The positives outweigh the negatives
Let me start by saying that I am truly overwhelmed right now, and I am trying so hard to organize my daily life. I never had a job like this where I am completely busy for 8.5 hours a day. I even eat at my desk, because I am always thinking! No wonder computer programmers’ keyboards are always filled with tiny chips and bread crumbs.
For those who are still wondering and never read the About Me page to know, I am a Computer Science graduate, and I am a programmer! I code stuff. Complicated stuff. Stuff that makes your experience using an application much easier. I make things user friendly. Aren’t I nice? I demand a cookie for being a girly-girly selfless geek!
Anyways, this constant thinking at work makes me extremely tired every day, and has been hindering my blogging time! I am so behind, and I don’t want to disappoint anyone with my lack of daily updates. I am going to start using those to-do task tool thingies that some other geek fellows created, and start being an organized Rebellious Arab Girl.

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Understanding my Culture
I have gotten some great e-mails the past couple of days from people asking very good questions that I never addressed. So, what if you are a non-Arab and want to get acquainted with the Arab culture? How do you go about doing that? What do you need to know?
First off, let me introduce you to an Arab. Let me find one first! Wait, that’s me!!
1. I am 100% Arab. I speak Arabic. I was raised by an Arab family, and brought up in a conservative culture.
There is the magic word, conservative.
2. Not all Arabs are Muslims. Only around 80% – 85% of Arabic speaking people are Muslims. The rest are Christians, Jews, or other. Although different religions, but same culture and attitude towards life and family.
3. Arabs are very family oriented. They respect their family a lot, even distant cousins that they barely know.
4. Arabs have utter respect to their elders. Even if someone is a year older, they give them all the respect they deserve.
5. Arabs love to brag about their kids or anyone in their family that has excelled in “anything.”
Don’t think that I am using the word “anything” loosely here. I mean it, anything!
6. Arabs come in all shades of human skin color. The reason for that because the Arab world was under various European and Turkish rule. Also, the Arab world extends two continents with different climates. However, the original Arabs have a dark shade of olive skin or tan and dark eyes.
7. Not all Arabs wear turbans and live in tents in the desert. Who ever still does that are nomads living in the Arabian desert or other desert areas in the Arab world. The modern Arab world has malls and air conditioning, and even pizza delivery!
8. Arabs love their food! Oh the good tasty food! If you don’t feed us a good filling meal, we will mock you to eternity! So start learning to cook now! Hehehe!
Those are some of the positives I think that portray us Arabs as a great civilization. There are obviously a lot more that maybe my daily readers can point out in more detail in the comments area. However, point 3 and 4 above are the most important ones. That’s what makes our civilization so great!
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Very well said. Loved the part about food haha… Arabs will feed any guests or hostages better food than they feed themselves. Generosity and effort made in cooking large meals makes us happy to be Arab
@Incandescent Chimera
I agree. Generosity is a big thing for Arabs. We have to feed people! They must eat! We have to give give give! That’s what we love to do!
Mona, number eight was great! (Hey, that rhymed)! Another thing about us Arab is that we are very loyal to one another. Arabs will always stand by for other arabs no matter of religion, wheathr it be Christian or Muslim, we are all one and very close. I myself come from a very conservative 100% pure Jordanian family and AL HAMDILLILAH my family was strict on me growing up or else I probably would have been just like those other typical arab girls who try to blend in with the westerners and eventually become worse.
Addition to that, if you EVER refuse to eat, we find that very offensively and will literally shove food down your throat..Pshhh I aint’ playing!
Mona, about the chips and breadcrumbs, I’m surprised you don’t have dwalli stuck in between your keys, ha ha! Just kidding habibty. I love your blogs because they are REAL. Unlike many bloggers who over-stress their blogs which leads them to OVER BULLSHIT..haaaaa!! love yaaaa sistaaa ♥
***100% Jordanian Christian family****
@Mary Barahmeh
Thats true, I know Christian and Muslim Palestinians are like brothers.
9-Arabs invented the following: 0, soap, coffee, pin-hole camera, cough syrup, University and the list goes on…..
10-Arabs speak the richest language in the world and the best language for poetry, since Arabic is the richest and best language for self expression. Arabic is pure, it did not derive from any language, we Muslims believe that because it is the language of heaven. The Arabic language has a nickname: The language of ض. The pronunciation of this letter is ONLY found in Arabic and no other language.
