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Blah Blah, Culture, Random Thoughts

The other day I was being a curious individual, searching Google looking for other perspectives of the issue of unmarried girls over 30, especially in Islam and the Arab culture. I was curious to know what others have said and what they are thinking. I was also curious to know if it mattered or it is a sin to choose not to, or is it only a sin in eyes of a culture and just looked down upon.

I wanted to know if it is something that we did wrong or is society thinking we are wrong. Because I don’t like to define wrong unless I tried what is right first or vice versa.

So I read several girl’s blogs complaining that people think they only care about their careers or education and think they don’t need a man. Or they look down on men that don’t think their intelligence is important in a marriage, and that’s why they hold on to it and think it is more important than anything else.

I have to disagree with that whole thought process because I was a victim of such accusations, but I never understood the reasoning behind it. When random men email me accusing me of the same thing, then I pause to reflect on such a thought. Do I care more about my career than meeting a guy?

• I knew girls that cared about getting married than anything else in the world.
• I knew girls that are intelligent but cared more about school and work than marriage.
• I knew girls that found equality between both marriage and career but suffered later by neglecting their children.
• I knew girls that got educated, got married and forgot that they are smart enough to be someone and contribute to society in some way.

However, I never met someone that didn’t care about work or a career and are only in it because they don’t know what else to do, and just dream that some day things will just get better.

Some of us girls, no matter how smart we are and educated, don’t really think that life is that great or work is that amazing or we are doing something astonishing. We are just waiting and trying to make the best of something we have and keeps us busy. How long, why, and how we ended up this way is really pointless to discuss.

I just feel this shame that our society puts on unmarried girls is psychologically deteriorating a large and very growing percentage unwed females. I wish society didn’t contribute anymore harm and just let life take its course. It’s hard changing society I know, but no harm in trying.

Blah Blah, Culture, Depressed, Random Thoughts, They said what?, Whatever!

I am curious to know YOUR view point about the revolutions going on in the middle east.

1. How do you view the events so far and  the leaders who are resisting and killing their people?

2. What do you think the future holds for the middle east?

Please add your comment below and let’s discuss this like civilized people!

Advice, Blah Blah, Culture, Random Thoughts, They said what?, Whatever!

From a HOLIDAY THAT I STARTED!

And I forgot to blog about!

Today is Kiss Me I am Arab day. I declared it as another hallmark holiday because you know, we can’t get enough of those!! So I got lots of email kisses!

This is its 3rd year in a row!

Enjoy the day, and blow kisses to an Arab, they really need it with such chaos they are living at back home.

Blah Blah, Culture, Random Thoughts

I have been watching CNN all day cause of what happened in Japan. It is a devastation just to see such powerful natural disasters with your own eyes from so far away. I was sitting on the couch crying because none of us know what will happen tomorrow anymore. And all these lives.. all gone.

This morning, after a week of almost daily rain and mountains of snow melting, a huge winter blizzard hit again my home city. It hit in the AM hours, right after the earthquake in Japan. It wasn’t predicted to be this severe, but it just happened. This just shows us that us humans can’t predict very well and we are only guesstimating. In the end it is all in the hands of God. We can only just sit there and watch.

Moreover, The crisis in the middle east and the most evil dictators known in humanity. Who in the world calls him self a leader and kills his people because they don’t want him anymore? What is wrong with this picture? Then a huge natural disaster.. it’s like watching a movie, but you can’t help but realize that it’s not digitally made and this is the real thing and it will only get worse.

Anger.. just anger every where. It makes me weak to my stomach and I just want to curl in my own corner and isolate my self. The world has officially become a horrible scene to witness.

Depressed, Random Thoughts