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		<title>By: Craig</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2009/11/14/i-live-in-a-small-town/comment-page-1/#comment-49429</link>
		<dc:creator>Craig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 22:21:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;I have experienced this point somewhat. And I am the type of person that objects. I rather risk my job than my dignity and what I believe in.&lt;/i&gt;

Me too! I&#039;ve even forced showdowns when people have pulled these stunts with me. One good thing about being a software developer at a software company is that when push comes to shove they&#039;d rather lose a non-technical manager than a key programmer. Usually! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>I have experienced this point somewhat. And I am the type of person that objects. I rather risk my job than my dignity and what I believe in.</i></p>
<p>Me too! I&#8217;ve even forced showdowns when people have pulled these stunts with me. One good thing about being a software developer at a software company is that when push comes to shove they&#8217;d rather lose a non-technical manager than a key programmer. Usually! <img src='http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Mona</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2009/11/14/i-live-in-a-small-town/comment-page-1/#comment-49428</link>
		<dc:creator>Mona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 21:22:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote cite=&quot;#commentbody-49426&quot;&gt;
&lt;p&gt;4)Somebody who orders their subordinates to do things a certain way despite their objections, and then when it turns out their way was a disaster they point the finger at the subordinates for doing it wrong rather than accepting responsibility for their poor decision making.&lt;/p&gt;
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I have experienced this point somewhat. And I am the type of person that objects. I rather risk my job than my dignity and what I believe in.</description>
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<p>4)Somebody who orders their subordinates to do things a certain way despite their objections, and then when it turns out their way was a disaster they point the finger at the subordinates for doing it wrong rather than accepting responsibility for their poor decision making.</p>
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<p>I have experienced this point somewhat. And I am the type of person that objects. I rather risk my job than my dignity and what I believe in.</p>
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		<title>By: Mona</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2009/11/14/i-live-in-a-small-town/comment-page-1/#comment-49427</link>
		<dc:creator>Mona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 21:21:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote cite=&quot;#commentbody-49422&quot;&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-49422&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Mahsa&lt;/a&gt; :&lt;/strong&gt;

&lt;p&gt;BTW I’ve moved my blog also as I wasnt too keen on the old layout:&lt;/p&gt;
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Umm, no. I don&#039;t give those shitty type of people a chance to talk to me or give them the time of day. Not worth it!</description>
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<strong><a href="#comment-49422" rel="nofollow">Mahsa</a> :</strong></p>
<p>BTW I’ve moved my blog also as I wasnt too keen on the old layout:</p>
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<p>Umm, no. I don&#8217;t give those shitty type of people a chance to talk to me or give them the time of day. Not worth it!</p>
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		<title>By: Craig</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2009/11/14/i-live-in-a-small-town/comment-page-1/#comment-49426</link>
		<dc:creator>Craig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 20:22:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-49419&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Mona&lt;/a&gt; 

&lt;i&gt;Can you elaborate more on this shameless self-promotion? I am curious to know what you mean exactly, or give me an example.&lt;/i&gt;

Well, a few examples would be:

1) Somebody is a team leader while being a working programmer at the same time, and they are on the phone constantly with people at corporate headquarters. And they imply that everything really good that their team has done was done by them. And imply that everything bad that was done by the team was done by others. And they let people go on thinking that, no matter how blatantly untrue it is.

2) Somebody who is constantly in the bosses office, stroking his/her ego. Inviting the boss out to lunch. Always remembering the birthdays of the boss&#039;s kids, boss&#039;s wedding anniversary, etc (I mean, who does that!? Seriously!?) and otherwise brown-nosing the boss(es).

3) Somebody who gives their subordinates poor reviews and recommends them for small bonuses for the sole reason of inflating their own sense of self-importance, and exaggerating the amount of &quot;aggravation&quot; they have to put up with on the job. Same person is likely to give their cronies overly good reviews and put them in for huge bonuses.

4)Somebody who orders their subordinates to do things a certain way despite their objections, and then when it turns out their way was a disaster they point the finger at the subordinates for doing it wrong rather than accepting responsibility for their poor decision making.

