Fifteen-Fifteen
I ran a poll about a serious topic almost a couple of weeks ago where I asked my peepz what could be worse for a 28 year old. I am 28 and single. However, I rather be single than be divorced or living through an unhappy marriage. Obviously, my visitors would rather not be living an unhappy marriage, and that’s why the choice for that was at 71% of the 96 people that voted.

However, I have only one concern with the result. The same number of people voted for divorced and single as being worse. Is being single as bad as being divorced? I am guessing that that lonely factor really gets to people. Obviously, I picked divorced. I don’t want to be known as the girl who finalized a marriage at such a young age with a divorce. I would have picked unhappily married, but I guess there is room there to work out a marriage. Unfortunately, it would be at the cost of not living the happy life that we all dream of while we are trying to do that. Obviously, such marriages would most likely end in divorce, or murder. On the other hand, things might turn out better in the end. Who knows!
The only thing that utterly concerns me is the fact that people have this mentality that being with someone, no matter how bad the marriage is or inevitable the result of divorce is, is better than being single at 28, or whatever age they feel is inappropriate to not still be married.
My only advice to the masses, it is ok to still be single. We live in a world with different idealogies now. Each of us has different and more elaborate dreams that we want to pursue before such commitment, or want to make wiser choices in that critical area of our lives first. So it is nothing to be ashamed of!
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