Public waste
Where is the worse place to go to in any public place?
Yep, you got it! The washrooms! Or restrooms for my American watchers. Or in general, the public crappers! God!! I hate going to public washrooms! I can’t help it sometimes, or any day, because when nature calls, you got to go. I drink a lot of liquids, coffee!!!, and I got to go!
Does this post so far want you to go to the washroom?
Anyways, what was I ranting about? Ah, yah!! You see, some of you women out there are disgusting. I am sorry to tell you this, but you are. Like fucking flush the toilet! Fucking check that the toilet has been flushed if you have attempted to the first time! Fucking do something sanitary correct! These are public washrooms that other people use! Cleaning people don’t come all day long and clean after you! Are you that fucking lazy? Do you even wipe your asses?
Jeeez!! So pissed!
On a better note! Today I went to our staff Christmas dinner. It was fun! I like the people that I work with. They are fun to be around with, and they have a cute sense of humor. It’s nice working in an environment where people have different job roles.
Today, one of the ladies asked me if I had a boyfriend. I said, “Nop. I don’t want to get married till I am 50!” Then I told her that I had a boyfriend for like 5 or 6 years, but I ended it. I didn’t add the part that he got married 5 or 6 months later after I stopped seeing him. (Typical Arab males!) But I didn’t want to seem bitter, and start trashing him. I don’t want other people to view me as a crazy psycho girl! It brings back memories you know. Bad ones!
It’s great being single! Don’t you agree? 
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VERY AGREE!
I don’t know why many people are torturing themselves by trying to get a boy/girl friend.
@Hudagaya
In my culture, you try to fine wife/husband asap! That’s their mission in life or else you are an outsider in this society!
I have to say over here Im grossed out when people a) dont flush b) I see them leave the toilet and they havent washed their hands. Also marat afakir when they go to the shower do they shower properly or do they just splash some soap and water on their body =p. lol. Being clean is so important!!. Btw did youre family know you had a bf for 5 years. x
@Mais
I used to be everything bad that I write about now on my site. One day I popped and I said that I had enough…!! Therefore, this site was born! 
Nop.. I used to be a true Arab! I did everything in secret!
Im so glad you popped otherwise I would have never known you, lol!
Mona you have to tell us all about this experience of yours, btw 5 years is quite an achievement some marriages dont even last that long! I dated a guy until I realized he dated his ex gf for FOUR years then broke up with her when she wanted a commitment from him! Ewwwwww. I stopped liking him right away. x
Yes please tell us about this idiot you tolerated for 5 years!!!! I’m sure the girl he married was the one his mother picked.
AMEN on the public restrooms (am American lol)…where I work sometimes I walk in on unflushed toilets and it really aggravates me…or people leaving pieces of paper towels on the floors, sinks that have water all over them. I always always wipe up after myself when I use the sinks and I always make sure the toilets are flushed. I mean come on…how were you raised and how do you keep your home? Perhaps they think well, since the cleaning people come by I don’t have to act like a decent human being.
@Mais
Ya some guys are like that and there’s a reason behind which I rather not say, I’m a guy and I know how guys think.
Hey mohamed hope youre doing good, that happened a while ago. Well I think if someones interested in you long term theyll marry you. However over here in England people have different views on relationships. Tell me im dying to know.(ps this guy wasnt arab he was white) x
Why I always call it a “Bathroom” when there is no bathtub to be found escapes me… But imagine if they actually did have bathtubs there– would you have to pay by the minute. How could you ever have that “Calgon” moment with people coming in and out all the time (take me away…)–I don’t want to go there.
@Mais
Umm… well.. my blog in the years 2006, 2007, and 2008 are filled with joyous posts about him. Especially the 2006 and 2007 years. I can point you to some good ones if you would like. Check the December 2008 posts. In the end of it. Around the 20th till the end of that year for an interesting read.
@Mais
Muslim guys (Arab or non-Arab) when they go out with a girl, they don’t truly respect her. A lot of time, they play around with girls, but when it comes for marriage they’ll never want to marry the person they were dating. The reason for that is because he’ll see the girl as trash, an apple who has fallen from the tree since she’s easy to reach. Also you have no idea how much crap they talk behind their girlfriends backs. Take from me, if a guy is willing to have you as a girlfriend, he doesn’t respect you, take from me I know how guys think, they’ll decieve the girl into believe that they love her. So the quote you wrote: ” Well I think if someones interested in you long term theyll marry you.” thats far from the truth, the vast majority of the time guys wanna get married to someone who hasn’t been around.
