Beauty is a sin
My sister told me today, “Mona, you are evil and mean!” I agree with her and it brings me to a bigger point! Oh points.. some are small, some are tiny, some are huge and bold! Anyways, to the main point: sorry to so and so who sent me a message on Facebook the past weekend. When I read your message I thought, “ok, I am not that pretty or my beauty is so extravagant or so precious. Therefore, I don’t give a crap who sees me.”
I am assuming this person was going through my Twitpic album and read the comments some dumb ass lonely guys wrote. What will happen if she read all the comments in my blog? My blog is a SIN! Anyways, I got tired of deleting comments. What am I to do? Hide behind an internet veil? I am human. I want people to see who I am. It’s like going to work. Is a woman not allowed to go to work? Men are not allowed to see her? It’s a sin to show your beauty?
By the way, we are all beautiful people, because God created us that way. So those extreme Muslims that think I am a walking sin, then you are openly telling me that being a woman is a sin. You are a walking sin too! Cover up! Cause dammit.. I don’t wear a veil and tight ass clothes and heavy makeup walking down the street. I rather sin completely! I don’t do it in parts like some people!
This is what SHE said,
stop showing ur ebeauty ya helwa!!! its haram habibti u take soo many pics no one eneds to see a womens’s beauty and ur comments by those men are haram also wat they say is dsgusting
You can tell she is not from my side of the sinful world.
Future Goal
I want to do this one thing one day. I want to go around other people’s blogs and tell them that they are wrong! What they are writing, presenting, or discussing on their blogs is wrong! I feel that I am obligated to tell other Arab bloggers they are wrong! Wow! That would relieve a lot of stress to tell you the truth. I might end up being obnoxious and liking it!
If you hate me or think I am a walking sin, then bravo, bravo. You have accomplished a great deal in life by pointing the obvious. Now go back to watching your music videos and obsessing over celebrities’ beauty and how to make your self look like one, so other Muslim/Arab girls envy you.
Advice, Blah Blah, Culture, Religion, They said what?, Whatever!





It’s like the movie Apollo 13 where the Captain Lovell character says: “We’re not going to go bouncing off the walls for ten minutes, ’cause we’re just going to end up back here with the same problems!”
It solves nothing to go on a rampage and make similar comments on other people’s sites. Where’s it going to get you… nowhere. I believe that those who make rude and negative comments against you are shallow and act out of emotion and not out of common sense. If they are the kind of people who make judgments out of emotion, there is no need for you to get emotional and spread the hate to those who didn’t hurt you to begin with. You’re better than that. It shows character to show composure even in the face of obvious disgrace against you.
Gandhi interpreted the phrase “Turn the other Cheek” as not an eye for an eye, but rather force those who inflict pain to continue to do so again and see the error of their ways.
I do hope that you can take a deep breath and see the beauty of the world around you before you act out in a similar fashion.
That girl could either be genuinely following a higher religious belief, or she could be jealous, or offended. I dont think there should be a problem with it because you are quite modest in general. xx
Many Muslims think I am a walking sin too so don’t feel too bad! When I was at USC all the Muslim Student Union guys felt the need to lecture me on how I should cover my head, etc. After arguing with them I realize I really didn’t need to bother. They will never change their mind and really, I realized I didn’t care!
@Ameena, Mona:
I agree with both you of, nobody other than your father/mother & brother has the right to ask you to wear a veil or do hijab. If they weren’t bothered with you having boyfriends/skin revealing clothing line and particularly ‘tight-ass jeans’ or wearing short skirts showing your beautiful legs off in public/uni just because you wanted to and they(your parents or elder siblings) were ‘pretty normal’ with it. Then, what’s the big deal?
You should tell all those free advisers on face: “It’s none of your business if my parents allowed me to do anything I want”; what goes of your father? And tell them to start with their own home instead of stopping ‘Enlightened chicks’ on roads.
@Christopher (AKA: CaJoh)
I won’t go on a rampage and do that to other bloggers. If you have not noticed so far from my blogging career, I am lazy! I barely maintain this site.
@Ameena
I used to get that from the Muslim girls. Guys didn’t bother. lol
I you can’t be famous, be notorious
She should be criticizing those men for their perverted and disgusting comments instead of judging you for having “too” many pictures. Comments like hers just perpetuate the lack of accountability that Arab and Muslim men have when it comes to their own modesty and conduct. People like her are bored with their lives so they have to create drama.
Arab women are genuinely beautiful, people just have to deal with it.
Sorry, that should be “If you can’t be famous, be notorious”. One of these days, my typing is going to break the obscene publications act.
Reply to Anonymous.
“@Ameena, Mona:
I agree with both you of,”
I agree with this part only. I don’t know if I agree with you completely mona, but I think it was okay to make a post on it. And of course I agree about that you can look how you want, and show your photos as long as you are comfortable with it, and if you didn’t want to show them it could be about privacy of people stealing them on the internet or misusing them, and wouldn’t have to be for the reasons the other person gave.
“nobody other than your father/mother & brother has the right to ask you to wear a veil or do hijab.”
No-one else has the right to ask you to wear a veil. Full stop.
And I agree with what Mrs S says.
That in stricter muslim countries or families: women have to hide themselves, because men can’t control themselves. The behaviour of the men is the problem, but the country or the society or families make a rule about changing something of the woman’s ability to look like a woman as she was born, instead changing the behaviour of the men which is just a choice.
@Mrs.S
I 100% agree with every word you said! Bravo!
I had a quick look at your twitpics and anyone who doesnt think you are attractive is silly
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Nice blog btw :]
Cupboard Creatures!
You are walking sin! Which sounds pretty awesome to me in some aspects. Poop on the people that bother you. You seem like one awesome chica and I’m glad you have this blog to express yourself. I love reading it.
ROFL my Captcha is sinned Korea… your not the only one that is sin.
@Keith
Thanks!
@Alison
I am a walking sin.. !
Awww.. thanks.. sweet comment!
LOL, i think she is just trying to help you out, haha but i love how she lectures you using such endearing words.