Ignoring some people is a hard task
Some people need to feed their ego and insult me or tell me off, like they did on this comment, because it gives them some sort of gratification and power. Honestly, I don’t care. Nothing bothers me anymore. To each their own.
I find it amusing that after a long shitty and very stressful day at work, I pick up the phone to check my email in the end of the day, and read such garbage. I honestly laughed. I was not offended at all, because I am 99% sure who wrote it. If that 1% chance is another person, then it would be some lonely person who loves to hate my blog, and me as a person.
Ignoring People
You see, I hate hurting people so much, but they love to hurt me. Even if there was some misunderstanding in the beginning, but their behaviour in the end, like they did in that comment, really crossed the red line.
I will tell you guys a story. You see, if this person I am thinking of, and maybe I am wrong, really wondered why I have been ignoring them, then they should have just clicked my name on GTalk or on MSN messenger and asked me what the problem is. I was not hiding. I was always there in their face every day! However, this person thinks that I have to always be the one initiating something. Why? I don’t know. What do you guys think?
Let’s be honest, I have not been emailing this person or talking to this person forever. I do apologize. I was depressed and I really didn’t want to talk to anyone that constantly gave me too much advice. Also, I felt that I lost trust in that person, so I ignored them. Why should I tell a person off if I don’t feel comfortable being friends with them anymore? End it peacefully. No hard feelings or burning any bridges.
I was a very depressed person, and I tend to ignore the entire world when I am in that state. So, being in that state for months the past year really didn’t make this person any special. I was ignoring everyone. I didn’t see anyone else caring? Honestly, people don’t care.
Moreover, this person wrote the comment in order for me to write this post. It was so obvious, but what am I to do? I have to feed people’s egos. I have to write grammatically horrible posts and trashy content to satisfy people. I don’t use some editing program that will fix my poor programmer’s English. Did I ever mention that I was an English major? I don’t remember, because I am not. Anyways, I make money off this site. I use it for good humanitarian causes and send money to people who have nothing. So, people hate my site, and that’s why they come here every day and subscribe to it. I didn’t force anyone to read this trash. Why did you?
Conclusion
This person, yes you, really should have not done this. I blocked you off everything now, even Facebook. I honestly did nothing to hurt you, but you really pushed it this time, and I thought you were bigger than that. I thought you were very smart and intelligent, and you would never stoop down to this level. I considered you as one of the smart people I met in my life.
Not one day I have gone around and said trash about you using your name. I never did anything to insult your pride. I didn’t do anything. I was just ignoring you. I don’t lower my self and talk trash about people that one day meant something to me, and helped me reach far in life. I am not like that. Surprisingly, you will never understand that, and that’s fine. I am not here to convince you or anyone else with my view points. This blog is just my diary. It is just thoughts in my head. It is trash and not worth reading to be honest. It’s just a visible online brain dump.
Does anyone gain or lose anything from reading it? Nop.
Are people obligated to believe it? Nop.
Why does it bother you then? I have no clue.
Honestly, I was so meaning to talk to you last night. I was waiting on GTalk because gosh, I felt like I had to talk to you. I wanted to start a new chapter and end anything crazy, because I wanted to change and be my self again. But you doing what you did today, was probably meant to be. You ended it with your own hands. No more turning back.
Resolutions
Did you fulfill yours? You did today. Was it in the top of your list? Instead of being discrete about it and considerate, you resorted to this maneuver? I was so disappointed. First the continuous checking my blog with anonymouse.org and hidemyass.com, and days where you used your real home address (which was the honest and best way. It was what a normal confident person would do.) But today, you confessed the Hard Truth! You must be proud and tapping your self on the back now.
Oh that hard truth! You just like hurting people because it makes you happy. I never thought one day you were like that. Shocker, people change! You are the type of person that I cannot communicate with anymore. I am sorry. Everything related to you is blocked. Just leave my site and don’t bother with the likes of me again. You have better things to worry about in life. Why me? I am not worth it. Believe me.
P.S. This was not a cat fight. That’s even more shocking.
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I know it’s hard not to reply ….but u have done that.such a person does not deserve any typing from you.Arab or not .living in the west or not .believe me I have been following u for a while and ur posts relate to my problems…..the only problem such a person have is dealing with educated open minded people who dare to “for a change” to share thier thoughts
Try to not let it bother you. I know easier said than done. Don’t lower your standards to this persons.
I don’t know the entire story but I do understand where ur coming from. Mona from what you write you remind me a lot of myself and I turned out pretty damn well and balanced. Just wanted to offer support
@Marwa
Yeah I agree.. but oh well. What’s done is done.
@Dena b
Thanks for the support, and I am not bothered. They wanted to know what’s going on, and they pushed my buttons to write out this post, and I did. End of story. Life goes on.
Mona
Exactly. Life goes on
Now get back to blogging
Well some people hate you and some people love you. That happens to anyone. But life goes on and blogging as well. I used to have blog in http://someguyfromplanet.blogspot.com but I think I’m kinda abandon it now. I know nothing to write anymore lol.
That’s why I came here and read all these trash lool.
just kiddin’.
@Hudagaya
That’s fine. I read a lot of grammatically horrible trash every day. I don’t care. It’s entertaining sometimes and quite interesting too.
