craziest comments. And no, it will not lead to any kind of loving. Sorry! I will call you though if I need to haul them out of my house after I am done with slapping them!
I guess somebody really lost hope and tried a desperate search!
Greetings of the holy month of Ramadan.
@Abdullah
I can’t wait! 
Greetings to you too! Ramadan is officially tomorrow..
It’s today here!! I mean we’ll fast from tomorrow but the day starts from Maghrib today(I hope the devil is chained up real tight)!!
It does amaze me that people think they can change into something someone will like. Guys do the same thing but I think girls do it more. Marriage is so much harder if you are constantly trying to bend to the will of someone else. If love or marriage is to be successful, you must be yourself. I speak from experience coming from someone who has had a trouble past where this was part of the problem.
i wont say arab girls are that innocent. but arab men do think that they can manipulate women to work the way they want them to. for instance, three years ago when i was in relationship with the UAE man he told me i needed to give him sex after marriage almost everyday twice. otherwise, he would go else where. i thought that was rediculous. if some other girl was in my place she would have got scared and have ended up listening to him so she didnt lose him. but i guess thats how some things are in arab society where men like to show that they have power. as for arab girls, my current boyfriend always talks to me about his friend’s girlfriend who is an arab. my boyfriend is polish but even he was quite stunned by her “ultra open” life. at home she is all religious and cultural, but at his friend’s place she is having sex. interest thing to note here is that the guy she sleeps with doesnt love her and she knows about it and doesnt even care.
some girls r just crazyyyyyy lol
p.s love the new look
lol
I totally agree that it’s really wrong to look for ways to make a man love you.it has no meaning cus if he didnt love you in the beginning, be sure that he will never do. give up on him and foeget about those silly websites where they give advices about how to make him love you and bla bla bla it’s bull shit. anyway i dont know why arabic girls r killing themselves to be loved and they are ignoring some very important things in life that they can benifit from and develop their educatonal levels to give a good image of arabic girl, but unfurtunately they r sticked to fairy tales and sanderela naive thoughts. love and marriage are natural things in life you dont have to worke hard to have them sooner or later most girls will have home husband and children but what about other things? things that could help your society and envirenment that could open your mind and make you more than simple ordinary girl
@Charlie Hayse
Thank you!
@hajar benlahmar
I think I met my twin sister with the same thoughts! Love you!!
@Mona and i’m happy cus i found an arabic different girl like me who wanna make a change
This is actually my first time looking at your blog– happened to find it off the pursuit of happyness quote search but you got me hooked! I totally agree with you 100% I was reading this blog thinking wow that’s exactly what I would say. Arab girls today are just going downhill.. I go to school with girls with down grade themselves over a guy and it’s sad because they’ve forgotten all about religion & I’m not the most holyest person in the world but to lose respect over a guy and ruin your reputation is just crazy. I’m kind of getting off topic but I really love your blog!
@Noha
Thank you!
Salaam Noha,
Would you mind if I ask you why there is so much ignorance about religion?
Ramadan Mubarak.