I agree mohamed. I meant that if a guy is interested in you long term, (pause) he’ll marry you. NOT if a guy is interested in you, (pause) in the long term he’ll marry you. x
@mohamed
That’s trash what you just wrote! You are talking about a selected group of backwards males who are still living a life of over 10 years ago. I know many Arabs that were dating each other, and they got married after years. That philosophy of yours does not work anymore. Not here or in the Arab world. Things have changed, and you obviously did not. Or you hang out with old-school people.
Why would a girl want a guy then who has been around and she has not? Where is the equality in that relationship? Such trash you are writing and so backward. I suggest you stop writing such crap and spreading such mentality on my blog. And don’t email me about it.
Mona I just read youre 3 posts to tell the story. Im so so sorry you had to go through that. I hope you achieve all youre dreams. Well Im so glad you made this blog I needed to vent too, now I feel better! x
@Mais
Yah.. there are lot more posts.. you just have to dig through the archives.. and people like mohamed who know shit about me or what I have been through spread that crap on my blog and think I will be quiet about it. It’s that mentality that made me start this blog. I can’t believe there are still young people out there that think that way. That is so horribly sad!
@Mais
I sent you Facebook PM with more links..
@Mona
It is true what you say, also girls shouldn’t marry someone who’s been around. I’m not old school, since when dating was permissible in Islam? I understand that sometimes it does happen whre people date before marriage, but a lot of times guys ditch girls that they were going out with and marry someone else.
Hey! I thought everyone outside the U.S. refers to the restroom as a “W.C.”
Wow Im stunned. Thats really, really low. I felt sick reading that last post. Btw I think ur amazing. Hope youre doing good these days. X
@mohamed
Reading my blog is Haram. Why are you reading a Muslim girl’s stories about her private life? You are pretty much getting to know a girl without marrying her. Stay away from my blog. Stay away! It’s HARAM!
@Mais
Yah.. the last post I showed you was the moment I realized that sometimes some men get married to anyone to only forget about a girl. When that girl appears in front of them again, they forget they are married. Worse is marrying someone who was and still in love with someone else. Or only marrying you to forget someone else.
So true words of wisdom Mona. Reading this has made me a bit worried about my sister :’(. I hope nothing like this happens to her. Actually mona I wish my sister was more like you. x
@Mona
You got me there, you’re right I didn’t realise that, but sometimes you don’t write about yourself and I cannot tell until I read it. A lot of times when you write about yourself I don’t comment. I won’t stay away from your blog, sometimes you write interesting stuff. If you choose to block me however then that’s up to you. Look, wallahi my intention was not to disrespect anyone, Mais wanted to know how guys think and I told her, that’s it. Also I hope you like the songs I sent you.
@mohamed
You don’t comment if I am talking about my self? Is that the way you restrict your self from doing haram?
I like your excuses.. they are full of shit.
I just suggest you stop reading or stop commenting all together.
@Mona
Like I said, sometimes you don’t write about yourelf and I cannot tell until I read it, also it’s not as if I’m getting intimate with you here or anything thats whats haram, I never meat you face to face. Anyways whats important is that Mais understood what I was trying to say. Also I’m sorry for what happened with you and your boyfriend.
It was nice being on your site, yalla salam.
@mohamed
Bye!
@Mais u live in england i will be stoping by there 4 a few hours hehe
with respect 2 mohameds post not all muslim guys think like that or at least thats what i gotta belive
@mohamed nonsense try something else \ ake from me, if a guy is willing to have you as a girlfriend, he doesn’t respect you, take from me I know how guys think\ are you out of your mind. Most people find their future wives or husband by dating then first, then if thinks are solid enough for a marriage then they get married. Your theory is completely wrong on so many basis which you cannot even support, just because you are a man does not mean you know how ALL OF US THINK thank you for your insight.
It is really annoying when some people don’t have any washroom etiquette. At least have some consideration to others. Since they’re not the only ones using the washroom… -__-
Gosh I cant stand public washrooms. I honestly have a physcological problem with them. I’ve lasted a plane ride without using one. It’s mainly the feeling of knowing your not properly cleaned the way you would clean yourself at home. I don’t know how the others(non muslims or what ever you want to call them) survive with only toilet paper. But your complaining about poo? Its even worse seeing period blood on the seats or just floating around in the toilet (sorry if im disgusting anybody). In general I think that the door should have some automatic lock if it senses the cublicle was not left clean. Inshallah some future genious thinks of that.
