Find me a match
I kept seeing commercials on TV that eHarmony.ca is a great site, and they can try to match you with someone.. blah blah. So, I was so excited today. I was like yes, time for change! Maybe this site is better since it is more commonly used, advertised on TV, and so much buzz!

Therefore, I got so excited! I signed up, and did this long in depth survey with so many psychological questions that will help find me a match better. Not just where you are from and that’s it like the other sites. This could be great I thought. They spent so much time creating all this, and I will do my part and spend the 15-20 min filling it out!
The percentage completion line kept going up that I am progressing from question to question, page to page, and finally, I was done. I clicked the magic button. I was excited and waiting for the next screen with pictures of people or more options, but this is what I got:
Click on the image above to see it bigger and be able to read the text.
Am I unlucky or what?
There is no hope.. *sigh*
Blah Blah, Confused, Depressed, Thank you, They said what?, Whatever!















E-harmony does good psychological profiling but that result is disappointing but good because it means no guy is good enough for Mona!
@Incandescent Chimera
sigh…
oh no! You are not from Mars, or are you?(I hope you are from the same planet as I am) If not then their system is broken! Just move on….Look at the guys more often(in a nice way), your eyes might get stuck on somebody!
Salaamu Alaikum mona!
See it this way….if they had found a match you would have ended up wasting a lot of time “researching”! It saved you a lot of time!
Oh no that would totally suck! in the past I have seen how long that e-harmony thing is and to complete and have no matches, that stinks, but keep your head up maybe one will come soon!
mona i dont want 2 sound mean but thats kindy funny lol i agree with incandscent chimera but maybe a guy good enuf will come soon inshallah i am happy 2 see u r trying something new caz ya never know what could happen salams n dont let it get ya down yr 2 good 4 that
Hey mona.. dont get disheartened.. this is just a piece of s/w and is not able to process a complex match for you.. dont worry, somebody worthy would be waiting for you as it is said “marriages are made in heaven”
tc
Good luck with that!
this is much better than the results i got……
it showed…8 match all guys….
if we take your result as zero….mine was a -8
Joking…..
I am not sad or anything about this.. just a site.. but you know.. sometimes you have a little of bit of hope that something good might happen, then the stupidest thing (site) even said no to you.
CLEARLY you are too amazing for them-their loss!
Mona try this http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbody/sex/add_user.shtml and see what you get. Itll probably be interesting. I got from a scale of 100% female to 100% male, 30% male.
Well what it sounds like to me is that they are some sort of phishing site, no matter their popularity and just want to get as much information as they can from you. Sorry you had to go through all their questions.
You did not get any matches because no one is of your standards!( I mean that in a good way of course) Which is good cause you should never lower your expectations! Plus I dont’ think a lot of Moslems use the site….
My sis and cousin met their spouses online…My sis through IRC wayyyy back when and my cousin through Ezawaj.com. It’s all naseeb
YOU’RE DOOMED! ABANDON ALL HOPE!!!
YOU’RE DOOMED! ABANDON ALL HOPE!!!
YOU’RE DOOMED! ABANDON ALL HOPE!!!
@Mais
I just did the test, and I got :
Your personal brain score: 50% male
@Dena B.
I don’t know who uses the site, but I did pick Muslim and Arab, and I would think there would be some!
@Meyrick
I didn’t find that funny.
Not to worry. I’ve included this in my weekly blog roundup. Soon you’ll have all kinds of drooling Londoners hitting on you.
Happy New Decade!
@Greg Fowler
Hahaahaha.. oh man..
Happy new decade to you as well!
I thought you would get something like that. I hope you find the best guy for you Ill keep you in my prayers tonight. I hope youre family arent nagging/pressuring you because thats not fair. xx
@Mais
Nop! On the contrary.. they don’t care! Or they do but can’t do anything about it.
I had heard of other people getting similar results with eHarmony. My understanding is that there are a number of other fine matching sites out there where you can find a good match if eHarmony doesn’t work. I certainly wouldn’t give up just because one site didn’t work out.
And I so was going to recommend Eharmony to you. I am praying up a good match for you or least a decent date!
Give it some time. My brother found his wife on there. I decided to give it a try also. Depends also how many men in your area have signed up and what your criteria is as far as what you are searching for. Good luck if you decide to stick with it.
@Mona
I did
I tried eharmony for a small bit, I was extremely disappointed with who they paired me with, you’re better off just being told up front that they suck rather than wasting time with them.
Don’t worry mona bout it….your guy will come riding a white horse(or a white porsche)!
@Abdullah
cute..
I guess this is an arab saying…”When the rope can’t get any tighter, you know its about to snap”(or something like that). I hope you got the meaning although the original saying may have a different wording.
Keep your sincere prayers flowing….and insh Allah we will hear a good news soon!