And so on! I&#039;ve only seen this at big companies. Small companies, everyone knows what everyone else is up to and this shit just won&#039;t fly! At least at the small companies I&#039;ve worked at! Everyone knows who is wasting oxygen and who is getting the bills paid.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-49419" rel="nofollow">@Mona</a> </p>
<p><i>Can you elaborate more on this shameless self-promotion? I am curious to know what you mean exactly, or give me an example.</i></p>
<p>Well, a few examples would be:</p>
<p>1) Somebody is a team leader while being a working programmer at the same time, and they are on the phone constantly with people at corporate headquarters. And they imply that everything really good that their team has done was done by them. And imply that everything bad that was done by the team was done by others. And they let people go on thinking that, no matter how blatantly untrue it is.</p>
<p>2) Somebody who is constantly in the bosses office, stroking his/her ego. Inviting the boss out to lunch. Always remembering the birthdays of the boss&#8217;s kids, boss&#8217;s wedding anniversary, etc (I mean, who does that!? Seriously!?) and otherwise brown-nosing the boss(es).</p>
<p>3) Somebody who gives their subordinates poor reviews and recommends them for small bonuses for the sole reason of inflating their own sense of self-importance, and exaggerating the amount of &#8220;aggravation&#8221; they have to put up with on the job. Same person is likely to give their cronies overly good reviews and put them in for huge bonuses.</p>
<p>4)Somebody who orders their subordinates to do things a certain way despite their objections, and then when it turns out their way was a disaster they point the finger at the subordinates for doing it wrong rather than accepting responsibility for their poor decision making.</p>
<p>And so on! I&#8217;ve only seen this at big companies. Small companies, everyone knows what everyone else is up to and this shit just won&#8217;t fly! At least at the small companies I&#8217;ve worked at! Everyone knows who is wasting oxygen and who is getting the bills paid.</p>
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		<title>By: Charlie Hayse</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2009/11/14/i-live-in-a-small-town/comment-page-1/#comment-49425</link>
		<dc:creator>Charlie Hayse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 19:06:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yeah at least u kept yr cool :smile: hey try living in a place with about 300 or 400 people theres no strangers thats 4 sure lol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeah at least u kept yr cool <img src='http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':smile:' class='wp-smiley' />  hey try living in a place with about 300 or 400 people theres no strangers thats 4 sure lol</p>
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		<title>By: Brian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 17:43:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ameen
Your a devil who, although looking angelic, can kick a guy in the shin, knee him in the gut, and uppercut him in the chin, and then kiss him on the forehead and tell him you love him...haha...you rock :pirate:</description>
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Your a devil who, although looking angelic, can kick a guy in the shin, knee him in the gut, and uppercut him in the chin, and then kiss him on the forehead and tell him you love him&#8230;haha&#8230;you rock <img src='http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_pirate.gif' alt=':pirate:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Mahsa</title>
		<link>http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/2009/11/14/i-live-in-a-small-town/comment-page-1/#comment-49422</link>
		<dc:creator>Mahsa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 16:26:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh God! I hate these kind of people. i think the behaviour transcends any culture and its just some in particular people. The best remedy I find is to make them question their own dispicable existence byt refusing to show them that they affect you. When they begin to doubt their own &quot;powers&quot; of affecting people they have a kind of breakdown because its all that they know.

Did she attempt to speak to you?

BTW I&#039;ve moved my blog also as I wasnt too keen on the old layout:

http://ma7sa.blogspot.com/

Mahsa xxx</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh God! I hate these kind of people. i think the behaviour transcends any culture and its just some in particular people. The best remedy I find is to make them question their own dispicable existence byt refusing to show them that they affect you. When they begin to doubt their own &#8220;powers&#8221; of affecting people they have a kind of breakdown because its all that they know.</p>
<p>Did she attempt to speak to you?</p>
<p>BTW I&#8217;ve moved my blog also as I wasnt too keen on the old layout:</p>
<p><a href="http://ma7sa.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">http://ma7sa.blogspot.com/</a></p>
<p>Mahsa xxx</p>
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		<title>By: Mona</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 14:32:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote cite=&quot;#commentbody-49416&quot;&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-49416&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Craig&lt;/a&gt; :&lt;/strong&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Unfortunately, in the private sector a lot of people seem to get themselves put in leadership positions by shameless self-promotion &lt;img src=&quot;http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif&quot; alt=&quot;:(&quot; class=&quot;wp-smiley&quot;/&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Can you elaborate more on this shameless self-promotion? I am curious to know what you mean exactly, or give me an example.</description>
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<strong><a href="#comment-49416" rel="nofollow">Craig</a> :</strong></p>
<p>Unfortunately, in the private sector a lot of people seem to get themselves put in leadership positions by shameless self-promotion <img src="http://www.rebelliousarabgirl.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif" alt=":(" class="wp-smiley"/> </p>
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<p>Can you elaborate more on this shameless self-promotion? I am curious to know what you mean exactly, or give me an example.</p>
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		<title>By: Mona</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 14:25:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-49417&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@THE GUYS&lt;/a&gt; 
I always wondered, who are &quot;The Guys.&quot; How many are you, and where from?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-49417" rel="nofollow">@THE GUYS</a><br />
I always wondered, who are &#8220;The Guys.&#8221; How many are you, and where from?</p>
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		<title>By: THE GUYS</title>
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		<dc:creator>THE GUYS</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 13:30:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>She may have ruined your day, but she gave you some good stuff to Blog about. Nice post. 

FYI:

Just wanted to let you know that we’ve moved to: http://www.theguysperspective.com/theguysblog
For Blogrolls and such.

We’re still in the process of tweaking the look and design of our site, but we’re happy to be operating under our own domain!

Take care and have a great day!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>She may have ruined your day, but she gave you some good stuff to Blog about. Nice post. </p>
<p>FYI:</p>
<p>Just wanted to let you know that we’ve moved to: <a href="http://www.theguysperspective.com/theguysblog" rel="nofollow">http://www.theguysperspective.com/theguysblog</a><br />
For Blogrolls and such.</p>
<p>We’re still in the process of tweaking the look and design of our site, but we’re happy to be operating under our own domain!</p>
<p>Take care and have a great day!</p>
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