Mona please teach me some Arabic. Please write some arabic lesson post in here
@Hudagaya
This is irrelevant to this post. Sorry.
Water under the bridge look forward and move on. Life is too short to spend it trying to please people.
@Oussama
Yep. I couldn’t agree more.
mona u make me feel stupit lol caz i really love some of the topics u have talked about n i cant say that i have never learned anything caz i know 4 sure i have learned a few things by reading some of yr storys salams n hope u have a better day tomorow
Ur handling it all maturely, well done! Love when you publish hilarious hate mail on your blog
Dear Mona,
I feel bad after reading this post about what I said to you earlier, because you think I’m some person you know. I would like to clarify that I have no fucking clue who you’re talking about. I never even had you on Facebook or Google Talk. At this point, however, this person, whoever they are, must be very surprised that you blocked them, and extremely disappointed at your impulsive behavior demonstrated by this action. Tsk, tsk, tsk. Although I feel sorry for you, remember it was your fault for assuming I am this person you are talking about.
Complaining about matters is completely fine, and so is possessing terrible writing skills… as long as you don’t act like the people you complain about, and as long as you don’t claim to be ‘too intelligent’ at the same time. What matters, however, is the concept. You may be hurt now, but how do you think people would feel when you call them selfish pieces of shit? It is only selfish to say ouch when you’re hurt but not feel it when others are hurt by your words. It didn’t hurt me, but I’m sure it hurt someone. What hurt me is seeing a beautiful young person like yourself consumed by arrogance.
Believe me, my dear Lady, it brings me no pleasure knowing you are hurt, and I swear by the Holy Lord, if I saw you crying, that I would wipe your delicate tears with my own hands. But it’s a lesson to be learned. God knows that if I e-mailed you instead, you would’ve just left me speaking to the wind, and that would be missing the point.
If it would please you, I could provide you with my IM or phone number, and I promise to listen to you insult me all that you wish. Also, if you decide to talk to that person again, I wouldn’t mind explaining to them what happened.
God bless you.
NON SCIENTIAE SUPERBIA, SED MODESTIA SAPIENTIAE.
“Not pride of knowledge, but humility of wisdom.”
Anyone who starts their criticism using English grammar as a stick should be flogged. It is all to obvious that he/she is jelious and resentful of you and your “status.” Strict hard and fast rules about English is rediculous. Gramarians cannot even agree. Anyhow, that’s my pet peve. Just move on, and be happy that you have less dead weight to carry around with you. When you feel depressed just remember how many of us love interacting with you and looking in on your life from time to time.
Keep your head up.
@The Truth
So, you are saying that you are the 1% chance of people that love to hate my blog, and me as a person?
I find that hard to believe. Anyways, does not matter anymore. The damage is done. End of story. You did it with your own hands. Who ever you claim to be.
@The Truth
Just out of curiosity, how good is your Arabic?
For someone hiding behind a pseudonym, that is highly doubtful.
Exactly why am I feeding this troll? Perhaps I haven’t had a good cyber bloodbath since that spat with Craig?! Any thoughts?
Hey Mona, It is thought that bullying is a way for people to restore the status quo in society. life goes on with or without you but in the time you do have, do what you believe in. In my experience when people criticize you like The Truth has, thats the furthest they will ever go. Stay strong, the weak womens club is full and has a 3 year waiting list. xxx
@Meyrick Kirby
This person is not Arab.. so don’t bother people. Life goes on.
I’m used to people ignoring me, so I don’t complain. Everybody goes through struggles in life. How they choose to handle those struggles is their own business. Unlike a lot of people you choose to vent your frustration through this blog. I commend you for that.
For the record, I am not that person. Not even in thought or in deed. I don’t throw my anger at people (I learned that doesn’t change anything). I find that rudeness only bites you in the end. Good for you for cutting him off. If anything, their words are just empty phrases that you shouldn’t take personally.
Good luck with your struggles and the best of skill in overcoming obstacles such as these.
Mona, I’m feeling rather envious. Managing to piss off so many people is rather an achievement. I knew there was something about you that impressed me
@Meyrick Kirby
Honestly, that’s the best compliment I ever had on my blog. Thank you!
Hey Mona, I have to agree… when the damage is done, there’s just no turning back. Happy blogging and I hope you didn’t let this get to you. All the best this New Year!
This new year has started off great! Don’t you guys agree?
I would have ditched that person ages ago, regardless of whether they left that comment or not.
@Jamie
The thing is, this person was not like that, or maybe this person was like this and I just never knew it. Oh well.. whatever really.
Ah mona, do you ever read Dooce’s blog? She has a whole section called ‘monetise the hate’ where she cuts and pastes all the bitchy emails/comments etc she gets and it’s full of an obscene amount of ads. But obviously people are nosy and want to read through the hate mail for a giggle, thereby making her more money through the haters. You may have pissed off enough people for that to work for you!
@Nithya
You have not been on her website for a long time. She only had that up for like a month or so. She removed it some time ago. It was hilarious though.
In one word I would say your blog is simply awesome… Really love it… When I am depressed I read your blog and it makes me happy…
@Nasif
Well, it’s good that my blog makes you happy! 
Hahaha.. even though at times my posts sound depressing too?