Arabic language:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d45t6yTASkU
Poetry in Arabic on Jerusalim (Plaestine):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7GGP89OhAaU&feature=related
A FOR ARABS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don’t really have any friends from Arab before this. Hence I cannot comment anything about it. But I like this post. ;D
A Jordanian once said, “Arabs are different between region with each own
clothing, foods, languages, history, etc. But they do share things in
common. You are an Arab when:
First, Your mother throw shoes at you when you were a kid.
Second, You call everyone with no blood relation with uncle and auntie.
Third, You’re looking at other Arab in non-Arab countries.
Fourth, You take off your shoes when entering the house.
Fifth, You believe Palestine is yours”
hehehee.
nr. 5 is really annoying..
okej if you mention it ones, cause your proud, but then when it comes up in every conversation… oh and my son, who is a doctor… save me.
@mohamed
Our hindu friends invented the 0.
The first known use of special glyphs for the decimal digits that includes the indubitable appearance of a symbol for the digit zero, a small circle, appears on a stone inscription found at the Chaturbhuja Temple at Gwalior in India, dated 876 CE.
Soap existed before there were any records of Arabs
The earliest recorded evidence of the production of soap-like materials dates back to around 2800 BC in Ancient Babylon. A formula for soap consisting of water, alkali and cassia oil was written on a Babylonian clay tablet around 2200 BC
And in linguistics, all languages derive from other lanugages, in the case of Arabic, the proto-semitic language. No language is pure and borrows from others. This is what makes a language rich. A language that doesnt change or borrow, dies. (like latin, sanskrit, classical arabic). Although al-fuS’Ha is very beautiful, and almost anything can be expressed in it, English is more useful for modern communication with a simple grammar and 500,000 words.
Mona,
I think you forgot hospitality, Arabs are very hospitable. And they love sweet things. Tea with 8 lups of sugar, that kind of sweet.
About a Great civilization, what about recent Arab:
-art
-literature
-poetry
-form and style of government
-way in which lower and higher class treat each other
-philosophy
lol maarten ancient babylon……who were the people of ancient babylon??
funny…how people are ignorant
oh ya for ur info…those things r NOTHING compared to the real influence arabs had on modern culture.
@Hudaman
I agree and I want to add
1-you need a visa wherever you want to go,and you buy it when the consulate refuses you.
2-you are the last on check points.
3-you love Flafel or Ta3mia.
09. Arabs will betray each other for bigger profits.
10. Arabs are stuck in the year 1500 in terms of mentality.
11. Arabs are extremely judgemental.
12. Arabs have big noses and will stick them anywhere they can.
13. The Arab language has been raped and mutilated and no longer contains the same depth or soul. (I’m not talking about written arabic, but spoken arabic).
sorry, but it is true. As an arab who grew up in the states, and has been living in Arabia for the past 12 years, my eyes see the dispair, and the corruption, and the crime much more clearly.
I’m tired of false pride! WE HAVE NOTHING TO BE PROUD OF! We have been slowly decomposing for over a century! We have not grown or gained more intelligence, wisdom, culture, or anything else for that matter in all this time. Pathetic. Let’s not talk ourselves up when there is no cause for it.
Shame too, because the Arabs did do one the greatest things in history for humanity. the greatest thing the arabs ever did was unite the worlds knowledge. If it wasn’t for the arabs who conquered most of the known world (proven as the biggest, most far reaching, civilisation that ever was), the world’s knowledge would have remained disjointed for a very long time. The arabs brought the knowledge together which allowed each discipline to grow.
sigh… we could have been better.
@Ahmed Masri
A little angry there? I said POSITIVES! Why do you have to mention all the bad stuff! I am trying to have a good positive blog post for once!! You ruined it!!
HAHAHA.. so sorry! I’m not usually that negative, but I just get really passionate about the state of the world!
@maarten
I just googled it and some sites say Arabs inventd 0 and others say indians….I always knew Zero was invented by Muhammad Bin Ahmad in 967 AD.
You also have to understand that a lot of the history has been changed to go against the Arabs.
As for soap: “Washing and bathing are religious requirements for Muslims, which is perhaps why they perfected the recipe for soap which we still use today. The ancient Egyptians had soap of a kind, as did the Romans who used it more as a pomade. But it was the Arabs who combined vegetable oils with sodium hydroxide and aromatics such as thyme oil. One of the Crusaders’ most striking characteristics, to Arab nostrils, was that they did not wash. Shampoo was introduced to England by a Muslim who opened Mahomed’s Indian Vapour Baths on Brighton seafront in 1759 and was appointed Shampooing Surgeon to Kings George IV and William IV.” (independent.co.uk)The Arabs invented the for what it’s known today.