Ya, I like being single for sure…I’m not a player, but it does have its priviledges…remember the problem in the US is that 40% is obese…can you imagine cleaning yourself? Better not to imagine that, but its a reality…unfortunately we are pigs that dont like to clean up after ourselves, but then again look at the state of the global environment…does anyone like to clean up after themselves? Not really…if only we could be like young, thin, attractive women…spotless and incapable of dirtying themselves…
Dear Max,
Youre a pig. Please jump off a bridge.
Yours sincerely, an attractive woman.
Hey, I was in the chat December 6th. I told you that I had an Egyptian girlfriend and that I’m an Iranian college student. I thought you might like to know the follow up to what happened.
She’s getting shipped off to Egypt to marry her cousin. It turns out, she actually loves me, and I love her. We never did anything together, and once her parents found out we had a semblance of a relationship, it was completely over between us.
Not sure what to do at this point, but, I don’t know…
Peace
@Anonymous
It’s funny how the term “shipped” is used so loosely to describe the action of what Arabs do to their kids when they do something they don’t like!
@Anonymous
plz god dont let this happen 2 me i am going 2 egypt on the 9th 2 meet the girl i love but thanks God her mom already loves me we just have 2 talk 2 her dad
@Anonymous
also bro so sorry 2 hear that about the girl having 2 marry her cousin but hey man if she really loves u she wont marry this other guy i mean her parents cant force her 2 marry him n why would she marry a guy she dont love ? n why would her parents even want her 2 marry this other guy if she loves u this 2 me is not islam (i asume they r muslim)also this is were she needs 2 stand up 2 her parents i know u have 2 respect yr parents but they should also respect her in return n her choices i have said b4 n this is very true not always r the parents right sometimes the parents r blind i know that parents want the best 4 there dauters n there sons but they (parents)have 2 know that there dauters n there sons r not them everyboby is not the same i am not my dad nor is my sisters my mom everyboby has 2 n should live there own life the bottom line is bro if she really loves u she will stand up 2 her parents as hard as that ever may be n inshallah her parents will start 2 understand n i belive if its ment 2 be god will make it happen just sometimes we may need 2 fight 4 what we want 2 show god how much we want it 4 me i dont care what i have 2 do 2 be with her caz i really cant live without her(the girl i love)n 2 tell ya the truth i really dont know what i did 2 even have such a amazing girl but all i know is i cant let her go n thanks GOD she feels the same about me i really have the best girl ,most amazing,most beautiful,kind,caring,sweet,good,there is not enuf words 2 decribe her nor r they good enuf if u feel the same 4 her n she feels the same 4 u then DO SOMETHING MAN DO ANYTHING DO SOMETHING !
also about the public washrooms does any 1 else put tolet paper on the seat when u have 2 take a # 2 haha ahhhhh i gross myself out thinking about useing it ughh
I hated the restroom at work. People were nasty. Makes u wonder how they keep their homes. Hence I would never eat anything anyone bought from home, cause I’d think to myself, hmmmm do I want this person making my food. I try to avoid public restrooms at all costs.
On the dating note, I dated my hubby before we committed and with consent of my parents. And my fiancé before that and a few others. And the relationships just didn’t work out. To give the guys credit they never tried to use me. Girls who allow that to happen deserve it cause they are stupid and want the attention.
@Mais
how am I a pig? by being truthful?
Being thin and attractive, as opposed to obese/overweight, has little correlation to personal hygene. Personal hygene such as washing youre private parts with soap and water after you use the bathroom, using deodorant, showering regularly etc. is more related to what youve been taught, thought not always. For example, muslim families teach their children to wash their assholes using water/soap rather than simply wipe it with a tissue. However, not all muslims are what would be percieved ((through eurocentric standards)) as thin/attractive. I do wonder what you look like though, making those assumptions.
@Mais
I am actually thin and attractive! But just trying to be modest…I used to work in health care and saw how incapable some people are…it is sad, and yes, disgusting, and I am making a stereotype here with the obese, as well as the thin. I do take care of my self and keep quickwipes with me in public…I wasnt taught this at home…it just made sense to me. Unfortunately ignorance/shortsightedness is rampant throughout…if you really want to see what I look like, facebook me…max doman
As for the jumping off a bridge, sure! if the water is warm!
Peace
Ok, Mais, you are an Arab Goddess and I am truly sorry and beg your forgiveness, I am merely an American civilian pawn whose government has brought your country much suffering (arent you from London?) I BEG of you to find it in your all compassionate heart to forgive me…I kiss the ground you walk on…