As a Muslim I believe Arabuc is pure, it did not derive from any language. When Prophet Adam (PBUH) was in heaven, he spoke Arabic. When God put him down to earth, Adam (PBUH) did not speak Arabic anymore, he spoke Syriac.
@yazzy
The ancient babylonians were a mixture of sumerians (a people of unknown origin) and semites, but not arab semites!. Dont confuse the two. If arabs existed at that moment (which is uncertain, they left no records that far back) they probably lived in the desert as nomads, but who can tell?
@mohamed
then you should say “Arabs improved soap”
So you are saying Adam changed his language from Arabic to Syriac within his lifetime? Where did he learn Syriac? from whom? considering there were no other people to talk to at the time.
@yazzy
Enlighten me as to the REAL influences Arabs had on modern culture.
And Persians dont count, they’re Indo-Europeans.
@maarten
This topic IS NOT a history lesson.I just said mention positive things about the Arab culture. In meaning, THE MODERN ARAB culture. Not what they did in ancient times!
Maarten,
Oh I give up…Eurpeans are gods gift on earth, now fuck off from this site u ignorant shithead…thank u
I noticed arabs have a peculiar way of dish-washing. They make a small tray with some soap and water in it, and then dip a sponge in it to wash the dishes with. I just make a tub with water and soap and submerge the dishes in it.
@maarten
You are so lame. Seriously, you are not Arab.. why do you want to point out Arab lifestyle and ways of thinking if you are not one? What do you know? Nothing!
Btw.. Yazzy is my best friend. She can say whatever she wants on my site. This site is practically hers as well.
This reminds me of the time I was watching MTV Cribs and they were showing Shaq’s house. In his house, he had a bidet. And he was telling the audience that the bidet is used to wash your feet.
very funny.
@Mona
Tunshee ya mona, had wahad ahbal.
@Ahmed Masri
Is his feet considered an ass?
What influences have arabs had on modern culture? Hospitality and generosity maybe. And other than providing oil (50% of oil reserves)
How about social, political, economic, technological, legal advancements. I cant think of one arab country thats a leader of any of those mentioned.
Its really sad, especially since Arabs have quite a lot of pride.
Even hunter gatherer societies pre-dating religion at least had good social and political systems.
@Mais
Oh negativity. At least you mentioned hospitality. That’s always a good thing.
Arabs are all about love! No really think of it this way:
We love our family members. That’s why we don’t want them leaving the motherland for another place and when they do leave we much such a huge fuse trying to guilt-trip them into staying.
We like it when our kids marry inside the tribe since they’ll always be a stones throw away…and if not at least they’ll be living with family so when we visit we can see them both! (Married of child and the family of the spouse)
We love each other…and we all know that love is selfish, jealous and self centered. So it’s not surprise that there’s internal strife. And when it’s not brother against brother then it’s those brothers against their cousin. And if it’s an outsider than we’re all willing to put our differences in the short run to rally to each others cause.
As for those who bitch about Arabs not contributing to Modern culture…it’s because…well look at it this way. Have you noticed that the majority of the Hero roles in Hollywood are filled by white people and us colored folk fill out the rest…? Modern culture is something like that. If you aren’t the same than you’re out.
Also why should we keep telling what we contributed or didn’t contribute. You want to know, you search for it.
What I mentioned werent ”western” ideas.
Many advancements from modern science came from muslims, which muslims like to mention often. So they are proud of that.
Good political, legal and economic systems create a stable country with a stable economy. Thats quite universal too. Even the arab and muslim countries that are ”developed” arent stable because of underdeveloped political and legal systems, especially.
Technological expertise is quite important as well or youll be buying all youre products giving $$$$$$$ to other countries. And countries in general under the realist world model prefer to be self sufficient in important things.
The environment is always good to take care of because that is how we are able to survive. We should kiss the trees, they give us life. Not cement. Plus the quran cares about it if that gives you incentive : http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?pagename=IslamOnline-English-Ask_Scholar/FatwaE/FatwaE&cid=1119503544990
OR arab governments can not care about those things and when the oil runs out and the world hasnt got vested interests in them anymore, theyll realise (maybe).
We the Arabs are the best nation of the nations ,we don`t have alcohol in our life ,we don`t have drugs we respect woman we love our kids we invented the soap,
No matter what they say about us ,because of the israeli -arab conflict we have that negative image ,I know and I felt it in many instances
@Dr Wael
On the contrary DR. Wael, there is alcohol and drugs in the Arab world. It is common, and it has to do with lack of faith. It has nothing to do with the culture at all. There are always these negative things every where. However, the rest that you mentioned are true.
Thank you! You often write very interesting articles. You improved my mood.